Hi all! Just missing one day in office takes two to three days to make up. Reading all the posts and here is what I thought.
In the beginning days I do not believe G either loved R or hated R. His first reaction was intrigue and fascination but he did believe she belonged to the same clan as Padeys, deceitful and selfish. He was arrogant and was right as far as snatching of the money from R as they did owe him the money. R was rightfully wary of G and did not particularly like him as he was not the sort any decent girl would get mixed up. They were still tolerant with each other till V&K forced R to lodge a false complaint against G. At that time, to G his pride and name was more important and anybody's feelings. The complaint also made G think that R was more like her mama mamis anyway. That is why all the harsh treatment. One of the most interesting thinks G said on the day R burnt her stuff was he forgave R because she was not his equal to fight. Also nothing made a difference to her as she is stone hearted and emotionless. It was a big shock to him when R came out and showed all the pent up emotions in that surprising manner. He was left speechless while she did all the talking and action. As far as the touching episode goes again it was G reacting before thinking as all he wanted to have immediate retaliation for the humiliation R put through in front of his friends. Again like Leesan, I do believe he had no intention of following through, but just "teach R a lesson". Also mind you he or his friends did not exactly want or try to make it a complete public affair. It was Mitto who gathered the crowd to publicize that R was with G, with the intention that R will not get married with this "dishonor". Both G and R were unaware of all this at that time. So in spite of all the mean things he did to her in the beginning I think it was justified even though exaggerated. But G is never easy or small on reaction to anything.
If fact even after marriage he did not trust her until he knew she helped his parents. Then as he began to show some affection (when he bought the saree), Mitto ruined it again by saying R did all that to help the Pandeys. I think he began to understand a little only after he heard V & K on the night he made the potion for R. After that I do think he softened up a lot until his ego became an issue when he learnt he might have fallen for her more than she cared for him Then again he started being nasty. Again to some extent understandable. It was a very big step for G to swallow his pride and completely against his basic nature when he came and confessed his love to R and accepted defeat. I think that was one of the most touching scenes for me with respect to G's character on how much he actually loved R to do that. Then of course rest is history.
But the real issue which I cannot till today digest is his reaction to R feeding M&M. Whatever be the case, he know and understood R by then, knew that she loved him and still was so harsh. That is far more unforgivable than the initial episodes. That was the beginning of the downhill character degradation G and I am still mad at CVs for that. There is one more this that bothered me. When Babli was seen begging and R argued with G that however cruel M&M had been to her they did not send her to beg. If I were G, I would have retorted, they did even worse by forcing young venerable R to beg from G in the carom club at night which was full of gundas. If G was a real gunda like the Pandeys believed, more harm could be done to R than Babli.
Phew! Said a lot. Hope all this makes sense. In the end I do believe from the beginning, G was intrigued by R in more than one ways, be it her beauty, her silence, her strong will in spite of being physically frail and her tolerance to the evil ones and also most of all her tolerance towards him after he married her by deceit. I was on team Guddu until September when I was forced to be on team Runjhun.
But at least we got a happy ending. There is another show on Zee ending after they killed the main male lead. 😕Yuck! That too with much higher rating than BBAT. So I guess in some sense we were lucky.
Edited by vanfan - 12 years ago
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