Saanjhs happiness

Why do some people feel bad for saanjh because she never got Arjun?
Don't people realise that this is literally the only happiness she never got.
She had amazing parents, parents that loved her. Parents that would fight for her. There were many episodes where Suman would fight prem for saanjh. Maya never got that. Jhanvi remained quiet even when She was aware that Maya was being tortured by Ashwin.
Saanjh had a sibling who loved her, she had amazing best friends who were willing to do anything and everything for her. She was even immensely loved by Vandana...mother of the man she loved.Maya never even received that love...So Saanjh had a happy life growing up.

Maya had a father who never loved her. He never wanted for her to be born... all he wanted was her mothers money. She had a mother that was weak alcoholic/unwilling to fight for her. She had no friends... and she made one...and he helped her in exchange for her body.

My point is that Arjun is the ONLY happiness saanjh never got and Arjun is the ONLY happiness Maya ever got...so why do people feel sorry for saanjh and why does she always feel sorry for herself?

The reason is because maya destroyed saanjh life through samay.How samay destroyed u know very well. Then proved her as mistress. Just because she had a good life she dint deserve this.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

The reason is because maya destroyed saanjh life through samay.How samay destroyed u know very well. Then proved her as mistress. Just because she had a good life she dint deserve this.

I'm talking about why some people feel sorry for saanjh in regards to her never getting ARJUN...not why they feel sorry for saanjh in general. Your mixing the two together. BTW Maya's only fault was that she asked Samay to marry saanjh. Samay entered saanjhs life himself...he was not instructed by Maya to do so. Maya did not kill prem... again that was Samay. But obviously that didn't effect saanjh because she is getting involved in Arjuns affairs again...not giving a damn about how this could impact her own family. Maya was wrong to label saanjh as a mistress to the world. But why was everyone so quick to believe that she was?. The reason is because whether people like to admit it or not ..saanjh and Arjuns relationship is odd to the outside world. Were Maya's employees paid to say that they found the relationship odd...NO. They believed something was going on before Maya labelled her as a mistress.

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan

I'm talking about why some people feel sorry for saanjh in regards to her never getting ARJUN...not why they feel sorry for saanjh in general. Your mixing the two together. BTW Maya's only fault was that she asked Samay to marry saanjh. Samay entered saanjhs life himself...he was not instructed by Maya to do so. Maya did not kill prem... again that was Samay. But obviously that didn't effect saanjh because she is getting involved in Arjuns affairs again...not giving a damn about how this could impact her own family. Maya was wrong to label saanjh as a mistress to the world. But why was everyone so quick to believe that she was?. The reason is because whether people like to admit it or not ..saanjh and Arjuns relationship is odd to the outside world. Were Maya's employees paid to say that they found the relationship odd...NO. They believed something was going on before Maya labelled her as a mistress.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Putting everything on samay won't work. Maya was very much responsible. Samay was maya s pawn.The friendship between different genders is always huge deal but maya made the right use of it.

It's funny that no one seems to address what this topic is actually about. Instead the topic has gone onto how Maya has wronged saanjh. Again how does this address why some people sorry for saanjh for not getting Arjun. I'm not putting everything on Samay. What I have said is fact. PLEASE!!! Don't call Samay Maya's pawn. Samay entered saanjhs life on his own accord..he had his eye on her as soon as Maya fell in love love with Arjun... it was him who entered her life and it was him who pretended to love her for three years. The friendship between two genders is a huge deal. But please don't act like saanjh and Arjun don't always cross the boundaries of friendship. There is no need to constantly hug each other all the time. That is exactly what the employees witnessed and that is exactly why they thought something was going on.

Saanjh never wanted anyone to get destroyed for fulfilling her happiness, in life.
It is true that she tried for Arjun.
When she was not getting him, she was sad, upset and even cried for some time but very importantly one should not fail to note that she was ready to accept the situation and moved on, in her life.Later, Arjun & Saanjh came back only to get together was a different story!

The same thing can not be said for Maya! She was determined to get what she wanted in life and how many persons had to lose their life for that, she never cared!

Saanjh could never never think of killing Arjun!

Even Samay can not kill Maya, for refusing him umpteen times!

But, Maya can & still will kill Arjun if he is not making himself available to her!

That is the reason why Maya's happiness can never be supported by any well meaning person!

Answer to your question why we feel for saanj and saanj also
1) saanj didn't get Arjun love and intitally she was heartbroken but she overcome it and helped in marriage and what she got finally was mistress tag
2) saanj who lost her father bcz of murderer maya and happy going family was broken
3) Arjun is the only happiness she didn't get? So did she get samay whom she thought he loved her truly? Maya got the only happiness that's Arjun... how can you conclude that Arjun is the only happiness she craved in her life? Do we know her past? Do we know that did she really had troubled childhood or this was drama created by her? Do we know that no one came to do friendship with her till now? We can't conclude Arjun is the only happiness in her life till now unless we know completely about her... what happiness is that when she can destroy if she can't get it... it's she chose Arjun and thought he is her happiness ... she had chances to become normal in asylum but she chose not to recover and it suggests that what kind of efforts she is keeping to keep her only happiness(Arjun) that she got in her life to be with her... she wants to control and that person who wants to control can never have happiness bcz he or she always crave more ...

