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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: --GaBBar--
thats nice . These people are very hard to find them😃
In my case , I'm also single but I have witnessed such things with few if my girl 'friends' even I have felt for the same for quite a few girls . So not good in case with me

well then learn to differentiate between love n friendship 😆

Attraction is totally a different thing altogether

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Well rohan n kanchi r happy with each other deeply in love n have no problem with each other but still rohan is linked with lopa

Arey baba try to understand they went in a reality show and people will have judgements and perceptions. You know rohan loves kanchi right so be happy. Why are you getting so affected ya? In today's world break ups also happen. He is not married 😆

So it shouldn't be a problem to anyone. You seem to be hardcore Roka fan😆 or are you kanchi s relative or kanchi herself. Has rohan personally met you to tell how smooth his equation with kanchi! 😆

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Amit

@GunDaa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

well then learn to differentiate between love n friendship 😆
Attraction is totally a different thing altogether

Kya karu jab tak single hu and kabhi Kisi se pyaar nahi ho ta tabh tak yahi hoga😆

Coz I have never loved anyone and I don't know what feelings are ..Isliye thoda saa attachment and attraction liking Mei badhh jati hai .

I guess jab tak Love nahi hota tabh tak ye baat samjh Mei nahi aane wali😆

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Arey baba try to understand they went in a reality show and people will have judgements and perceptions. You know rohan loves kanchi right so be happy. Why are you getting so affected ya? In today's world break ups also happen. He is not married 😆
So it shouldn't be a problem to anyone. You seem to be hardcore Roka fan😆 or are you kanchi s relative or kanchi herself. Has rohan personally met you to tell how smooth his equation with kanchi! 😆

I m a rohan fan that's why I respect his choice

Didn't knew rohan before bb n kanchi too I came to know about her through rohan in bb

I m not affected I am just expressing my pov

N my question is that only why have judgements n perceptions about only a girl boy relationship? Why can't people accept them as friends?

N I would wish for rohan that only good things should happen for him, few fans with personal whims n fancies who wants him to fulfill their ropa fantasy should not upset him

N his equation with kanchi is quite clear if u follow him on social media, kanchi was live on instagram today n he very cutely declared his love for her live n called her cute

He has been declaring his love for kanchi in all his interviews

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

I m a rohan fan that's why I respect his choice
Didn't knew rohan before bb n kanchi too I came to know about her through rohan in bb
I m not affected I am just expressing my pov
N my question is that only why have judgements n perceptions about only a girl boy relationship? Why can't people accept them as friends?
N I would wish for rohan that only good things should happen for him, few fans with personal whims n fancies who wants him to fulfill their ropa fantasy should not upset him
N his equation with kanchi is quite clear if u follow him on social media, kanchi was live on instagram today n he very cutely declared his love for her live n called her cute
He has been declaring his love for kanchi in all his interviews

Why can't you accept a simple thing that a relationship will be judged on a reality show. Nowadays people choose instagram to display their stuff. So along with appreciation criticism also comes in. When you choose to be public figure. All this follows. Your every move in under scrutiny. Secondly in India like in films you will hero heroine dancing. You won't see man man dancing. It's not like a man women cannot be friends mostly they have to be in limits. Now limits are different according to culture. They might be different for different people. People like karan Johar being in friends of any actor.Those relations are also questioned.

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Why can't you accept a simple thing that a relationship will be judged on a reality show. Nowadays people choose instagram to display their stuff. So along with appreciation criticism also comes in. When you choose to be public figure. All this follows. Your every move in under scrutiny. Secondly in India like in films you will hero heroine dancing. You won't see man man dancing. It's not like a man women cannot be friends mostly they have to be in limits. Now limits are different according to culture. They might be different for different people. People like karan Johar being in friends of any actor.Those relations are also questioned.

