Originally posted by: anshvi
Society will never change i guess
We will always blame the girl and name call her while spare the guy
Saanjh is called a mistress , a wh**re and what not and for what reasons
She loved Arjun since childhood
She was his best friend
She applied color on him on holi before Maya
She was going to kiss him but she didn't
In my opinion Saanjh should have realised that after marriage a wife has more right on her husband than a best friend
But this does not mean that her character is a mistress
She had feelings for Arjun and everyone knew about it...She took time to adjust to the fact that her first love and best friend got married to someone else.
Saanjh as a character is silly , can be annoying ,damsel in distress, too much dependent on Arjun ,Arjun and Saanjh forgiving Samay was also lame, she can get over confident at times but for sure she is not a mistress
People tend to be too judgmental when it comes to her character. Saanjh's character is not the strongest written character of the show but fact remains that she did support Maya in season 1 against Vandana
She even gifted Arjun and Maya the honeymoon tickets
She leaned for the kiss but also chose to stop
She deliberately never tried to separate Arjun and Maya not until she realised about Maya's truth
All this while Arjun also treated her like her best friend
Also
Arjun broke relation with Saajh for Maya's sake and didn't contact her for 3 years
Arjun supported Maya in Ayaan's case
Arjun separated from his family for Maya's sake
Although his initial reason for leaving Maya i.e. coz of Samay was stupid but he did try to live with her for 3 years
After all of this
When Maya tried to kill Ayaan , killed Vandana , confessed all her crimes in front of Arjun and trapped him in her own fake case one caanot accept Arjun to love Maya...Any sane person will hate her
All this while Saanjh was there to support him
If after all of this Arjun realises that he has fallen in love with Saanjh then I am not sure how Saanjh will be a mistress
Also Arjun and Saanjh never had an extra marital affair
and the definition of Mistress is -a woman (other than the man's wife) having a sexual relationship with a married man.
and this certainly doesn't apply to Saanjh
<font color="#222222" face="arial, sans-serif" size="2">I think there are a lot of other ways to show one's dislike for a specific character...and use of such words can always be avoided and criticism can be done in a more decent way as well</font>
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