Saanjhs happiness - Page 2

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

All those incidents that you have pointed out are definitely unacceptable, but can Saanjh alone be blamed for that? If Arjun is going after Saanjh, Maya should have controlled Arjun, isn't it? Of course, she tried to rein him many times but Arjun grew only bolder over time & started ignoring Maya's protests!

Now, coming to Saanjh, she went away from their life, after all those incidents that happened in S1! Did she not?

When Saanjh returned back, she was supposed to get married to Samay! And Mathur family stayed firm on their decision, including Saanjh! But still Maya & Samay's plan failed to materialise because of Prem's death! A dead father's ashes & later on Arjun came to rescue Saanjh from that unwanted marriage with Samay! So, it was not in her destiny to leave once for all from Arjun's life, even though Maya desperately would have loved it!
And the same Samay, who was supposed to separate Saanjh from Arjun ended up as the reason for Maya to lose Arjun's love! Arjun clearly told Maya that because of Samay he stopped loving her! He was staying in the marriage as only a father of his bandar! When that child was gone, there was no reason compelling for him to stay with Maya!
Prem's death, Ayaan's near death & Vandana's death all happened one after another to completely seal the fate of ArYa's marriage! And Maya has no hesitation in owning up her responsibility in them all!

Arjun can also be blamed for these incidents... but let's not forget we were discussing saanjh here.You said that saanjh had accepted Arya and had moved on...i was simply describing an incident that occurred which proves that she did not. Saanjh did leave Arya after season 1..bt please let's not pretend it was on her own accord...it was only because Arjun broke their relationship and kicked her out of their lives. People like you say that Maya should have controlled Arjun and then it is people like you that also say that she is too controlling and suffocating. You say that Arjun keeps 'going after saanjh' and that he should be 'controlled' by Maya. By doing so you have indirectly admitted that the relationship that saanjh and Arjun is not acceptable given that one of them is married. But then it is also people like you that find it wrong that Maya wanted to break Arjun and saanjhs relationship. I cannot justify the methods that's shes used to break them up... but I will never blame her for wanting to break them up...because like you admitted Arjun keeps "going after saanjh".

Saanjh was going to get married to samay. However, after she lost ayaans case...all she did was cry for arjun. A result of this was a very angry Suman.. who had to remind her that Samay was a very good guy for her...she continued to say that although saanjh says that Maya is obsessed with Arjun.. it is she that is even more obsessed. Does this sound like someone that has moved on with their life. The girl is literally pining over someone despite her being engaged to someone else. The only mistake Maya made was forcing samay to marry saanjh knowing that he did not love her. I don't blame Maya for prems death... she never planned it... she didn't want it.. she didn't instruct Samay to do it. She told Samay to delete the video... not delete prem.

The fact of the matter is that Arjun and saanjhs relationship is not normal. People call it a 'friendship' but it crosses the boundaries of friendship. Had Maya not been a negative character...people would feel sorry for her. People would recognise that her relationship with Arjun is a three people relationship. He is not only hers...she does have to share him with someone else. But because she is negative no one sees that. What she has done is so bad... that no one recognises the faults of others. But that doesn't change the fact that those faults do exist

Originally posted by: Amysheldon

Answer to your question why we feel for saanj and saanj also
1) saanj didn't get Arjun love and intitally she was heartbroken but she overcome it and helped in marriage and what she got finally was mistress tag
2) saanj who lost her father bcz of murderer maya and happy going family was broken
3) Arjun is the only happiness she didn't get? So did she get samay whom she thought he loved her truly? Maya got the only happiness that's Arjun... how can you conclude that Arjun is the only happiness she craved in her life? Do we know her past? Do we know that did she really had troubled childhood or this was drama created by her? Do we know that no one came to do friendship with her till now? We can't conclude Arjun is the only happiness in her life till now unless we know completely about her... what happiness is that when she can destroy if she can't get it... it's she chose Arjun and thought he is her happiness ... she had chances to become normal in asylum but she chose not to recover and it suggests that what kind of efforts she is keeping to keep her only happiness(Arjun) that she got in her life to be with her... she wants to control and that person who wants to control can never have happiness bcz he or she always crave more ...

In all these who lost actually? Saanj and Arjun as their families got destroyed by murderer maya... of course we feel bad for them ...

1)saanjh didn't receive Arjuns love..so she overcame this... how? ...by leaning in to kiss him while his wife watched.BTW if anyone other then Maya had seen saanjh on that day she would have received the mistress tag there and then... not three years later.

2) Maya did not murder prem. she didn't wish it, want it, instruct it or even know that it was going to happen. Samay also nearly killed saanjh when he thought that she had some evidence against Maya. This didn't happen because her family walked in. Did Maya instruct him to get rid of that evidence...NO. He himself was willing to get rid of it by taking saanjhs life.