Judging a relationship is still fine but forcing it is not

U judge that lopa n rohan r more than friends thats ur pov n I respect that but if u will go n bash kanchi to back off so that Ur judgement is right then thats stupid

I respect that at least u don't bash u keep ur judgements to yourself

N I have noticed on social media only rohan n kanchi r bashed no one asks lopa for a selfie

N ur right. Girl n boy's relationship is judged because people assume something more can happen which is stupid n that's why still a girl n a boy relationship is cheapened n ruined in the media. That's why in small towns parents refrain girls from talking to boys because they would be judged.

Gay n lesbians is something most of the society don't know n they don't care about n in India their situation we all know n may be that's why a girl girl n a boy boy friendship is not judged. I don't know it's disguised advantage may be. Otherwise all friendships would be judged to be "something more" n this world would be a difficult place to live in

Edited by luvakanksha - 7 years ago

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Judging a relationship is still fine but forcing it is not
U judge that lopa n rohan r more than friends thats ur pov n I respect that but if u will go n bash kanchi to back off so that Ur judgement is right then thats stupid
I respect that at least u don't bash u keep ur judgements to yourself
N I have noticed on social media only rohan n kanchi r bashed no one asks lopa for a selfie
N ur right. Girl n boy's relationship is judged because people assume something more can happen which is stupid n that's why still a girl n a boy relationship is cheapened n ruined in the media. That's why in small towns parents refrain girls from talking to boys because they would be judged.
Gay n lesbians is something most of the society don't know n they don't care about n in India their situation we all know n may be that's why a girl girl n a boy boy friendship is not judged. I don't know it's disguised advantage may be. Otherwise all friendships would be judged to be "something more" n this world would be a difficult place to live in

Thank you for once in for all as I never expected from you. I agree with you. Especially small towns and gay community wala part and also kanchi bashing is completely wrong.

But again you see not all relations are questioned in show like karan bani, lopa Manveer. But if relationships are special then they are questioned. Not all the friendships between a man and women will be questioned but if it's so special that you spend maximum time 24/7, that's time also isn't enough, you want more, you care a lot and get possessive. You get so attached that the person goes out and you are crying and sulking rather celebrating your victory. These things also play an important factor.

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Ritz

@RB.ritz

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Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Well I m single n I have many friends who r boys n none of them feel anything more than friendship for me n me too I don't feel anything more than friendship for them

lol my best friend, he stand with me in all my happy & bad
moments
whenever I have problem I call him & he come immidiately

we are friends more than 9 years
we never in love with each other

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Thank you for once in for all as I never expected from you. I agree with you. Especially small towns and gay community wala part and also kanchi bashing is completely wrong.

But again you see not all relations are questioned in show like karan bani, lopa Manveer. But if relationships are special then they are questioned. Not all the friendships between a man and women will be questioned but if it's so special that you spend maximum time 24/7, that's time also isn't enough, you want more, you care a lot and get possessive. You get so attached that the person goes out and you are crying and sulking rather celebrating your victory. These things also play an important factor.

These special things r common between friends

I cried buckets when my best friend left for hostel

I mean Manveer cried for manu too right?

Rohan cried for Rahul, Karan n gaurav?

U cry for ur friends

But if a girl cries for a boy something special is happening why?

Lopa Manveer were nvr close n bani n Karan too

Karen destroyed his wife's photo for rohan

The way gaurav supported rohan during swami per incident

When he became captain Rahul was so happy for him

Edited by luvakanksha - 7 years ago

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Amit

@GunDaa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: RB.ritz

lol my best friend, he stand with me in all my happy & bad
moments
whenever I have problem I call him & he come immidiately

we are friends more than 9 years
we never in love with each other

that is great to see 😃

i guess it about the way u got groomed in school and college .

if u r not studying in co-ed school and college then a girl and boy can never be friends .. its like they will have such kind of felling for themselves

and vice versa for co-ed guys and girls. they know how to react and behave and handle such situations . they normally do fun in their lives more than anything.

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