Hey guys, jus throwing in my two cents on this Rimi Vs Aman + Eviction situation...😊
RimI + Women's Issues: Lately it seems everyone is commenting on Rimi and her statements about women etc. Even some of those who support her have commented about her statement of walking away, which everyone is labelling as backwards thinking. First of all ever heard of the fight and flight response? and how everyone responds differently in a situation hence the name...well all she said was that I will walk away...why is that bad? she means I will walk away from that situation and from that person and not give them a chance to harm me...so to use the situation a lot of people have used as hypothetical one... say its applied to the case of domestic abuse then it means that she will leave the situation and most likely leave him.
The Rimi we have seen so far is not affected by anyone whether its the HMs or BB or even the superstar host...she does and most likely will do what she feels is right for her and what she feels comfortable in...so in a situation like that even if its hypothetical do you think she will stay in that situation?... NOPE, because by now if its one thing both Rimi's fans and Rimi's haters know is that Rimi Sen does what she feels physically, emotionally and mentally comfortable to do and say... so no don't worry about her...if she can be unfazed by HMs, BB and the Superstar then she wont give a damn about anyone else in her life who tries to make her do or reacts towards her in a negative manner.
In my opinion none of the other contestants and the host himself have the right to talk about women's issues...some like Rochelle, Mandana, Digi etc have used that to their convenience all the time where it has stated to become a punch line of a joke rather than taken seriously because instead of applying it in serious issues, all they have done through their actions and words is reiterate the stereotype that us women like to take unfair advantage of that phrase...they are busy trying to make point of women should be treated with double standards and should be considered inferior than the men and more like delicate flowers... so tell me who set the feminist movement back? A girl who does what she feels is right for her in every situation without getting influenced by anyone else or ones who have rendered the words women's rights equivalent to the boy who cried wolf scenario, and something which is now spoken of so lightly?.
Also the men, whether its the host or the other guys in the house...to varying degrees they have all contributed in their way to the belittling of women's rights...the people the other girls are complaining about Rimi to, or the ones who are agreeing to that statement etc should look in the mirror and see the actions of ones whom they are running to for support? and that going around complaining about issues like this to the men doesn't put the women's equality movement any step further...instead sitting there as a woman and telling on the other is also not a very forward way of thinking. Whatever happened to women need sick together???. Out of all the men and women in this house one person I can be sure won't suffer any nonsense from anyone else, whether its by the HMs, BB, The host or in real life is Rimi, since she doesn't care about what others say and do and is perfectly fine with not providing the other person with more ammunition and content in this house by standing around and creating ground for fake and forced arguments to make a point... so why don't the HMs who were shocked and quick to point fingers at Rimi look towards themselves and their fellow HMs who have all in their own way raised concern...the girls with how petty they have reduced the women's issues and struggle to, where now no one will take them seriously and to the men who physically and verbally have shown their true selves when it comes to women's issues. So don't take a contestant who wont stand with you in your fake fights and belittle the actual movement for the sake of getting out of trouble with the principle on WKW...
Rimi Vs Aman Vs Eviction: People mentioning her and Aman and who should have been evicted. Well make a decision Aman supporters/Rimi haters... Which is true? Are you going to make Aman a liar or not? Because Aman's leaving statement was that the public wants to see fights and aggressiveness, vulgarity in the house rather than a peaceful' person...now if you support Rimi being evicted over Aman let me remind you that you are going against the statement of the person you are supporting...don't forget that if we were to tally up the scores then while he might be in the lower batch, Aman has still been involved in more fights and has displayed aggressiveness compared to Rimi...so naturally between the two she would/should stay right?
Or are you saying that he is right then I am sure you agree that he couldn't have been talking about Rimi...but instead of his other friends and HMs in the house, especially Mandana since it was only them three left, so wait was he saying that she should have gone since she has participated in verbal and physical fights? but then shouldnt you guys instead be making posts about Aman Vs Mandana and the unfairness of that eviction between the two?, rather than blaming Rimi for getting votes from her fans?
Also let me remind you that Aman leaving literally wont affect the BB house...as in what role did he exactly play in the house? what assertive nature has he displayed? what does he stand for? not just him...in BB this season there are a lot of duplicate characters who are all replaceable with one another...whether its Kishwar, Mandana and Rochelle = similar type of persona or Rishabh, Prince, Suyyesh = similar type of persona, Digi and Aman were playing the same sides of same coin...both are good at trying to give opinions which most of the time get ignored by others...Rimi is someone who is unlike others, and there isn't another version of her in the house, hence the public's interest in her. With the others if one left don't worry you can easily pick another type of their version and go from there...because they are all literally playing the same game...BB is not just about doing tasks as others have pointed out...BB is not fear factor, its about different type of people with different personalities being stuck in one house through various situations/conditions and displaying different reactions to them...
Rimi + Elitist attitude: she does all the house work assigned to her without complaining, while we can agree there are others who are quick to give up on house work and going to sleep (nearly all of them), speaking different language etc, so they have no right telling Rimi that she isn't respecting the BB platform when they themselves are not following the basic rules but are being let off with no punishment this season... way of living is a rule...tasks is an option!. How is her doing assigned work to her a sign of elitism where there are contestants trying so hard to become captain so that they wont have to work and will instead get to rule over others? or others who keep trying to do their individual work rather than for the whole house? someone who spent ages complaining about their mattress taken away is not equivalent to the one who is calmly handing over her mattress after accepting her weakness in the part?
