Uma, couldn't agree more, thank you for putting it out. Each and every word is just clear as real👏.
I have been a kid who have been away from parents sort of, since childhood, like when I was 4-5 may be. Away from dad for 11 years, (under happy circumstances only Ofcourse), but with mother. Then away from both my parents for 8 years, then spent a few years with both of them, at home and now again, m away from both of them. And all this while, my attachment kept shifting. I sense you can understand that, How and why it would be happening. You feel closeness when you are physically close/present there with your people. Else there are many reasons and things to take you away. Still if your conscience keeps telling you, that they are your people, you just can't disown them or just can't stop loving them, caring for them, feeling for them, they are your world, you are ought be there for them, then it works. But if you get busy in life, somewhere else, then it doesn't. You might recall or remember your loved ones, sometimes, yuhi. But that bond needs something more, to flourish, to grow. And that is two way communication.
I call my parents, If I dun, they do. They would never stop loving me, as m their kid, product of their love, their bond, their relationship. But I might get busy in some other things when I get my next family. Again it depends upon me, to keep telling my conscience that who is important to me and what that person mean to me. My parents have always been my priority, because I have always focused on the sacrifices they have made for me. And they will remain, till my last breath.
I might be sounding all ridiculous and senseless here, and you might disagree with me. But that is not even my concern, I agree with Uma what she said in Introduction and so I put it here, that it is but very obvious, for any sort of connection or attachment or bond, to stay connected. Else one can only keep telling and giving 1000 reasons to be there for those whom we love. And then again, SidNaaz are strangers to us, yes they are, as we are to them. And among strangers, a connection is WAYYYYYYY more important than a family.
It is us who are not leaving them, as we keep telling our conscience that we have invested in them and we love them. That is all. Thank you.
SidNaaz 🥳😆
Edited by CatcherInTheRye - 4 years ago
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