My take on Aarav-Oviya issue
Mistake lies on both sides
It was Oviya who initiated the convo of timepass love and started flirting with the only eligible bachelor in the house. May be she thought thay a love angle in the house will give more focus on her and she constantly kept talking to the camera and dancing b4 the camera to gain viewer attention. She was camera conscious right from the beginning. Both would have watched the other language versions of big boss and both know fpr the fact that the relationship that blooms in the hpuse doesn't last long.
Aarav on the otherhand made use of this opportunity to have his screen presence. Aarav studying the dynamics of the house shifted sides to protect himself after 2 weeks of flirting.
Oviya herself came to him and said lets be friends and there is nothing between them. She was able to change love to friendship at that time.
Both started going around gaining screen presence and having fun time in the house. All of a sudden oviya started mentioning that she found her man.. blah blah and aarav never opposed her conversation. He should have stopped her at that time. As viwers we felt that something was between them and even the HM felt the same as they are there 24/7 watching them having fun.
He never committed to her for a relationship and she should have accepted that. Instead she was stalking him which is very bad. If a woman gets stalked then it becomes a sensation and the man is blamed. If a man gets stalked it is termed as depression and she is excused. She couldn't change her love to friendship this time.
Aarav shouldn't have allowed the kissing if he was not serious or should have backed out and made it clear to her that he doesn't have any love feelings up front. Instead, He was having a fun time. BB team should have warned them for code of conduct which they failed considering the audience to which this show is telecasted.
Bbteam milked trps with the love drama and never reprimanded them for their behavior. They never realized for the fact that the lady needed a psychiatric advice. When I retrospect all of oviya's actions from the beginning to waht is happening now, I feel Oviya needs a good psychiatric advice.
If aarav was not serious and if he was just having a fling or timepass love as suggested by her in the beginning, He was just making use of tge opportunity to use a woman. Oviya began her involvement with aarav as a fling and later fell for him and stalked him.
To sum up both were at fault. Why just give our sympathies and love only because we are her fans. I am not denying the fact that she had her own good qualities because of which she shines drom the rest of them. But let us understand that she must have prepared herself watching the other versions of BB and she has made use of this opportunity to her advantage.
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