Rimi + Aman + HMs : Also lets talk about all the HMs who were so wishfully insistent that Aman wasn't eliminated. Now tell me out of all of them, none were his true mates nor was he theirs. He was quick to throw all of them under the bus constantly including Rochelle with that secret room task and others on the weekend etc and just awhile ago they were equally fighting with him...the same Rochelle was sitting with Prince and Suyyesh and talking about how Aman is the evil person who tricked her in Mandana's task...Same Kishwar, Prince and Suyyesh were fighting with him from the beginning , Same Mandana was angry about his thoughts about her during the secret room task, Same Rishabh who was fighting with him literally a whole ago over towels and rude gestures etc...so don't tell me that none of these people are fake and instead had other motive... they were desperately hoping that between the contestant they have figured out and the one they are still baffled by ...the one who seems unbeatable leaves, since they cant seem to figure out her weaknesses and are baffled by her consistent victory on the weekends. They are all confused and scared, Rimi and her fate is unknown yet seems quite strong...they all know how to pick on each other's weakness and pressure points...they know how to make sure that they seem righteous in all those situations...they are aware of the drama they are showing to the world and where they all stand in terms of strengths of the game and the rankings of each contestants, from the strongest to the weakest...from the one they can't beat to the one they can...from the one they must keep in their group to the ones they cant etc. But the real questions they have is... what can they do about Rimi? How is she doing this? How is it that they have tried influencing her for the sake of friendship, thrown taunts, thrown the whole have self respect, think about your image etc... so friends and enemies have all tried but she is unfazed in her stand and unfazed in her standing in the show...they are all extremely confused and that's the trick...they don't know how to solves that puzzle. Everyone's strategy here is to be make sure that the other person goes out first and they have ways of trying to achieve that but they cant seem to fathom forming a strategy to get her out and thats why on WKW even the 'friends' were upset by this...they didn't care that Aman was leaving but rather they were hoping that the competitor who seems undefeatable is kicked out instead, so that their chances are improved.
Rimi + Friend/Foe: People for whom despite not wanting to get in the middle of all the fake drama she has stood up for even in front of the host are now turning against her. She has consistently and constantly said to nominate her...which they have all graciously done so every weekend...so how is she fake and playing a game? unlike others in the house, including people she considers mates, have all formed alliances for their benefit, even those claiming to be playing an individual game are still stuck in a group. While she remains unaffected by which way is beneficial for her. Both groups including the one she is supposedly in, realised early on that there is strength in numbers hence the alliance while bitching about her behind her back. She says what she feels to everyone's face. she is the most consistent player in the house...from the beginning instead of fluctuating alliances/friendships and her stand... she has stuck to whoever she clicked with and didn't change sides to gain favours, while others people have gone back on their statements and have tried to see which side of the scale is heavier
Rimi + Task: People claiming she ruined the tasks...well thats funny tell me one actual proper tasks these HMs have performed which hasn't ended up being terminated due to their inability to play nice and do any task properly...she hasn't always been the Sanchalak in those? so whats the excuse then?
Rimi + Footage : Also what content/footage are people talking about? As far as I can see everything else the rest of HMs do can be put in one box and repeated and they will look and sound the same as any other season of BB ever, and on the other hand stuff that she does or doesn't do can be put in the box with new and interesting content and reaction...do I want to see duplicates of previous seasons and previous fights?... with each contestants having come with a mindset of being like someone else they saw on BB or see a contestant be herself and stick to her stand and actually be original from all the nine season of BB? Also people saying who is voting for her and she gives no footage etc...well let me tell you a little fact of life; the viewers of BB are neither robots nor clones who have the same needs, taste and preferences from their entertainment, so everyone who is in the house is someone people out here wants to see and enjoys seeing...just like other contestants are being liked for them being them, similarly Rimi is being supported for being herself. It doesn't matter if you like her or not, lets accept the fact that someone out there does and just like you deserve to see your favourite on the screen so do Rimi's fans. They are fascinated by someone who is so unfazed, unaffected and who is not trying to gather votes through forced and fake fights and drama.
Honestly speaking in this seasons there hasn't been one genuine fight, no conflict or clash feels authentic and everything is forced with everyone acting like they are in a play and have to play their parts. Tell me one contestant who dislikes the other for genuine reason other than 'oh I must find someone to clash with this season'?
Also people commenting on how she reacts to things and what she says about BB etc. Well let her react as she wants, let her laugh or disagree etc and lets analyse on contestants behaviours and not try to change them according to our will and wants. I would rather see someone who laughs it off than one who either starts crying or gets forcibly outraged just to give a reaction and i would rather see someone who hasnt come into the BB house thinking she/he has entered a cult where no authority must be questioned and instead must be given what they have deemed appropriate reactions to the ones in power/powers that be...Why? Are they God?
Why should they be treated as such at all times? I can imagine if the rest broke their facade and actually started giving opinions and genuine reactions instead of fake drama then this season might get interesting...otherwise I am sure we can go and upload any episode from any season of BB and find the same actions and reactions over and over again..and if this is her game strategy then who are we to question that? I have to say how originally refreshing and a good audition for her ability to stay in character.
Also don't worry about poor BB and their waste of money...the attention Rimi is giving BB this dull season whether its positive or negative + the money from votes count is enough of a reason for her to be a financially viable contestant.
Side Note: I know that ran a bit long + typos galore lol... I am sure I will think of something else and then add it on :)
Tay
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