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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi what you told was even my thought when I analyzed season 1 about Saanjh. That she will show path because she is Prem's daughter. I believed that will be the path CVs take when she broke down after Prem's death. But the moment she sat and cried Arjun today is the test of your friendship I was like๐Ÿ˜•. From there that character lost meaning and there was no difference between her and Maya as far as obsession for Arjun goes.

I have not read GG, so dont know much abt Amy. My opinion is just based on the views I read on GG from fellow members.
Now coming to extra marital relations. See having an extra marital affair once or maybe twice due to circumstance induced thing is much better than emotionally torturing your wife day in day out going with a woman in name of friendship. Because in extra marital affair atleast the wife can tell she is wronged. Her voice will be heard. Here not defining his relation with Saanjh properly Arjun is exploiting both women and unfortunately both are allowing themselves to be exploited by this toy. Maya cannot tell, you should cut off friendship, it will be told it is the problem of her perspective. They are only friends. Just like the name Saanjh that Duffer -Dusky relation is in twilight zone which is destructive. It has to take one form. Here or there. Most importantly because Dusky feeling for Arjun is not platonic.

@Fernandes you wrote the only different character of the show. Ayan Sharma. A man whose life is destroyed because he trusted his brother and his brother left his hand for his wife. In a way he reprises the role of childhood Maya. Maya who trusted her mother, but the mother who always left the hand of her daughter who tried to protect her and went to her tormentor. That happened to Ayan also. His voice has to be heard. His pain has to be heard. There is no one to hear that. Everyone is about Arjun, not Ayan the man who really suffered in the hand of Maya. Because Prem died, Ayan is living with a stigma of a rapist which is really harsh. The real justice is when the stigma on that young man gets removed. And if Saanjh mata can spend some time on that she will get victory.


That's right Shruthi di, infact I have always blamed Arjun more than Saanjh, for raising Maya's insecurities. Because there have been a time when Saanjh had tried to isolate herself from ArYa, but Arjun brought her back in the name of friendship. Along with Maya he has exploited Saanjh as well. He wants her to remain a friend to him and not move on in her own life. He is aware of her feelings, yet he behaves in such a way, which is extremely selfish.

But we can't blame him for adultery or marrying Maya just for money or not loving her and not giving a chance to their faltering relationship. Nick was an outright grey character, hence Amy gets a kind a justification for her actions, yet u can't root for her as it was too cold blooded. For Maya, it is only Ashwin's torture which kind of justifies her actions,
rest all are based on individual interpretation. Both Arjun's n Saanjh's characters , they are neither outright grey, nor fully righteous, hence literally give a headache.
That's how Beyhadh's storyline lacks as you can't root for any character.
Edited by CutiepieAD - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
@aditi you are right. Samay is more dangerous to Saanjh family than Maya as he prefer to keep Saanjh between them so that he can have Maya. And the best way is to harm Saanjh family as Arjun will come running to her, if her family member is affected. But still Saanjh wants Samay's help. If I am right, Maya is going to use Samay's trick now, because she didnt take Rajiv's hand, she took Samay's hand when the question is asked will Rajiv allow me to get defeated and he tells no one has understood Samay, you have to walk with Samay. He doesnt tell whether she will win or lose.
See for me Arjun was a man with many flaws the topmost of it being his super inflated ego.He loved her somewhere, he cared for her too but it was not strong enough to redeem her. As he wished to keep her at this beck and call. The dialogue if I reduce Maya's madness her love will reduce.
Edited by shruthiravi - 7 years ago
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@shruthiravi, if we talk about Nick, then Duffer is no different from Nick. Nick cheated Amy, he had an intimate relationship with another girl. But what wounded Amy - Nick had a relationship with this girl in the same way as with Amy. The same words, the same actions. It was emotional betrayal, not physical
Emotional treason is no less physical. Duffer also cheated Maya all the time of their marriage, constantly betrayal emotionally with Dusky. If Nick only once pushed Amy and she hit, then Duffer so many times raised his hand to Maya, that it is simply impossible to count

