Originally posted by: DoremonLove
Agree with @tm banis journey showed how disgusting she was. And people saying that others were shown negative towards her well it didmt seem like that infact she was d one who was seen targeting others for no reason. Hms r the victim of her attitude who were tolerating her lol
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Originally posted by: meghan11
No doubt about it that bani is different and people are wary of different. People have herd mentality and try to stick with people they are confortable with and bani doesn't fit that bill especially in a stereotypical society like India..
She has been nominated every week and has been saved by her fan. This fact hasn't gone unnoticed by the HMs and they try to pull her down any opportunity they get coz they see her as a threat..
All HMs have a common goal to win the trophy and bani is a big impediment for them..
If by "different," you mean her attitude, then yes I agree. It was her attitude that really turned people off. Nobody is obliged to endure someone's crappy attitude and pamper them. Bani is a fully grown adult. She needs to develop people skills. She can't expect others to constantly make the effort to "understand" her and then turnaround and say she is misunderstood and is being "victimized" when people refuse to normalize her attitude.[/DIV]
I don't think ANYbody in the house (except maybe Swami Om) was so narrow-minded to shun someone just because they look different or have their eccentricities. Heck, even Swami Om was accepted initially, but soon his behavior started to get on everybody's nerves.As far as putting her down due to her popularity, I beg to differ here. If anything, that should've made them cozy up to her even more (like Manu and Manveer have been doing lately). She was constantly in the nominations because of her ridiculous, childish, unacceptable behavior! No one appreciates that.
Originally posted by: meghan11
When did saying someone is different refer to their "attitude". Bani is not like the main stream Indian women who dressna certain way, think a certain way, follow certain regressive ideology..In nutshell she is not the one to Succumb to societal pressures. She knows she is different and is very confident about herself. She doesn't need someone to continuously validate her existence.
Bani is a loner and is very self-assured. I didn't think I have ever seen her throwing tantrums in the house like Lopa. She didn't tell anyone to endure her, Period. I think she is very confident about what she wants. If people like her they are welcome otherwise no pressure from her side. She doesn't go around cribbing and throwing a hissy fit if someone doesn't wanna talk to her..She doesn't care if people choose not to be friendly with her. She formed god bonds with Karan, Gaurav, Nithiba, Manveer to name a few. They even support her outside the house..
Well most of the people have taunted her at one point in time. Usually it came from people you wouldn't expect it. Just a few days back Rohan connemted on her tattoos. I have seen unpteen times Lopa passing deragatory remarks on her. The bitching duo M3 and now M2 didn't spare her from day 1. In that regard your statement about the HMs not being narrow minded isn't accurate..
If everyone knows she is popular why would anyone want to cozy up to her?? Wouldn't they try to show her in bad light and try to pull her down every opportunity they get. That is what we have seen time and again. We have seen HMs trying to discredit her stint in the house pending their insecurities. Heck people are so insecure they talk about petty things like cake, eggs, oats, you name it. Everywhere you turn therez someone trying to pull the rug under her feet..
I think there were a lot of people in the house more childish and impudent than her and some are still inside the house riding the horses of self-righteousness in their altered state of mind..
Originally posted by: meghan11
When did saying someone is different refer to their "attitude". Bani is not like the main stream Indian women who dressna certain way, think a certain way, follow certain regressive ideology..In nutshell she is not the one to Succumb to societal pressures. She knows she is different and is very confident about herself. She doesn't need someone to continuously validate her existence.
Bani is a loner and is very self-assured. I didn't think I have ever seen her throwing tantrums in the house like Lopa. She didn't tell anyone to endure her, Period. I think she is very confident about what she wants. If people like her they are welcome otherwise no pressure from her side. She doesn't go around cribbing and throwing a hissy fit if someone doesn't wanna talk to her..She doesn't care if people choose not to be friendly with her. She formed god bonds with Karan, Gaurav, Nithiba, Manveer to name a few. They even support her outside the house..
Well most of the people have taunted her at one point in time. Usually it came from people you wouldn't expect it. Just a few days back Rohan connemted on her tattoos. I have seen unpteen times Lopa passing deragatory remarks on her. The bitching duo M3 and now M2 didn't spare her from day 1. In that regard your statement about the HMs not being narrow minded isn't accurate..
If everyone knows she is popular why would anyone want to cozy up to her?? Wouldn't they try to show her in bad light and try to pull her down every opportunity they get. That is what we have seen time and again. We have seen HMs trying to discredit her stint in the house pending their insecurities. Heck people are so insecure they talk about petty things like cake, eggs, oats, you name it. Everywhere you turn therez someone trying to pull the rug under her feet..
I think there were a lot of people in the house more childish and impudent than her and some are still inside the house riding the horses of self-righteousness in their altered state of mind..
π I feel you.Saara ka saara ghar galat hai...ek bani hi hai...jo sahi hai.
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