Originally posted by: lovely_lady
The two are actually pretty similar in a couple of regards. The two both see themselves as strong, independent woman and do what they think is right. It's this issue, their value system, that sets them apart and influences the way they act and are perceived.
Bani is self-centred in that she enjoys independence. She doesn't really think as to how others might see her actions and interprets things from her POV. This translates into her just doing her assigned work and staying out of fights with others, unless they concern her explicitly. But also leads to a double standard at times because she fails to recognize how she comes across (she thinks she does more than she does, as compared to what the other HMs think) and expects others to do more than what she does for them.Lopa, on the other hand, enjoys a sense of community. She cares what others think about her but also suffers from a narrow viewpoints (i.e. only looking at situation vs larger context). This translates into her taking stands for others, even if the situation doesn't necessarily concern her and often leads her to being hypocritical in her stands in some situations. It's also why she gets into situations in which you can tell she knows she messed up and tries to backtrack.
👏 Respect for Salman Khan who showed bigger heart and calld that venomous Bani 'sweetheart'.Originally posted by: NadanParindey
When 2 weeks ago Salman was falsely accusing & blaming Lopa for making fun of Rohan's emotions, Lopa not even once responded or talked in a rude manner or shouted at Salman. In fact, How amazingly & politely she was putting forth her opinion & defended those false accusations.
But, yesterday Salman was being so POLITE & NICE towards Bani. Infact, he was trying to calm her down & make her understand but Bani just showed her real dirty face by disrespecting & misbehaving with Salman for no reason.
DIFFERENCE 👏 😉
Queen Lopa Slays ⭐️
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