As for Duffer's forgiveness. Come on, he forgave Dusky for killing his own child twice! Twice! He forgave his madness for killing his own child! He forgave for the murder of his own child VM! (he wanted to make the last rituals of VM) He forgave for the murder of his own child Ayan! He forgave each of them for killing his own child. And he didn't even once blame himself for this
He forgave his brother, who tried to rape his wife

It was an interesting moment when Duffer said that Maya killed so many people. Seriously, Maya said she killed Ashwin, Samay and VM. Ashwin tried to kill Duffer. Samay threatened to kill Maya's child. VM killed Maya's child. First time Maya defended Duffer. Second it's self-defence. Third - revenge for baby's death

Duffer can't forgive Maya. Duffer hates Maya
But Duffer can forgive everyone who killed his child
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Posted: 7 years ago
@Laska Maya was not pregnant first time. She admitted it. Second time yes Arjun was the most important person because of which the baby died. But leave others, not once he pointed fingers at himself
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: CutiepieAD


There's a huge difference btw the situations.
1) Maya was accepted by VM only when she was giving birth to her grand child, in a way she accepted her grand child, not Maya. Also by that time Maya hadn't killed anyone in their family.
2)Arjun forgave Maya for whatever she did as he loves her, his love was blind at a point of the story, no doubt abt that. Also he was staying with her on sympathy grounds.
Later he accepted her for their baby.
Finally when she killed VM, he stood up against her.
3) Rajiv is crazy. So leave him
4) Ayaan is the only righteous guy on this show, who fought for himself, a reason I love him so much. He even went against Arjun as he felt he's responsible for VMs death.


Now coming to Saanjh forgiving Samay. Samay had killed her father, she loved her dad so much, father daughter relationship was shown very well! When Arjun couldn't forgive his own wife for killing her step mom, how can Saanjh forgive her so called fiancee for killing her own dad? Also he had kidnapped her bro.
More than Maya, Samay was dangerous for her family. Maya hadn't done much to her family(except Prem's murder for which both Maya n Samay were responsible), Maya's crimes were directed towards Arjun n his family, not Saanjh n her family, but Saanjh as usual chose the Sharma's over her own family

Vandana & Arjun accepted Maya only for the sake of bandar, after Samay's anchor piercing incident! True! But still they did!
Particularly Vandana took a stand to even support Maya when Ayaan did not believe that Maya could ever change when story resumed after her return from asylum!
It will be another untold mystery why Vandana could not soften her attitude towards Maya when her bahu announced the news of her pregnancy for the first time in S1 - if she becoming a grand mother in her life was supposed to excite her so much!

What was so special about second pregnancy, particularly after Maya
a)trapped Ayan in a false rape attempt case & put him in jail, ruining totally his life!
b)tortured Vandana by crushing her fingers in door hinge & scared her like anything!
c)when she certified Maya that she was only buri and not bimari!
d)threatened her along with Saanjh to shoot down with her gun & forced her to run back to Mathur's house
!
It will be never known why she was only so biased in welcoming her second (VM had no clue really that first one was fake, till her very last moments before death!) would be-grand child, unlike the first one?
Whatever it is, Vandana could move on, in her life putting behind past animosity towards her bahu, right?

Don't know, if Vandana provided the inspiration to Saanjh too! Because, Saanjh also could forget & forgive everything and even made vain attempts to pacify a belligerent Ayaan, whenever he was seething with pent-up anger towards Maya!

So, when Arjun & Vandana believed that Maya had indeed changed, Saanjh too thought so, till she saw Ayaan in the pool of blood!

