and if they don't approach her because they don't wanna be recipient of her colourful language then the contestants are isolating her..poor Bani eternal victim of this misinformed world...
(Copy pasting SatiSavitri's post)
With the birthday thing - what got exposed are Bani's separate standards for herself and others. She threw a fit about Lopa not thanking her - made a big deal of this. Yet not mere hours earlier she ignored Lopa's wishes to her; no acknowledgement of them, let alone a 'thank you'. So she'll treat Lopa in a less than nice manner - but will throw a tantrum if Lopa returns the favour, citing that she (Bani) is an 'insaan' and she gets hurt - while others apparently aren't and don't.As for the lying - you're right: Bani never spoke about Lopa's Bday wishes to her. But she does appear to have lied in the PC and thereafter. Lopa brought up two points - the Bday wishes, and Bani's apology to Lopa during the former's captaincy campaign - both of which are true. Yet Bani, who is also aware that both are true and happened, accused Lopa of lying, repeatedly - both in the PC and after she walked out.
Originally posted by: Ctrl-Alt-Del
Exposed..??? You know exposed word is used when you find some concrete evidence to prove some person as guilty.. you're like if some murder mystery is solved today.. it was just like every season that some accusations were put on a contestant and the person has to defend himself.. and the purpose of this process is always giving hints to contestants to improve their game by eliminating their negative points..
Two accusations were put on Bani.. one was that she walk off without listening to the other person's point of view.. and second was that she behave like a victim when things does't go her way.. she replied by giving her reasons and Salman advised her that she needs to be mentally and emotionally strong as that was the solution to both the accusation.. now if she'll act on these suggestions then her game will improve otherwise not.. and I don't know if you know or not but even her supporters were discussing these two points from days.. so nothing was exposed there..Then comes that Birthday thing.. then you know its forum posters who (without realizing that much part of what actually happened in the house is edited out before reaching us) use their imagination power and start believing that their assumption are facts.. neither they showed Bani sharing her cake with others nor they showed Lopa wishing her.. but I remember you were the one who made the post that Bani is such a selfish person who don't even share her cake.. in response people start replying you that Lopa didn't wished her B'day.. they were as wrong as you were.. but how come Bani is a liar here.. did they showed to us Bani is saying to anyone that Lopa didn't wished me B'day.. that would be a lie.. Bani was wrong in expecting a thanks from Lopa when she ignored her B'day wishes.. but she was wrong, not a liar.. there's difference between being wrong and being liar..As for Dabang's analysis.. it was his assumption with which you can agree or disagree but not a fact that is supported by some concrete evidence.. I haven't seen any clip from any episode or any unseen video in which they've shown Bani plotting or strategizing in back foot..Regarding if it was best weekend ka vaar as yet then if your citeria is bashing of Bani then perhaps it was as in last weekend ka vaar this time forum was full of fixed winner posts.. anyways being a Bani's supporter I'm okay with both this and previous episode.. the only problem I've is too much screen time given to baba..
Originally posted by: Ctrl-Alt-Del
<font face="Courier New, Courier, mono" color="#0099cc">I totally agree that Bani was wrong in expecting a thanks from Lopa when she has ignored her B'day wishes before.. but if you see that Press Conference scene again then when they raised this issue of saying thanks and Lopa gave them her reason then Bani realized her mistake and that's why neither she denied Lopa nor she argued in response.. in contrast, when the insecurity question was asked then she let Lopa give her answer completely and in the end gave her response in disagreement..</font><font face="Courier New, Courier, mono" color="#0099cc">As for calling Lopa liar is concerned then it happened in the end.. and we posters here are doing the same mistake that we did before.. i.e. making our posts on the basis of what was shown to us without realizing that much was edited out.. we saw that Lopa brought up two points but in real they were asked about 5, 6 questions and we don't know on the basis of which answer Bani was calling Lopa a liar.. because if someone call you insecure or that when you came to say sorry then your intentions were not sincere then you can disagree with that person but can't call her a liar.. either you're insecure or not.. either you're sincere or not is hidden inside your heart.. neither you can prove it to someone nor someone one can prove it to you..</font><font face="Courier New, Courier, mono" color="#0099cc">In previous seasons too they used show only couple of questions from press conference in the episode but by sharing the complete one in unseen videos made it possible for viewers to have an exact idea of what happened there.. I wish they do it this time too..</font>
Bani called Lopa a liar, by saying "don't you ______ lie Lopa" as soon as Lopa merely mentioned Bani's apology to her during the former's captaincy campaign. The episodes are heavily edited, I agree, but there is no scope for that here - Bani's response was immediate. And besides - if one can assume that Lopa must've lied about other things during the PC, and Bani is therefore justified in calling her a liar, then the assumption that Lopa didn't lie at all is equally fair. One can only speculate on what was edited - but my above call is on what I saw.
As for Bani realizing her mistake re Lopa's wishes - her refraining from saying anything when Lopa brought it up is a confirmation that Lopa was stating the truth. Where is the realization that Bani was wrong? If anything, Bani was making faces when Lopa was talking about this. I didn't hear Bani realize anything, let alone apologize. Her standards are different, plain and simple - she'll treat people any way she likes, but if she's treated that way in return, she'll cry foul.
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