Originally posted by: adventurousman
its his choice isn't it? he is not forcing some outgoing girl to do house chores. He wants a girl who can cook, clean the house, take care of him. There are girls who are happy doing that so he is just gonna look for them and marry one of them, what's the issue?
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Issue is he does not require a partner, he needs someone to baby sit him😆. Someone to feed him, someone to massage him and also maybe wash his ass after he shits.
Ofcourse he may not have said that in that context he might have tried to say he needs a simple girl who is housewife, loyal and loves him, not related to show biz. But he sounded like an ass when he said that.
[quote]u will be judged anyway. Guys are judged all the time too. If they sleep around they're called upon like he is a player, not marriage material etc.
Absolutely wrong, or I am happy you are living in an advanced society where both guys and girls are looked upon. Guys no matter how much rangeela, they are hardly judged and people are like chalta hain. Mard hain.
[quote]Same goes for girls. If she sleeps around a lot, she will be called a s**t, simple as that.
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Yeah. But issue is if a girl smokes, she is a bad girl, if she has guy friends she is a s**t, if she wears minis she is a s**t, if she drinks she is a wh**e. Guys dont face the same back lash girls.
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She has full rite to go and party and sleep around with multiple guys in the name of individuality and whatnot imo they're taking it to the extreme. They were repressed for so long that now they're like we're gonna do all kinds of things even things which aren't good for us or that we even want just because someone told us to want it and be this way.
its not anyone's job to clean or take care of the house but women are better at it and most guys don't want to do all that, they feel emasculated and the woman doesn't want that either.
its very simple. U have your goals, u want to be a certain way, u want to go out there, earn money, have career, party, drink, smoke weed, take drugs, sleep around, have gangbangs, orgies, etc. Its all fine.
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Nah it is not fine atleast you are not fine with it, as I can sense it.
You seem to confuse feminism with radical version. Not all woman who support in equality hate men or thing house hold chores is there work. And it is a men's fault if he things working at home makes him emasculated.
[quote]but its also fine if I'm not looking for that kind of girl and looking for someone else who will take care of me and my children, who will cook, more feminine in nature, not wild, etc.[/quote]
More feminine in nature?? 😆
See this what i meant to say you are still not over with the fact that women are changing and yoy are mistaking feminism with Deepika my choice stupid feminism. And all the stupid girls who go around saying if men can do it so can we. And not for good things but for stupid things which they themselves thing is wrong.
[quote]u have the rite what u want to do but I also have the rite to not want that kind of girl and when I don't then I shouldn't be called MCP for it, is that fair?
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You have the right to do anything but others also have the right to thing that what you did or thing is bullshit. Yeah the girl calling Tiger misogynistic is silly.
[Quote]so here the poor guy has his own dreams and wants a certain kind of girl so what? is he forcing anyone to do those things? If he forcing some party girl or career girl to stay at home and take care of his kids and cook for him? no.
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Tiger is not a poor guy or a sata savitra.
Also what is party girl or career girl?😆 so girls who are housewife cannot party or think of having a career?
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people are looking for different things, u would be amazed how many girls out there are looking just for that, to be a housewife, they're out there, I know many,they're happy being that no one is forcing them, one is not better than the other.
I wont be amazed. I know there are girls who want to be house wife, but I have also seen those very house wifes suffer identity crisis and suffer when their husbands turn out to be the wrong guy.
The problem is both the girls who are happy living in the stereotyping feminine rules and those who support feminism think the other is loser and don't look at the bright side of either and suffer.
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