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i also like that she is very grounded and has visibly no ego even while having a much bigger fanbase than a lot of others in the house.
I actually feel sorry for her. Once all that Shalin business happened she has constantly been reminded of it and it has been constantly ground in her by everyone that she made mistakes and regardless of the situation she is reminded of those mistakes at everystep...so now she seems afraid to do anything that goes against the grain of the people she thinks are her well wishers and therefore she just smiles and takes it but you can clearly see that she does not like it when Sajid and Stan make fun of her dad or when they go one that she is trying to get back in Shalins good books by talking to him and the few times she has pushed back Sajid has made sure to twist the narrative and guess what no one has backed her...they all conviniently stayed quiet.
Everyone saying her age does not matter is being silly because even the so called grown ups are also exhibiting childish behaviours in the house so why is it different when an actaul 19 year old occasionally acts like a child. Look at Tina and Shalin and this "love affair" Tina is a grown woman carrying on like a clueless teeanger. All of them act like biggboss is life and death rather than a gameshow that will end at some point.
Also I know what I was like at 18-20 all you people need to remember how you were at that age and be honest about how you would deal with all the situations in that house..I wonder how many of you would be taking stands to "fight" for yourselves...alot of you right now have people in your lives that do wrong things, treat you in ways you do not appreciate and you do not have the guts to say anything...it is easy to be a keyboard warrior.
Everyone has decided she is the butt of all jokes...even Abdu makes fun of her. As for her and Abdu being the same age but he is more mature...he has not had the same issues she has had...everyone has been falling over themselves to be his "friend" to use him for their own agendas...half the time they do not even consider him as a contestant just a cute person to had and be pretend nice to (eg Tina when he wanted bread but she specifically made two bigass sandwiches for MC Stan who never asked, she could have given one to Abdu but nahh she just straight out refused )
As for standing up for herself with Sajid...no one has actually been truthful about Sajid...even the people that are not in his "harem" seem to pussyfoot around him...even the celebs that have come on as guests all just say he is doing a great job and push this narrative that he is connected....so if someone as smart or calculating like Shiv, Nimrit etc plays dumb when Sajid is being not so nice why do you think Sumbul who has been told by everyone that she is weak, has poor judgment, no personality etc is going to be the one to stand up to himas far as she can see her good smart friends follow him he must be ok so she follows as well...peer pressure and the need to fit in is a real thing...think of all the dumb things you have done as part of a friends group.
One thing about this program (first time watching) I do not know about this bullying by the host/hosts this constantly targeting or calling out a contestant like in the case of Priyanka (not even a fav but you csn clearly see some bias) with the whole Ankit with Sumbul that she is obssesed a cry baby etc....it is just so soul draining to hear constantly...if this is how bigboss normally is am sure alot of former contestant must develope some mental issues...on a serious note they really need to make sure they get that girl some counselling after this show because they have messed her up...the person that went in and the person now are very different people.
I wonder how many people will actually stay in touch once they watch it back...am suprised at Abdu still maintaining that Sajid is his close friend unless he did not watch the footage
Sumbul herself was very much involved in the Shalin matter to the point of ignoring her Dad. It was in fact Shalin who listened to Sumbul's father more than her. Shalin defended Sumbul against Salman on WKV (19th Nov.) and when Sumbul's Dad called during the same weekend, Sumbul not only didn't defend Shalin but also agreed with her Dad on the nonsense he was spouting. Alright, I can take that she is afraid of her Dad. Till this week, while burning Shalin's photo, she was like Shalin should have understood about my Dad's call since he was my friend. What friendship with Shalin did Sumbul show during her Dad's call? What about the chalk stunt Sumbul pulled during the jail task? Sumbul isn't as innocent as she portrays.
I don't judge anyone for not standing up to Sajid as the power equation is seriously tilted.
Sumbul playing age card while at the same time age shaming Vikas was all her. No one to blame for that. Abdu has not played the age card as per his convenience. He has always maintained that he is not a kid. Stan has never played the age card too. Shalin - Tina get pulled up all the time for behaving like teenagers.
I wasn't anything like that at 18 - 20. I have taken as much of a stand as I could. Here, Sumbul doesn't even try. Does she tell Shiv or Nimrit to help her in household task or to not nominate her? They are not Sajid, no?
Outside BB house stuff shouldn't matter but the fact is that I would have disliked Sumbul even more had her background been better.
I do not dislike her. I think she is not right for the show. She is a sweet girl but she needs to stand for herself. I feel bad for her when Sajid bullies her.
Originally posted by: Snowfally
Sumbul herself was very much involved in the Shalin matter to the point of ignoring her Dad. It was in fact Shalin who listened to Sumbul's father more than her. Shalin defended Sumbul against Salman on WKV (19th Nov.) and when Sumbul's Dad called during the same weekend, Sumbul not only didn't defend Shalin but also agreed with her Dad on the nonsense he was spouting. Alright, I can take that she is afraid of her Dad. Till this week, while burning Shalin's photo, she was like Shalin should have understood about my Dad's call since he was my friend. What friendship with Shalin did Sumbul show during her Dad's call? What about the chalk stunt Sumbul pulled during the jail task? Sumbul isn't as innocent as she portrays.
I don't judge anyone for not standing up to Sajid as the power equation is seriously tilted.
Sumbul playing age card while at the same time age shaming Vikas was all her. No one to blame for that. Abdu has not played the age card as per his convenience. He has always maintained that he is not a kid. Stan has never played the age card too. Shalin - Tina get pulled up all the time for behaving like teenagers.
I wasn't anything like that at 18 - 20. I have taken as much of a stand as I could. Here, Sumbul doesn't even try. Does she tell Shiv or Nimrit to help her in household task or to not nominate her? They are not Sajid, no?
Outside BB house stuff shouldn't matter but the fact is that I would have disliked Sumbul even more had her background been better.
@bold: Such a bang on point. There is another teenager same age as Sumbul in the show but he doesn't flip from "I'm a kid" to "I'm an adult" every alternate day.
It is very obvious that Sumbul's "personality" (if you can even call it that) is all about trying to play dumb or act like a kid to get her way.....her upbringing at the hands of that trash of a man she calls her father seems to have played a big part in what she is.....the "value" system in this family seems to be all about exploitation, greed, manipulation and arrogance. She is following her father's footsteps for the most part - especially with regards to the bravado and arrogance she likes to project without having any substance as a person.
I could have defaulted to just feeling pity for her being such a dumb and misguided brat if not for the absolute MANNERLESS arrogance she displays. The way she mouths off to people without having any sense to her "arguments" and everything is just about jumping like a brat ki sab mujhse darr gaye, main bahut strong blah blah. To think this so called "bacchi" is otherwise a working professional on ITV....lol yeah sorry if I can't pity her then cuz it seems she very well knows what cards to play to escape accountability for her mannerless behavior.
I love Sumbul and salute her for what she has achieved on her own without any Godfather at a very young age.
Originally posted by: salmagurl21
What reason or views do people have that they don't like sumbul?
She is standing on her two feet. Staying strong and standing for what she believes in. I don't she is being used but is helping them.
These are my views.
Well today's episode is witness to my replies in the past .
As shive n nimrat also mentioned
Jharoo
Kutka
Making roti paratha
Washing cloths
Maid of the mundli
Finally !
Dats her contribution
She is there as Mandli's maid
Tea n coffee
Paratha
Washing cloths
Making rotis
List is long
It is proved in today's n yesterday's episodes
She even dresses up as maid
Like
Kaam karnay wali baai
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