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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: AWanderingSoul

She is childish??? Am I watching a wrong show. She is plain stupud according to me. To make friendship with shaleen nd Tina she ignored every other's friendship a miss. Same goes fr priyankit ( except stupid part) too.

Yeah she is stupid. Childish, stupid, pretty same words. I'm no Sumbul fan.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jerry_Chuhiya

Seeing today's discussion here and on twitter I was also shocked but when I saw the below clip I heard 'Sumbul is MAN'. It can be really calling her looking like a man or using metaphor figure of speech to convey that she is not like other girls but like a man. I hope he clarifies what he meant and if he really said something wrong he should apologise to her. Also I read few comments that he meant tomboy but since his english too is not that good his words torned out something else.



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give the guy a break. english isnt his first language either so mistakes like that are bound to happen.

he is trying his best to express himself with the broken hindi/english he got.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jerry_Chuhiya

I want Archana Puran Singh to file a case on Kapil Sharma for calling her mard in every single episode🤔 🤭.

Don't know why but fans from last 1-2 years are getting touchy and insensitive about everything. I know Abdu should apologize but he did not said anything offensive or vulgar like that Chicken Man do. The way twitter is spammed with this complaint in every dawn post is too much. Ye bacche aisa react karte hai jaise ki ye kuch bole hi na ho ya inhe koi kuch masti me na bola ho. Pehle Innocent Child ko Shalin-Tina ke changul aur sammo-han se nikaalo fir Abdu bashing pe focus karna.

It's just you are so used to misogynistic narratives that you find any calling out sensitive. Everyone else is judged more harshly.

God forbid if someone made fun of his height, or how he looks, there would be riot. One post was made and it's locked because it's too improper.

He can however, say anything, and that'll be okay. It's offensive. Also he should not apologize if he doesn't understand. And he can't understand because he's an entitled man. He himself knows body issues, how looking different is judged yet he does that for someone else.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluekohl

It's just you are so used to misogynistic narratives that you find any calling out sensitive. Everyone else is judged more harshly.

God forbid if someone made fun of his height, or how he looks, there would be riot. One post was made and it's locked because it's too improper.

He can however, say anything, and that'll be okay. It's offensive. Also he should not apologize if he doesn't understand. And he can't understand because he's an entitled man. He himself knows body issues, how looking different is judged yet he does that for someone else.

in another reality show like this one

there was a small person too called aazma. and she was made fun of being short a lot.

still the guy who made the most fun of her won the show.

i dont think we are that sensitive here.

if you really like to make fun of his height that go ahead i doubt anyone will cancel you.

its all fair game in bigg boss. this is not a show about being nice. people will make fun of your height, weight, face, attitude, habits etc.


not really a big deal. we humans love to judge other humans. thats in our innate nature.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayaan786

in another reality show like this one

there was a small person too called aazma. and she was made fun of being short a lot.

still the guy who made the most fun of her won the show.

i dont think we are that sensitive here.

if you really like to make fun of his height that go ahead i doubt anyone will cancel you.

its all fair game in bigg boss. this is not a show about being nice. people will make fun of your height, weight, face, attitude, habits etc.

not really a big deal. we humans love to judge other humans. thats in our innate nature.

Well there are Several things which is supposedly our innate nature, murder, sex crimes, all in all being a AH but we as a society are constantly evolving and understanding that being that might not be the best thing for us.

As for not judging that is entirely not true. It's just some people are randomly judged too much and some aren't at all. In BB and this forum both. If someone even dared to comment on his height, Salman will chew them out. Already half of the members who're known for their dirty/rude/filthy language have clutched their pearls when someone talked about abdu like that. One topic was even closed.

And if above all you truly believe it's all okay then why are you agreeing he should apologize? If you're right, then don't apologize. If you're apologizing understand what you did wrong.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: PangaNaLe

How is she a tomboy? Just because she's childish. Girls can be childish. It's common at this age.


Please see the definition of tomboy. Childish kaha se aaya?


Rani Lakshmibai bhi tomboy to kya childish thi aur kya dhori kurta pehenti thi saree ki jagah?


Don't the female athletes ever dress in feminine clothes and do makeup for events while having tomboy nature the other times?

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Well there are Several things which is supposedly our innate nature, murder, sex crimes, all in all being a AH but we as a society are constantly evolving and understanding that being that might not be the best thing for us.

As for not judging that is entirely not true. It's just some people are randomly judged too much and some aren't at all. In BB and this forum both. If someone even dared to comment on his height, Salman will chew them out. Already half of the members who're known for their dirty/rude/filthy language have clutched their pearls when someone talked about abdu like that. One topic was even closed.

And if above all you truly believe it's all okay then why are you agreeing he should apologize? If you're right, then don't apologize. If you're apologizing understand what you did wrong.

i never said he should apologize are you mistaking me for someone else?

how did it go from making fun of people and judging them to murder in sex crimes?

exaggerating much are we? i dont think thats in our innate nature as humans but dont really want to discuss it here since its totally off topic.

again im totally fine with people making fun of his height as my example said before. hr is making fun of other contestants too so its all fair game.

i see bigg boss as a big lawless jungle where everyone could be targeted for everything be it their physical attributes or mental weaknesses.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayaan786

give the guy a break. english isnt his first language either so mistakes like that are bound to happen.

he is trying his best to express himself with the broken hindi/english he got.


Agar Sumbul ko Kapil Sharma roast karta jaise vo Archana ko karta hai tab to log bechaare ko faansi hi chada dete🤣.


Its not that I am blind fan of Abdu. I liked Gautam too for a long time but the way he agreed with Shalin's words on Saundarya made me feel disgusted with him and also his jealous nature when any other male contestant gets friendly with Saundarya.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#29

Oh the excuses have started 😆 abdu has been holding grudge against sumbhl n even pri since the nomination happened in no way was he trying to joke. And the discussion was about appearance so he cleared commented on her appearance calling her like a man. Personally i hate how even Stan is such a MCP when it comes to girls in the house so i dont think abdu shuld be excused too.

Also to the ppl saying tht bb house isnt supposed to be nice place n contestants face criticism shuld also note tht abdu has been pampered like a baby since day 1. No single person imside the house ever says anything bad to him. This 1 time pri said he was influenced by shiv n sajid n he still holds tht grudge. God forbid if someone comments on his appearance how much he will overreact.

Im sure sallu isnt gonna point this out since hes been favored n pampered so much. Atleast let the fans take out their frustration and call him out.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

It's just you are so used to misogynistic narratives that you find any calling out sensitive. Everyone else is judged more harshly.

God forbid if someone made fun of his height, or how he looks, there would be riot. One post was made and it's locked because it's too improper.

He can however, say anything, and that'll be okay. It's offensive. Also he should not apologize if he doesn't understand. And he can't understand because he's an entitled man. He himself knows body issues, how looking different is judged yet he does that for someone else.


I know someone or else will accuse me of this at any time just like people are busy doing with Shib for standing up to Priyanka.


Did I ever supported or defended Shalin or Sajid for anything?


Didn't I bashed Gautam for agreeing to Shalin's words on Saundarya?


What Abdu said was nothing in front of all this?


One thing people can't get is ridiculing on his height issue will be wrong since it's his sensitive issue but what he called Sumbul can be taken sportingly? If Sumbul had some sensitive to which Abdu or anyone said something or they said something offensive or vulgar to her like Shalin's dirty vocabulary then it would have been a very serious thing.

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