Vivek oberoi's most matured post on SSR demise - Page 4

When we say Sushant shouldn't done that ? What will be state of his father ? Are we blaming Sushant ? Not really .... This incident has really shaken all and who would understand better then Vivek who went bullying during his times. So let's not jump at people's vocabulary.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

What is wrong in saying suicide is not the solution ? Suicide is certainly not the solution. Infact it's getting from smaller to bigger problem or from a bigger problem to the biggest problem.

Did he blame Sushant for anything ? But today we lost beautiful life ....a father lost his son....look at the state of family .... We all say shit Sushant shouldn't have done it .... Does that mean we blaming Sushant ? No we are blaming almost every individual who wasn't there for him.

This is problem of today's world that instead of seeing the intentions we will literally dissect the statement and so over critical without even understanding the sentiments behind. Too much harsh. Vivek s feelings are almost same as ours towards Sushant.

I have made myself exceedingly clear on the point I was trying to convey. I suggest you re-read it and take into consideration that certain words can have different implications, regardless of intent. If you still don’t understand, than God Bless because I don’t have the patience to continue repeating myself 😊. Take care

Same old, same old. Me me me. Nothing mature here.

However, I agree. No parent should have to bury their child. It is tragic beyond comprehension.

ugh, this is horrible

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

I kinda understand when people say "suicide is never a solution", but people also easily forget for someone who's going theough the bottom of the abyss "death" seems like the ONLY solution!

Suicide is never a solution comes off like you're shaming the victim for not having the will to sustain! Will kaha se laaye when someone's got none of that during their end times.

Killing yourself has to be the most terrifying step ever for anyone!

Why would anyone want to kill themselves when there's so much to life?! Ofc for that person "there isn't much to life" hence the step closer to death!

I wish people would NOT preach with "suicide isn't a solution" rather spread awareness how not to shame someone contemplating about not having much to life for.

Be the support, be the guiding eyes and ears, be there for someone going through depression so they can find the very hope they are lacking! :)

Otherwise more power to Vivek for not losing hope and finding the light in the deepest pit of darkness!

what is you are saying makes sense.......but we cannot forget that this post is not for Sushant.......cause unfortunately he is gone forever....... this is for those other people (patients) who look at him and think, if he did it, why shouldn't they do it......... if even one such person with suicidal thoughts, read this and try to get help, try to speak to their loved ones and eventually get well, then its a win, isn't it ?

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I have made myself exceedingly clear on the point I was trying to convey. I suggest you re-read it and take into consideration that certain words can have different implications, regardless of intent. If you still don’t understand, than God Bless because I don’t have the patience to continue repeating myself 😊. Take care

I very well understand what u said and the implications of certain words but sometimes we don't have to be nit picking. Nways even I don't have patience. God bless. Take care.

P.s.now there is another post coming up with Sushant s fan suicide. That is the reason it is emphasized that suicide isn't a solution. People shouldn't take such step. Not in all situation it's means mocking of depression or calling selfish or something like that.