Nimrit Kaur Ahluwalia - a case of lost potential! - Page 4

Originally posted by: mz.gigglez

Shes def a rebellious personality, and needs therapy. No one talks to thr parents like tht on television, like i said stop playing Bigg boss game with him , he just came to give you advice. But shes hell bent on victimizing herself in any situation. If she’s already in such a bad state imagine how she will feel when comes outside and gets ti knkw no one liked her game and she was a mere puppet. She better have someone for help on speed dial.

Some kids are always told to improve where they are wrong but never acknowledged for the good. Nimrit is one of them thats probably her reason for depression.

Originally posted by: cape

After seeing her dad i think parenting bhi ghalat hai they have put a lot of pressure on her about her life and how she should lead it.

That's the reason for depression. Too much pressure and no acknowledgement of love and appreciation. Even tina s mother despite the bullshit game that tina played calls her strong ofcourse calls her out for certain things counsel her scolds her but also say that u r strong u r doing what a son does for family. This is called strength and support.

There was no potential to begin with. She does not have a personality strong enough to handle Bigg Boss. She is weak, insecure, hypocritical; has been given things on platter from the beginning but couldn’t leverage the advantage. She is not BB material at all. And if she is this weak as a person as is seen on BB, then God bless her, its going to be tough in her overall journey in the entertainment industry because it is an industry where comparisons are made on a day to day basis and that too at a big scale. People around the nation are judging and comparing you with your contemporaries, and only a sceure person can deal with that. She lacks the confidence.

Originally posted by: Shiner

That's the reason for depression. Too much pressure and no acknowledgement of love and appreciation. Even tina s mother despite the bullshit game that tina played calls her strong ofcourse calls her out for certain things counsel her scolds her but also say that u r strong u r doing what a son does for family. This is called strength and support.

Even Nimrit's father said all that as soon as he came. He said a lot of very nice things. In fact he said ONLY nice things to her in front of others. He didn't let her down. Please rewatch. He spoke frankly to her and gave her the right advice only when they were alone.

Nimrit is messed up. She needs therapy and counselling and certainly not Bigg Boss. Parents are not necessarily to be blamed. And I am saying this from first-hand experience.

And as someone rightly pointed out she has no empathy at all for others.

She has persecution complex and needs help.

Nimrit should have never stopped her meds before coming to show like this. This is highly stressful and volatile environment which can trigger anyone. On top her jealousy and insecurity took over, she has been a lost cause for a while it just that she is finally realizing it.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Even Nimrit's father said all that as soon as he came. He said a lot of very nice things. In fact he said ONLY nice things to her in front of others. He didn't let her down. Please rewatch. He spoke frankly to her and gave her the right advice only when they were alone.

Nimrit is messed up. She needs therapy and counselling and certainly not Bigg Boss. Parents are not necessarily to be blamed. And I am saying this from first-hand experience.

Exactly , one can only blame their parents up to a point. As an adult you have to own your actions.

Nimrit father actually did everything he was supposed to, praised her in front of others and advised her in private.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Even Nimrit's father said all that as soon as he came. He said a lot of very nice things. In fact he said ONLY nice things to her in front of others. He didn't let her down. Please rewatch. He spoke frankly to her and gave her the right advice only when they were alone.

Nimrit is messed up. She needs therapy and counselling and certainly not Bigg Boss. Parents are not necessarily to be blamed. And I am saying this from first-hand experience.

May be he said. Infront of the world he has to say something because there all parents are saying something or the other. Does that define their relationship? May be she most criticized child. See not just u but all of us including me who write all of us are based on our experiences. Her reaction speaks volumes of the relationship she shares with her family. She has gone through so much to prove them craving for their love and appreciation. She does need therapy and self love. Her father why did ask priyanka how is nimrit preforming .Doesn't he know how is nimrit going to feel about it. Nway I m not blaming anyone but I m understanding nimrit where she is coming from and what she needs.

She is actually the biggest bully insecure jealous and weird personality on the show, not sure why others not seeing this.

Originally posted by: Outlander22

Nimrit should have never stopped her meds before coming to show like this. This is highly stressful and volatile environment which can trigger anyone. On top her jealousy and insecurity took over, she has been a lost cause for a while it just that she is finally realizing it.

I wonder once she comes out would she be able to handle the backlash and hatred she has been receiving, since she gets next to no feedback from Sallu about how negative she is looking, she doesn’t work on it and hence hasn’t been able to change the audience’s perception of her. And yeah if she was on meds before coming to this show, she shouldn’t have entered at all. But the thing is, she hasn’t even faced 1% criticism and humiliation of what some other contestants have faced on this show, yet she looks so weak.