Now comes the question of teaming up with her father's murderer! Maya teamed up with Rajiv not once but thrice at various points of time, knowing fully well what kind of low life he was! Particularly, when the so called dedicated wife was in beyhadh love with her husband, her umpteen meetings with her ex-lover, with a clear intent to stoke his illicit & immoral passions that guided him to do all kind of dirty jobs manifesting out of her selfish designs were not exactly great examples of morality of a true & loyal wife one wishes to be! But why compare Maya with Saanjh, it is given - Maya is bad & mad, so let us not take that route!
Is Saanjh right in aligning with Rajiv? Well, is it right for Arjun to align with Rajiv ?
Perhaps the duffer is not all that naive as we tend to think! If the wife can do business with a man whom her husand detests & blames as a reason for the break-down of their marital ties, then why not the husband, himself follow the foot steps of his wife, emulating her great manipulative skills, only to make her feel proud about his skills for a change?
If Arjun & Maya can both do business with Rajiv, why not then, Saanjh too?
After all, her life is always interlinked with them, isn't so?
Oh, yeah! Samay pretended to be in love with her while he was actually working for Maya & even went on to kill her father!
Can't she turn the tables against Maya & Samay, now? Can she not fool Maya -at least once- that Rajiv was only doing Maya's job while he actually switched over to other side, thereby helping them to expose her real face to the world?
In political parlance, such a tactical move is known as raj tantra!
If ordinary criminal lawyer like Saanjh uses such a trick, it is just a ploy or trap to catch a bigger thief!

Will Saanjh succeed in these maneuvers or it will be again Maya's game?
Only time will tell & not Samay as he might not be alive to speak this time!
Rajiv aka Samay is all set to pay the price soon -for aligning with Saanjh -a key & intelligent move by Saanjh, that is going to prove one sure way of bringing justice & peace to the soul of her departed but always beloved father!


Edited by Fernandes43 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
@Fernandes of course Saanjh can. The only point Aditi raised is, if Saanjh makes alliance with her father's killer what is the difference between her and Maya. Everyone is looking at a difference between them.
See this same funda was played in Cinevistaas Ek Hasina Thi. What is the difference between Sakshi and Durga. What is the difference between Shaurya and Dev. Especially when Durga decides to marry Shaurya the rapist of Payal there was not a single person in the forum who wanted Duga to win and we all rooted for Sakshi big time.EHT had a very strong character in Dr Dayal who puts the breaks on Durga's blind run on revenge destroying herself. What Beyhadh lacks is the equivalent of Dr Dayal. Someone who is soft, yet harsh, someone who cares, but doesnt control, someone who motivates, but doesnt tell false praise. He was the foundation of that whole story who puts Durga back in the ring to fight every time she loses confidence.

Again Shaurya and Dev it showed how they treated the ladies in their lifes. Mother, friend, wife, sister. One valued, other used and where life takes a man who values a woman and where life takes a man who degrades a woman. So the difference was there. His foundation was his mother Suchitra

What we miss in Beyhadh is Dayal the father and Suchitra the mother. We have them in Prem and Suman. But their voice is not heard and it is not firm enough.
Edited by shruthiravi - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
@shruthiravi, I know that Maya admitted that the first time it was a lie about pregnancy. But I'm talking about Duffer. She kicked Dusky out of his life, but as soon as Dusky returned after three years in his life, he immediately forgive and forget that Dusky had killed his child. He took her hand and went with her, he went with her to Ayan, and then to VM. At this point, he didn't know that there was no pregnancy. And he forgave Dusky. He forgot about baby's death. He forgot that Dusky pushed Maya off the stairs. He forgave killing of his own child
He learned that Maya was not pregnant for the first time after child's death. That is, he forgave Dusky for killing his baby twice
Just like with Ayan. He forgave Ayan, who was trying to rape his wife. At this time, Maya hadn't yet told him her "truth"
And he forgave Ayan. Moreover, he allowed this Ayan to approach his pregnant wife. He sent his pregnant wife alone with this Ayan. With Ayan, who tried to rape his wife. And he forgave this Ayan
And before Maya went to the balcony. Remember, she tells Duffer "You will leave me and go to Dusky. You will leave me and go to the one who killed my baby"
And all this happened

And yes, he never blamed himself for baby's death. He blamed everyone but not himself
It was he who jeopardize his pregnant wife, only because of his madness. It was he who jeopardize baby's only because of his madness
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Fernandes43


Vandana & Arjun accepted Maya only for the sake of bandar, after Samay's anchor piercing incident! True! But still they did!
Particularly Vandana took a stand to even support Maya when Ayaan did not believe that Maya could ever change when story resumed after her return from asylum!
It will be another untold mystery why Vandana could not soften her attitude towards Maya when her bahu announced the news of her pregnancy for the first time in S1 - if she becoming a grand mother in her life was supposed to excite her so much!

