Originally posted by: Fernandes43
All those incidents that you have pointed out are definitely unacceptable, but can Saanjh alone be blamed for that? If Arjun is going after Saanjh, Maya should have controlled Arjun, isn't it? Of course, she tried to rein him many times but Arjun grew only bolder over time & started ignoring Maya's protests!
Now, coming to Saanjh, she went away from their life, after all those incidents that happened in S1! Did she not?
When Saanjh returned back, she was supposed to get married to Samay! And Mathur family stayed firm on their decision, including Saanjh! But still Maya & Samay's plan failed to materialise because of Prem's death! A dead father's ashes & later on Arjun came to rescue Saanjh from that unwanted marriage with Samay! So, it was not in her destiny to leave once for all from Arjun's life, even though Maya desperately would have loved it!
And the same Samay, who was supposed to separate Saanjh from Arjun ended up as the reason for Maya to lose Arjun's love! Arjun clearly told Maya that because of Samay he stopped loving her! He was staying in the marriage as only a father of his bandar! When that child was gone, there was no reason compelling for him to stay with Maya!
Prem's death, Ayaan's near death & Vandana's death all happened one after another to completely seal the fate of ArYa's marriage! And Maya has no hesitation in owning up her responsibility in them all!
Arjun can also be blamed for these incidents... but let's not forget we were discussing saanjh here.You said that saanjh had accepted Arya and had moved on...i was simply describing an incident that occurred which proves that she did not. Saanjh did leave Arya after season 1..bt please let's not pretend it was on her own accord...it was only because Arjun broke their relationship and kicked her out of their lives. People like you say that Maya should have controlled Arjun and then it is people like you that also say that she is too controlling and suffocating. You say that Arjun keeps 'going after saanjh' and that he should be 'controlled' by Maya. By doing so you have indirectly admitted that the relationship that saanjh and Arjun is not acceptable given that one of them is married. But then it is also people like you that find it wrong that Maya wanted to break Arjun and saanjhs relationship. I cannot justify the methods that's shes used to break them up... but I will never blame her for wanting to break them up...because like you admitted Arjun keeps "going after saanjh".
Saanjh was going to get married to samay. However, after she lost ayaans case...all she did was cry for arjun. A result of this was a very angry Suman.. who had to remind her that Samay was a very good guy for her...she continued to say that although saanjh says that Maya is obsessed with Arjun.. it is she that is even more obsessed. Does this sound like someone that has moved on with their life. The girl is literally pining over someone despite her being engaged to someone else. The only mistake Maya made was forcing samay to marry saanjh knowing that he did not love her. I don't blame Maya for prems death... she never planned it... she didn't want it.. she didn't instruct Samay to do it. She told Samay to delete the video... not delete prem.
The fact of the matter is that Arjun and saanjhs relationship is not normal. People call it a 'friendship' but it crosses the boundaries of friendship. Had Maya not been a negative character...people would feel sorry for her. People would recognise that her relationship with Arjun is a three people relationship. He is not only hers...she does have to share him with someone else. But because she is negative no one sees that. What she has done is so bad... that no one recognises the faults of others. But that doesn't change the fact that those faults do exist
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