Who among arya do u think put the maximum efforts to save relation?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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My answer is arjun. Arjun stood with maya against ashwin. Then he went against his own family and friends. One by one he broke all relations. The same relations who stood by in him in his toughest times. He kept quite when maya would portray him as women beater. He never made her look bad in public. He went against his own brother and supported maya. People no matter how wrong their loves ones they still protect them and think they deserve another chance but arjun went against his own brother. Then he again left saanjh because of maya and Bandar when his friend needed him the most. Ofcourse he supported saanjh in samay drama since he was angry at maya for putting saanjh life at risk in the name of insecurity. He has always taken the step to make sure maya is happy. Even when he knew maya ran car over Ayan. He still kept quite though it was his biggest mistake but he supported maya till the last. So I can say that arjun ne maya ke saath dil se rishta nibhaya.

What did maya do? Every step to destroy relationship. The root cause of her insecurity wasn't arjun but her own behaviour. When u chop the wings the bird isn't going to happy. Maya found pleasure in making people her slaves but that was momentary pleasure. It's there as long as the person is infront of u. U r secure. The moment the person does something or goes somewhere u get crazy. Then u become insecure and to kill that insecurity u harm people.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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None made any positive effirt Both equally took the marriage to disaster
I think her controlling nature and her bid to isolate Arjun and keep him with her and her expsctation that he should eat
Sleep and wake at her behest destroyed her relationship

She approached this marriage the wrong way from the start
Sanjh was actually no competotion from her but every step shs took took her closer to disaster

As for Arjum he was a non serious guy who got stuck with Maya. He loved her but it was a normal love not the love story books are made of. He was ordinary so when he was faced by this extraorinary woman he was totally taken over and didnt know how to handle hee. Till the last he didnt know what to do. That added to the disaster
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arjun only in the beginning showed the love and support but later in 2nd phase most of the things he did was due to pressure of maya so that doesnt count. He wanted to leave but he was stuck. On the other hand maya went into the marriage for lifetime probably even after life lol so definetely she put some unwanted and over extra efforts to save the marriage or in better words to force arjun in her life.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rishix

What she did to save her marriage ?
By killing people so that no one can snatch Arjun from her ๐Ÿ˜•
Truth is that she didn't learn how to run marriage so
How can she save the marriage ๐Ÿ˜†

Didnt u read the words unwanted n over extra efforts๐Ÿ˜†
@bold agree with that line
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Posted: 7 years ago
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For me its neither Arjun nor Maya. All Maya did was dominate and control. Arjun was always a confused soul. Acting in haste is not the same as shouldering a relationship. When u take a step forward, u need to complete the journey, not leave it midway down. By this I don't mean Arjun should have stayed in that relationship for eternity. When u make a new relation, u shd take it forward along with ur old relationships too, rather than dumping the old ones for the new found one. Rather than leave his family for Maya, he should have made attempts to strengthen the bonds of his family with Maya. Rather than accuse Vandana for not treating Maya well, he should have tried to erase Vandana's insecurities regarding her. He left Saanjh for Maya but anyone who saw that knew Saanjh behaved rashly and it was no deliberate attempt to cause miscarriage. He could have reprimanded her but he dumped her for Maya, allowing Maya to dominate him completely. Then when he came home after 3 years he poured his heart out to Ayaan which made Ayaan hate Maya. When Maya accused his brother, rather than supporting her outright he should have tried to make logical sense of it. He left Maya when he knew the half truth regarding Samay - the truth where Maya was a victim and going by that if you dump your wife coz she had a past that is not a honorable thing to do. Had he dumped her knowing the real truth of what happened, that was still OK.
So instead of blindly supporting Maya, if Arjun had been firm minded and logical, he could have been a better husband to Maya. I agree even in that case Arjun couldn't save his marriage but from his end he could say he gave his all to the relationship.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

For me its neither Arjun nor Maya. All Maya did was dominate and control. Arjun was always a confused soul. Acting in haste is not the same as shouldering a relationship. When u take a step forward, u need to complete the journey, not leave it midway down. By this I don't mean Arjun should have stayed in that relationship for eternity. When u make a new relation, u shd take it forward along with ur old relationships too, rather than dumping the old ones for the new found one. Rather than leave his family for Maya, he should have made attempts to strengthen the bonds of his family with Maya. Rather than accuse Vandana for not treating Maya well, he should have tried to erase Vandana's insecurities regarding her. He left Saanjh for Maya but anyone who saw that knew Saanjh behaved rashly and it was no deliberate attempt to cause miscarriage. He could have reprimanded her but he dumped her for Maya, allowing Maya to dominate him completely. Then when he came home after 3 years he poured his heart out to Ayaan which made Ayaan hate Maya. When Maya accused his brother, rather than supporting her outright he should have tried to make logical sense of it. He left Maya when he knew the half truth regarding Samay - the truth where Maya was a victim and going by that if you dump your wife coz she had a past that is not a honorable thing to do. Had he dumped her knowing the real truth of what happened, that was still OK.

So instead of blindly supporting Maya, if Arjun had been firm minded and logical, he could have been a better husband to Maya. I agree even in that case Arjun couldn't save his marriage but from his end he could say he gave his all to the relationship.


Completely agree with you...Problem with Arjun's character is he is too impulsive and hasty...he react and make judgement before understanding be it regarding Maya, Saanjh or Vandana...He should have strengthened Maya's bond with his family instead of leaving his family...He himself gave Maya false hopes of being her god which he wasn't...Maya's biggest mistake was to give position of her god to Arjun...
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