love ur post much needed post ur post bring smile on my face πππOriginally posted by: Mellifluous.
Let's just talk about Bani and how people have laughed and had made fun of her 'sufferings'.The first thing I lack to understand is that how physical abuse is given more importance than mental abuse in this show. The whole world is fighting for the equal treatment of mental abuse and mental illness as well. Bani has been body shamed a million times, she has been food shamed mostly always, she has been called mean, sympathy seeker because she's a little possessive about her mother and her mother's illness. The illness that she and her mother have fought through together. She has been shamed cuz she has tattoos and even the way she dresses. People have laughed at that.By the they way i guess many of you would be thinking about who this new member is. Im not new, i literally just came to write here cuz the hate was getting a little out of hand.Now people have asked a million times that why is Bani liked. I am here to give an answer.- She doesn't give two shits about you. She doesn't care what people think of her. She only cares about her dear ones and the people who she considers her friends and whose opinions actually matter.- She doesn't know how to 'impress' people and wouldn't do just for the sake of it. She is who she is. Are you impressed? Great. Are you not? Great.- She wouldn't promise you something and backstab you. If you matter to her, you just got an honest friend.- She would fight for the people who has been with her always.- She's practical. She's intelligent. And she knows that the universe doesn't owe you anything.- She's honest. She doesn't like you? She doesn't like you.- She's a fighter. Even if she doesn't show it.- She has been alone since day 1. Just comprehend how you would be if you were alone for so long.- She likes what she likes. The way she lives. And wouldn't change it just because she wants people to help her win in a reality show.- She gives people space. She understands when other people need her and when they don't.- She doesn't let the hate affect her. She's strong.- She lets out her emotions when she's genuinely hurt. She wouldn't care if you called her an emotional fool. Cuz she takes pride in who she is.- She is who she is. And wouldn't care if you accepted her or not.Honestly, people you just need to really calm down with your hate. The world is filled with it anyway.
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