So Bani is disliked because of her different appearance, and she has contributed nothing to said dislike? I disagree - it is Bani's attitude that puts people off, regardless of her appearance. While M2 are not fans of her tattoos, it is ludicrous to say the likes of Rohan, Lopa, etc have targeted Bani for or because of them. And I don't find that Bani's been 'targetted' at all. It's rather convenient to piss people off and then turn around and say they're targeting you because they don't understand you.
What's not to understand? People understand just find when you're name-calling them - they can see through the 'generally bola/aap ko nahin bola' jazz. And physical appearance aside, I don't see how she's a different woman who doesn't conform and hence is disliked. So people who are not rude, do not lack social and communication skills, do not have different standards of behavior for themselves and others, and think it's thier God given right to behave with the utmost entitlement and impudence, even towards friends and the host, are liked simply because they 'conform'? No, I think not - they're liked because they're likeable, and those that dislike Bani do so because they find her unlikeable - and this state of affairs, both in and out of the house, is not the whole world's fault, while angelic Bani remains faultless.
Bani is not mentally strong in the slightest - she's a grown woman, and yet has not handled a single confrontation in that house with any maturity or strength of will. And if she's ever on the verge of being called out for her own shitty behavior - her usual go-to's are employed - deviation, twisting of the subject, hysterics, abuses and the trademark walk off. And her standards are different - she'll dish it, but can't take it. For instance, she'll rudely ignore Lopa's bday wishes to her, but throws a hissy fit if Lopa doesn't thank her. The same goes for tasks. She doesn't hold any of them in a high regard, and has spoken much about them 'kuttes' - but god forbid that they find her undeserving.
And as expected, she picks negativity here too - she'll focus on what they said about her - forgetting that she's done the same (and worse - her gossip session about MM was the nastiest across seasons), and that the season has come to an end - the touted mature, tolerant, grudge free and amiable Bani is nowhere to be seen. Because she isn't those things, IMO - quite the opposite, rather.
Edited by SP2684 - 7 years ago
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