Originally posted by: KochurShaakBata
I find blaming all men in this open letter unjustified.I can't talk about the whole country but judging the environment I stay in, I feel there is a lot of anger in men too against the rapists but somehow not just men but everybody has just given up. India had never seen a protest like the one that happened during the Nirbhaya incident but what was the result? Was the accused given a harsh punishment?We have seen so many protests but still there's some problem cropping up every time.Even if we protest for harsher punishment like castration, there will be hindrance by human rights groups and the laws written in the constitution.And even if laws are changed, there is always a fear of power being misused,the very reason even euthanasia is not legal in the country. There are so many angles that one needs to see before changing a law that I honestly feel, we have reached a stage where we are a hopeless nation when it comes to safety of women.
Earlier people would ask girls to stay home to be safe, nowadays even your own house is not safe thanks to creepy tuition teachers and pedophiles.
I have immense respect for women,much more than men but sorry, I don't see any solution to the problem of safety of women.We just have to live the way we are living now.Even a pepper spray cannot guarantee safety in a country like India.
Originally posted by: cougarTown
men are important to be targeted coz those who rape are MEN. So to show those MEN that your own gender stands against you for what you are doing is important.
Well as clarification for sexual pleasure in background of rape , I meant the situation when there is a partner and copulation is done with her free consent (ok , love , moresoever in this age , not necessarily a requirement for sexual gratification)..And there is complete lack of such consent in rape (marital ones included)..May b they achieve orgasm in that but that is total pervertness and unimaginable..Even male animals don't commit it 'forcefully'..Or do they ??
Btw as per wiki , India has avg. of 2 per 100,000 while it is 24 per 100,000 for UK and 28 per 100,000 for US incidents of reported rape..
Well as clarification for sexual pleasure in background of rape , I meant the situation when there is a partner and copulation is done with her free consent (ok , love , moresoever in this age , not necessarily a requirement for sexual gratification)..And there is complete lack of such consent in rape (marital ones included)..May b they achieve orgasm in that but that is total pervertness and unimaginable..Even male animals don't commit it 'forcefully'..Or do they ??
Btw as per wiki , India has avg. of 2 per 100,000 while it is 24 per 100,000 for UK and 28 per 100,000 for US incidents of reported rape..
We Indians are one pathetically patient race.There will be agitation for few days after that everything will be forgotten and forgiven until there's another such incident..This is because of our lackluster attitude, there's no one to blame except us..We have suffered for 200 years under British rule..We have slave mentality in our blood and our fate is to suffer nothing else..I know I sound very pessimistic but I'm one todayOriginally posted by: KochurShaakBata
I know and that's what I said that there's a lot of anger from men as well.The only reason why I feel the anger is not getting transformed into something big is because of the hopeless outcome each and every protest has in India.
I would appreciate her if she writes the same open letter to women to take a stand ...
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