Originally posted by: Shrumunj
Iam sorry for my ignorance ..
Asking bani, if the audience loved u for ur tattoo is equivalent to body shaming ?
Iam serious .. I didn't know ..
Is it body shaming because she's a woman ..
What if someone asked a guy , if women love u for ur tattoos or a good body.
Is that also equivalent to body shaming ?
Hello my dear Shru...I will try to answer your question.
Tattoos, like make up, are applied on the body and though it definitely last longer than make up, it is removable too.
Tattoo doesnt make, break or shape our body in anyway.
Tattoo is in no way connected to a person's gender. Neither it is gender-specific.
But according to logic here in IF, comments on tattoos are not equal to comments on gender.They are much worse.
Comments on gender are found funny but comments are tattoos are below the belt.
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But hey since Bani has to be defended then sab chalta hai...logic raho ya nahi.😃
She calls him a puppy but if he comments on her tattoos, then it is a major crime...it shows how evil, cunning, nasty and whatnot he is...
On one side , people (not all...some) say Bani should not be defined by her tattoos or her fit body (I agree with this actually) but on the other hand they comment on Rohan's "not-so-manly" looks.
Now isnt this a good example of gender-shaming and also contradicting your own self?
Just because he isnt rugged or muscular, he isnt a man? Is there any fixed criteria? There are different body types, are there not?
When Bani doesnt fit in the so-called "girly" criteria then why is it such a big deal that Rohan doesnt fit into "macho" criteria?
Regressive much?
I took Rohan's comment in this way:
The only interesting thing about Bani are her tattoos.
So when she says log pasand karte hai...obviously one will think of her tattoos. What else is there to like her about her?
Looks good but with a mouth so filthy those good looks cant do much, can they?
Unpleasant nature.
Zero personality.
A weak, insecure mind.
No wonder she got tattoos done on herself...they certainly hold more attention that her own personality.
Apparently, M2 commenting on Bani's muscular body is not body shaming or even talked about much. M2 commenting that "Bani is 30 now, she should get married...oh but what about he tattoos" is hardly made into a topic.
A genuine question to you Shru...Posted this in the other thread too...
She calls him a puppy. Now if he calls her a back saying "bitch", then will that come under cursing or "being real" ??
At the end of the day, both the words means "dog", dont they?
Bani - uses cuss words like mo**er f***** , d***head and f this, f that - its called "being real", "at least she's not fake". Jo dil mein hai wohi muh par.
So does her dil have so much filth??
Rohan - comments on her tattoos - is called evil, nasty, cunning, conniving, manipulating regressive and...and...and ...well assume I copy pasted all the synonyms here. 😆
Oh wait ...I have another doubt...
When Bani called Lopa ( and whoever else she used this word for) "motherf*****"...was she being real? Should we overlook it since "she is cute kid at heart"? 😳
Since comments on her tattoos are being categorized, lets categorize this too!
What can we term it as? Mother shaming? Child shaming? Or mother-child relation being shamed in the worst day possible?
Tell me Shru. 🤓
Edited by sidsk - 7 years ago
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