Originally posted by: adventurousman
there is nothing wrong with outgoing girls or even girls having relationships before marriage but the same girl can take care of the house, cook for his man and be happy taking care of the family and that's what she wants and the guy wants that kind of wife, so what's the problem?
or lets say he wants someone who is homely, doesn't go to parties,drinks and is again happy taking care of the family, so what's the problem?
yeah the outgoing girl can go and do what she wants but u don't tell him what he wants. he is not looking for u so u then call him a mcp or narrow minded, why?
The thing is a guy can wish for whatever he wnats but that does not mean he is always right π.
See the problem here is he is saying he wants someone confined to the home, a girl cannot be outgoing and also religiously do house chores as you are saying. Just say yout wife wants you to be confined at home all day, while she will earn big bucks, will you agree? You may agree, than good. If you don't, should I call you s**t? Page3 hungry? Machonazi? Nah I won't. Because I know you are also an individual with your needs, aim and ambition. The problem with our society is we think cooking, cleaning, taking care of house etc etc is a job of a woman. So when woman protests or is bit rebellion towards this, we start calling them feminazi and blah blah.
See I don't agree in being PC, I am not at all a pc as you can see i am on 20% warningπ. But people need to get out of this thinking that woman should have a particular set of traits, we have to see them as individuals.
Al so don't think I support the sudden rush of feminazis, because I think feminazi was worse than machos. As they think drinking, smoking and f**king around is equality. I don't support the Deepika brand of feminism.
lthough I agree with you on one thing is that people are becoming PC and critical of each and every thing. Tiger what he said is wrong, but we have to get the factors that he is brought up in a society which still views housewife as the ideal wife (tbh house wife is a really good concept if men gives 100% respect to his wife) and anything less is bad. So jumping on him as some are doing is weird.
Just like few days back people were crazy because of one silly ad.
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