What was so special about second pregnancy, particularly after Maya
a)trapped Ayan in a false rape attempt case & put him in jail, ruining totally his life!
b)tortured Vandana by crushing her fingers in door hinge & scared her like anything!
c)when she certified Maya that she was only buri and not bimari!
d)threatened her along with Saanjh to shoot down with her gun & forced her to run back to Mathur's house
!
It will be never known why she was only so biased in welcoming her second (VM had no clue really that first one was fake, till her very last moments before death!) would be-grand child, unlike the first one?
Whatever it is, Vandana could move on, in her life putting behind past animosity towards her bahu, right?

Don't know, if Vandana provided the inspiration to Saanjh too! Because, Saanjh also could forget & forgive everything and even made vain attempts to pacify a belligerent Ayaan, whenever he was seething with pent-up anger towards Maya!

So, when Arjun & Vandana believed that Maya had indeed changed, Saanjh too thought so, till she saw Ayaan in the pool of blood!

Now comes the question of teaming up with her father's murderer! Maya teamed up with Rajiv not once but thrice at various points of time, knowing fully well what kind of low life he was! Particularly, when the so called dedicated wife was in beyhadh love with her husband, her umpteen meetings with her ex-lover, with a clear intent to stoke his illicit & immoral passions that guided him to do all kind of dirty jobs manifesting out of her selfish designs were not exactly great examples of morality of a true & loyal wife one wishes to be! But why compare Maya with Saanjh, it is given - Maya is bad & mad, so let us not take that route!
Is Saanjh right in aligning with Rajiv? Well, is it right for Arjun to align with Rajiv ?
Perhaps the duffer is not all that naive as we tend to think! If the wife can do business with a man whom her husand detests & blames as a reason for the break-down of their marital ties, then why not the husband, himself follow the foot steps of his wife, emulating her great manipulative skills, only to make her feel proud about his skills for a change?
If Arjun & Maya can both do business with Rajiv, why not then, Saanjh too?
After all, her life is always interlinked with them, isn't so?
Oh, yeah! Samay pretended to be in love with her while he was actually working for Maya & even went on to kill her father!
Can't she turn the tables against Maya & Samay, now? Can she not fool Maya -at least once- that Rajiv was only doing Maya's job while he actually switched over to other side, thereby helping them to expose her real face to the world?
In political parlance, such a tactical move is known as raj tantra!
If ordinary criminal lawyer like Saanjh uses such a trick, it is just a ploy or trap to catch a bigger thief!

Will Saanjh succeed in these maneuvers or it will be again Maya's game?
Only time will tell & not Samay as he might not be alive to speak this time!
Rajiv aka Samay is all set to pay the price soon -for aligning with Saanjh -a key & intelligent move by Saanjh, that is going to prove one sure way of bringing justice & peace to the soul of her departed but always beloved father!



U didn't understand my point. Maya faked her treatment, Maya knows that, we know that , but VM, Arjun , Saanjh didn't know that. According to them she got herself admitted in the asylum for Arjun n her baby, that too during pregnancy, it's a huge step. If that step of Maya was genuine, I would have respected Maya like anything, and would have prayed for her crimes not to get exposed in front of police ( infact what I don't like abt her is that she never takes any convincing action to change for better. )
VM is a woman who believes in superstitions, myths. It's said a person changes after a baby comes in his/her life, so VM believed that n same with Saanjh n Arjun. That's why they forgave her. Also Arjun/Saanjh was mostly scared of her, they knew she can harm the child if she feels things are not going according to her wish, hence they accepted her.
It's only Ayaan who believed she can never change n it turned out to be true.


