My answers are too lame i guess, no offence to anybody .My mood is elsewhere and on high actually cant say whether i make sense or not.
And she finds out months later. What would be her reaction?
she must ask all that money to be put in her account if its given then she should have .
What would she do when she finds out that they want another Rs. 25 0000?
sorry , no money.father is no ATM , neither father has not invested in any retirement policy.
Would she tell her dad, or keep it to herself and possibly endure mental or even physical abuse from her in-laws and hubby?
better to log complaint at police station and keep your parents informed.hubby is not good so start legal process for separation.girl should be strong and should not take all these torture.
Would she have the guts to walk out on her hubby? Or would she fear being stigmatised in society?
she should have guts for both to walk out and even to face society for that matter . fear will lead to self destruction.
Would it actually be a social stigma if she walks out on her hubby, or would society just ignore (I doubt that will happen).
see you become part of society eventually .initially it may effect you (if they does) but they will also shut their mouth over a period . practically speaking , shift to a new place and rent a flat,start a new life , stay away from your relatives (bad) then society will not even effect you .society will also get tired of all this.
What if she turns out to be pregnant? Would that have an effect on her decision?
Employment is solution for majority of problems (especially for women) in our society to make a living or a new beginning in life. If she is firm abt what she wants in life like single being mother then she should opt for it.
for her stay they want money and dont you think expenses would double if they want baby. what would husband and their family do?
what if she is able to conceive but husband is not able to ? (anyway this is another debatable topic)
Will she become depressed and suffer the same outcome as Arti.
better not to play with fire (read dowry) in life to get burnt.
Now, I may be banned if i say this here. We must encourage court marriage and intercaste/religion love marriages .
Man should be man of responsibilities standing on his own feet , only then opt for marriage and say NO to dowry.
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