We have seen how the ArYa love developed, struggled to survive & finally failed! At least, it appears that way, as of now!
Why?
Because . . .
Love is complete only if the trust is complete!
Evolution of Love-according to my understanding has some phases!
The first step is -getting noticed, then attracted & finally feeling impressed with the other person! This phase is most often characterised by something to do with physical features, looks/appearance & communication skills/sweet talks!
The Next phase is mutually developing a healthy admiration or respect for each other & then proceed further to forge, a kind of warm relationship between the partners!
Then comes ,caring, supporting each other in difficult times & willingness to give and take under tough situations!
Finally, the readiness to sacrifice for the happiness of other person completes the love! That is one sure way of installing a robust trust as the foundation of relationship!
No other thing can guarantee the durability of relationship, except a strong & mutual trust between the partners! So, what starts as a mutual attraction - can sustain for a limited period with showing mutual care & respect - but can survive for a long period, only & only if the mutual trust takes over as the binding factor in the relationship!
True love is characterised by only trust! The absence of it, will surely lead to a failed relationship!
Maya's love was strong but it was built based on fears & insecurities! The element of trust was always elusive!
Arjun's love for Maya was very tentative to start with but soon gained strength & momentum over time! But then, it could not mature into a trusting relationship because of his handling of Saanjh & Maya's dealings with Samay! It was bound to fail & eventually met with its fate!
Now, comes Saanjh's love! It is very strong even though it was camouflaged under friendship!
Finally, she managed to bare it all to Arjun, when the going got tough! Maya's own downfall aided it further!
And now, Arjun is realising it, as Saanjh showed it to him how she stood by him during thick & thin!
Now, Arjun too is feeling it for her & even proposed it to her, spontaneously! Nevertheless, Saanjh is not ready to accept him on face value!
Arjun has to prove it! If their relationship has to survive over a period of time, then things can not be forced on each other or even rushed without taking ample time to verify its genuineness!
Earlier Ashwin brought Maya & Arjun to come together, in life! But Saanjh & Samay made sure Maya's sense of insecurity does not allow trust to grow in her relationship with her husband, depriving her of an opportunity to live happily- ever- after, with her hard-earned trophy, despite her best of manipulative skills & man-slaughtering kills!
Now, it is Maya's turn to play spoil sport between Arjun & Saanjh!
Let us see if Maya is able to break Saanjh & Arjun's new found love or she only ends up in making their relationship strong & robust with her subverting interventions!
If Saanjun is built based on mutual trust, it will survive to live its course of life!
Otherwise, it will also meet the same fate of ArYa!
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