Abdu being used

So I’m not a fan of Abdu anymore. After the way he is acting it clearly shows he might want to be treated like a contestant but the moment people do so he holds a grudge against them. While this is his personality, I also feel his friends play a huge role in it.

let’s start with Nimrit - she knows her constant closeness is starting to get Abdu’s feelings in the way. He’s crushing on her big time and teenage crush ain’t easy to get over but all she does is say “she doesn’t want to hurt him” yet she does it anyway because she knows Abdu is her ticket to finale as the whole India loves(d) him. If she truly did care, she would have put distance or at least given him sage advise that Abdu as a contestant you need to accept that you will be put through all these stages. The funny part is makers are playing their part in making it seem like some epic happening which means even for them Abdu is a means of getting their favourites to the last stage. If they really cared about him since he’s a “guest” and all, they would have tried to do something about him.

Yea, ShibDu may seem genuine but also only from Abdu’s side. No matter his personality, that boy is truly loyal to his people and he isn’t using any of them. Like take yday’s task. He knew his captaincy was on line and tried to ask shiv to take a step back, if shiv was truly his friend, he would have listened to him. Isn’t friendship about respecting and listening to friends too at times? It only seems like they want Abdu to listen to them and do what they ask but whenever it’s the other way around, they don’t want to listen to him themselves.

And the great Sajid Khan - he is so sane, so like old and mentor figure types? He gives everyone such epic advises so why not Abdu? He should clearly tell Abdu that you want people to treat you like a 19 y/o, you say everyone has a mind there is no small or big than my boy you should act like that. If you want to be an adult, you need to act like a contestant where you play your game but don’t get upset when others play as well. Learn to take criticism but either you hold it against them for life or let it go because people ain’t here to boot lick people to stay in their good books, they are here to play a game and win the trophy. It’s their right bro?

But surprisingly none of them do that. Neither Salman who loves Abdu so much, neither bb nor his true friends so what does that mean? Isn’t it obvious? That guy and his loyalty is being used in favor of the three others which make him look bad. Like just look at the yt / insta comments. I won’t count twitter because it’s filled with stan groups but the comment sections that were filled with love and favor for this guy have started going negative because how long will you treat someone as a guest? He’s also a contestant which he emphasizes all the time so he needs to be made clear or he will lose his reputation for the sake of other bb favourites.

Also, another point about Abdu - Salman recently compared that whenever someone betrays him for Abdu it’s like killing so if we’re going so extreme and comparing it that way, why was Abdu constantly being chummy with priyanka? If someone did something to me that was like “killing” I wouldn’t talk to them for life but he wants to be friendly and talk to them yet he wants to get back to them week after week for a game related decision/ opinion. But if the same person who comes under the same category becomes good friends with Nimrit and a part of their group (Sumbul) it’s suddenly all forgiven? Why because now their going to favor you bec according to them it’s a good way to gain popularity from you? It’s silly acc to me. He really needs to sort out his thoughts and Salman needs to give him genuine advise if they actually care for him cuz so far people are using him along with the makers and that’s just looking bad on him which isn’t fair imo.