Blue - VM had accepted Maya during first pregnancy as well, if I remember correctly. She went with Ayaan to give gifts to ArYa, also Maya touched her feet, she even gave ashirwaad to her(though reluctantly, for the sake of her grand child) That time i was Team Maya, so i was hooting during that scene ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

But what reason did Saanjh have to team up with Samay? He is the same maniac, he isn't showing or even faking to redeem himself. She knows he is a manipulative liar n is capable of cheating her or her family, yet she teamed up with him. If she thinks of letting him go scott free just to trap Maya then I will lose whatever liking which I had for her. It hasn't happened till now but if at all it is shown then she would be the worst character ever who denied justice to her father due to her so called true love.

Coming to politics, there's a difference btw healthy politics n dirty politics, Maya has already showed dirty politics so I expected Saanjh to show healthy politics. It was funny to know she couldn't do anything in these 3 months. She could have gone to Maya's lawyer n told her abt Maya's body, she could have asked Jhanvi abt the other body, she could have gone to Shipra again n tried to find more info if Ashwin had another daughter or not. She could have visited the asylum with a proper plan. Also the girl who died in Maya's place, she must be missing, so she could have tried to find her out.
I am not criticising Saanjh, but the writers who screwed up the whole story after court case.
Edited by CutiepieAD - 7 years ago
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Exactly Aditi. The healthy politics, making of alliances with like minded people whom Maya has destroyed would have helped her. Shipra would have been the first point. Then why cant she speak to Jhanvi to get clues and follow clues. Especially on the look alike. Then Ayan's GF is there, she is not shown. Use her the right way to get information from mental hospital. That girl had trusted Ayan, so she should have been an accomplice. If Maya is alive, Ayan was not in jail. Make some plan with him to get some clues on where this woman went. But what we got was crying. And more crying ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†. And the most irritating funda we get is, this woman does nothing and the moment Arjun does something or someone else does something against Maya she flashes the most arrogant smile. I had to say I felt really happy when Maya gave that kick to Saanjh for that arrogant smile.
@Laska I agree it was the most idiotic thing for a man to do when he sent Maya with Ayan. He knew they had an uncomfortable relation. His wife may not be comfortable, neither will be his brother and something can go wrong. But all he wanted was Dusky's hand.
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Fernandes of course Saanjh can. The only point Aditi raised is, if Saanjh makes alliance with her father's killer what is the difference between her and Maya. Everyone is looking at a difference between them.

See this same funda was played in Cinevistaas Ek Hasina Thi. What is the difference between Sakshi and Durga. What is the difference between Shaurya and Dev. Especially when Durga decides to marry Shaurya the rapist of Payal there was not a single person in the forum who wanted Duga to win and we all rooted for Sakshi big time.EHT had a very strong character in Dr Dayal who puts the breaks on Durga's blind run on revenge destroying herself. What Beyhadh lacks is the equivalent of Dr Dayal. Someone who is soft, yet harsh, someone who cares, but doesnt control, someone who motivates, but doesnt tell false praise. He was the foundation of that whole story who puts Durga back in the ring to fight every time she loses confidence.

Again Shaurya and Dev it showed how they treated the ladies in their lifes. Mother, friend, wife, sister. One valued, other used and where life takes a man who values a woman and where life takes a man who degrades a woman. So the difference was there. His foundation was his mother Suchitra

What we miss in Beyhadh is Dayal the father and Suchitra the mother. We have them in Prem and Suman. But their voice is not heard and it is not firm enough.


Thats what Shruthi di. Infact even in EHT I liked Saakshi more than Durga๐Ÿ˜† (as u know I love dark characters๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜†)
But i was rooting for Durga only.
Here though I like Maya more than Saanjh, but I should have been rooting for Saanjh. But she's too flawed n self righteous for me to root

Since this is the last lag, Saanjh's character won't grow now, Maya will be definitely losing, but I won't be happy that Saanjh won, I will just be happy that Maya lost ... As if i have loved some character in this show, that was Maya n if I have hated someone in this show, that too is Maya.. other characters were just a headache for me ๐Ÿ˜†
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