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Originally posted by: sreeja_rox
The hindu weddings in Kerala are actually very unfair . The engagements and weddings both are done from the girl’s side and it wont end there . We got this new custom of giving kangans to MIL and groom ki sisters .
Yaar it's very discouraging to get married then religiously😔
Hahaha i second u . We girls need to be really bold to stay on . But yea personally for me after marriage jaldi uthna sabke liye khaana banaana kind normal stuffs werent asked . Wen i was with my in laws used to wake up aaram se only by the time I had to login for my work . 😆 if they would try ti impose me with anything I would be like pehle apne bete ko bolo phir mujhe bolo 🤣🤣
Originally posted by: sreeja_rox
Hahaha i second u . We girls need to be really bold to stay on . But yea personally for me after marriage jaldi uthna sabke liye khaana banaana kind normal stuffs werent asked . Wen i was with my in laws used to wake up aaram se only by the time I had to login for my work . 😆 if they would try ti impose me with anything I would be like pehle apne bete ko bolo phir mujhe bolo 🤣🤣
Lol😆🤣
Good u stand ur ground👍🏼
lol 😆 no other way out 🤣
I also got a Kangan from my MIL😳
Originally posted by: sreeja_rox
Its a custom for the north indians I believe. For people like me from south India its the reverse . We have to buy new gold kangan and give it to our MIL
We get gold ka mangulsutra from in laws .
No it's not a custom it's about availability. Like my family doesn't have any heirloom jewels
So after MIL death who get those kangans?
Originally posted by: -Raindrops-
I also got a Kangan from my MIL😳
Not anything else?
In shows it's mostly kangans!! Like there are heirloom necklace, rings etc but no FL will get dead saas ka pyar in form of kangans only
I have from both of my moms … I have already decide to give my mom’s to my daughter and my mother in laws kangan to my son 😆
You too only got kangans not other jewelry pieces?
I have no clue about that now . Either there beta or beti has it not sure . 😆Originally posted by: shruti46
No it's not a custom it's about availability. Like my family doesn't have any heirloom jewels
So after MIL death who get those kangans?
Originally posted by: sreeja_rox
I have no clue about that now . Either there beta or beti has it not sure . 😆
Beta will not wear it which means DIL will get it and that will be you.
It means you are paying for your own jewelry and loaning to her🤣
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