3) Ok so we cannot 100% confirm that Arjun was the ONLY happiness Maya ever received. But we can confirm that saanjh has experienced much more happiness in her life then Maya ever did. She has had what Maya has never had and that includes: two supportive devoted loving parents, loving friendships and a loving relationship with her sibling.
Now about Maya's childhood. It is possible that she may have made the story up. But why are there some people willing to believe that it is not?. This because other the Maya's childhood flashbacks the audience has experienced Ashwin malhotras character in the present. We witnessed a cruel father... who was willing to do anything in order to get his hands on his daughters fortune. He tried to do this by attempting to kill her mother several times and fianc once. He also watched her drown and was very happy about it. He made a deal with a man that had used Maya for his own disgusting needs. Other then this we have witnessed him be physically aggressive with both jhanvi and Maya. Lastly, he gets a thrill out of seeing Maya be afraid of him. Other then this we have also witnessed jhanvi pine for this man... love this man and on many occasions...willing to take this man back despite witnessing his disgusting behaviour towards their daughter. Now after this if you still don't believe that Maya's childhood is what she says it is. I think we can still probably agree that her childhood was shit because she had two extremely shit parents. Even if you don't believe her flashbacks.. the present suggests that both Maya's parents were the complete opposite to what saanjhs parents were.

Best post you have made in this forum. Maya is so bad, she deserves all the bad things of this world because she has ruined the life of innocent Saanjh. I am fed up of this. What they showed about Maya's character is exactly how she was supposed to be. Her love is extreme. She has no control over the things she does to keep her love with her.She is fully aware that what she's doing is not right but she cannot stop herself.

Am not surprised looking at yet another post against saanjh after all there are still some dilusional maya's fans does exist.no wonder. Good luck with such kind of thinking where you support the evil ...😛

Ok sanjh had her share of long mistakes for the only happiness she never got ... But even though she never wanted anything bad for that happiness/arjun , but according to you as maya only got one happiness that was arjun so why was she proving arjun to be wrong and selfish since beginning even before she married arjun ... If you remember one of the fash back scene shown during Maya's case proceedings the maya-malkani scene regarding the shares transfer of the company to arjun ... In that scene maya was proving that arjun is marrying maya for the property , but she was the one transferring it on her own ... At that time no so called "KISS" happened , no one was anyone's husband/wife ... Sowhat was the only happiness preserving methods she had ?? I guess we all know that ...

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan

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3) Ok so we cannot 100% confirm that Arjun was the ONLY happiness Maya ever received. But we can confirm that saanjh has experienced much more happiness in her life then Maya ever did. She has had what Maya has never had and that includes: two supportive devoted loving parents, loving friendships and a loving relationship with her sibling.
Now about Maya's childhood. It is possible that she may have made the story up. But why are there some people willing to believe that it is not?. This because other the Maya's childhood flashbacks the audience has experienced Ashwin malhotras character in the present. We witnessed a cruel father... who was willing to do anything in order to get his hands on his daughters fortune. He tried to do this by attempting to kill her mother several times and fianc once. He also watched her drown and was very happy about it. He made a deal with a man that had used Maya for his own disgusting needs. Other then this we have witnessed him be physically aggressive with both jhanvi and Maya. Lastly, he gets a thrill out of seeing Maya be afraid of him. Other then this we have also witnessed jhanvi pine for this man... love this man and on many occasions...willing to take this man back despite witnessing his disgusting behaviour towards their daughter. Now after this if you still don't believe that Maya's childhood is what she says it is. I think we can still probably agree that her childhood was shit because she had two extremely shit parents. Even if you don't believe her flashbacks.. the present suggests that both Maya's parents were the complete opposite to what saanjhs parents were.

TM the people defending Saanjh cannot give a single concrete reason so will keep on saying Maya is evil and people are supporting evil 😆.

Originally posted by: poornima_15

Ok sanjh had her share of long mistakes for the only happiness she never got ... But even though she never wanted anything bad for that happiness/arjun , but according to you as maya only got one happiness that was arjun so why was she proving arjun to be wrong and selfish since beginning even before she married arjun ... If you remember one of the fash back scene shown during Maya's case proceedings the maya-malkani scene regarding the shares transfer of the company to arjun ... In that scene maya was proving that arjun is marrying maya for the property , but she was the one transferring it on her own ... At that time no so called "KISS" happened , no one was anyone's husband/wife ... Sowhat was the only happiness preserving methods she had ?? I guess we all know that ...

If we have only one thing to preserve we take care of it from.our heart ... The point is people say sanjh always runs behind arjun , arjun is her toy ... but actually maya also never thought arjun as a person , arjun is treated as an object in this show ...

Nobody is feeling bad for Saanjh coz she never got Arjun. Atleast, I don't, not anymore. But yes, I sure pity her because she had to go through so much, lose her father, her integrity n self respect because she loved a moron like Arjun who was the object of Maya's desperation n a victim of her psychiatric illness/evil mind.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Nobody is feeling bad for Saanjh coz she never got Arjun. Atleast, I don't, not anymore. But yes, I sure pity her because she had to go through so much, lose her father, her integrity n self respect because she loved a moron like Arjun who was the object of Maya's desperation n a victim of her psychiatric illness/evil mind.

And @Shreya nobody is trying to 'defend' Saanjh here. Everyone's simply answering the TM's question as to why they feel bad for Saanjh. Which unfortunately, cannot be answered without listing down Maya's crimes against her.