In all these who lost actually? Saanj and Arjun as their families got destroyed by murderer maya... of course we feel bad for them ...

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan

Why do some people feel bad for saanjh because she never got Arjun?
Don't people realise that this is literally the only happiness she never got.
She had amazing parents, parents that loved her. Parents that would fight for her. There were many episodes where Suman would fight prem for saanjh. Maya never got that. Jhanvi remained quiet even when She was aware that Maya was being tortured by Ashwin.
Saanjh had a sibling who loved her, she had amazing best friends who were willing to do anything and everything for her. She was even immensely loved by Vandana...mother of the man she loved.Maya never even received that love...So Saanjh had a happy life growing up.

Maya had a father who never loved her. He never wanted for her to be born... all he wanted was her mothers money. She had a mother that was weak alcoholic/unwilling to fight for her. She had no friends... and she made one...and he helped her in exchange for her body.

My point is that Arjun is the ONLY happiness saanjh never got and Arjun is the ONLY happiness Maya ever got...so why do people feel sorry for saanjh and why does she always feel sorry for herself?

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Saanjh never wanted anyone to get destroyed for fulfilling her happiness, in life.
It is true that she tried for Arjun.
When she was not getting him, she was sad, upset and even cried for some time but very importantly one should not fail to note that she was ready to accept the situation and moved on, in her life.Later, Arjun & Saanjh came back only to get together was a different story!

The same thing can not be said for Maya! She was determined to get what she wanted in life and how many persons had to lose their life for that, she never cared!

Saanjh could never never think of killing Arjun!

Even Samay can not kill Maya, for refusing him umpteen times!

But, Maya can & still will kill Arjun if he is not making himself available to her!

That is the reason why Maya's happiness can never be supported by any well meaning person!

Don't forget that Maya was also ready to accept this so-called friendship of dusky and duffer. And for a while she did whether you like to admit it or not. Saanjh had accepted the situation...and was willing to move on...so much so that she was ready to kiss her drunken MARRIED best friend after he declared his love for her. It's a good thing Maya had tattooed her name on his chest otherwise that would have definitely taken place. Maya witnessed her husband declare his love for his 'bestfriend' and both of them nearly kissed yet you 'well meaning people' expect the wife to accept this 'friendship'.No wife would want someone like that around her husband especially after that incident. Maya is negative there is no denying that... but just because Maya is negative that doesn't mean that saanjh hasn't made mistakes or can make no mistakes. I'm sure Maya is well aware that at the drop of a dime if given the opportunity saanjh would marry Arjun. Who would want someone like that around their husband.

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan

Don't forget that Maya was also ready to accept this so-called friendship of dusky and duffer. And for a while she did whether you like to admit it or not. Saanjh had accepted the situation...and was willing to move on...so much so that she was ready to kiss her drunken MARRIED best friend after he declared his love for her. It's a good thing Maya had tattooed her name on his chest otherwise that would have definitely taken place. Maya witnessed her husband declare his love for his 'bestfriend' and both of them nearly kissed yet you 'well meaning people' expect the wife to accept this 'friendship'.No wife would want someone like that around her husband especially after that incident. Maya is negative there is no denying that... but just because Maya is negative that doesn't mean that saanjh hasn't made mistakes or can make no mistakes. I'm sure Maya is well aware that at the drop of a dime if given the opportunity saanjh would marry Arjun. Who would want someone like that around their husband.

All those incidents that you have pointed out are definitely unacceptable, but can Saanjh alone be blamed for that? If Arjun is going after Saanjh, Maya should have controlled Arjun, isn't it? Of course, she tried to rein him many times but Arjun grew only bolder over time & started ignoring Maya's protests!

Now, coming to Saanjh, she went away from their life, after all those incidents that happened in S1! Did she not?

When Saanjh returned back, she was supposed to get married to Samay! And Mathur family stayed firm on their decision, including Saanjh! But still Maya & Samay's plan failed to materialise because of Prem's death! A dead father's ashes & later on Arjun came to rescue Saanjh from that unwanted marriage with Samay! So, it was not in her destiny to leave once for all from Arjun's life, even though Maya desperately would have loved it!
And the same Samay, who was supposed to separate Saanjh from Arjun ended up as the reason for Maya to lose Arjun's love! Arjun clearly told Maya that because of Samay he stopped loving her! He was staying in the marriage as only a father of his bandar! When that child was gone, there was no reason compelling for him to stay with Maya!
Prem's death, Ayaan's near death & Vandana's death all happened one after another to completely seal the fate of ArYa's marriage! And Maya has no hesitation in owning up her responsibility in them all!