Why are are the actors/actresses of Beintehaa were to be the target of most people today.
Come on guys.., we should love an actor/actress for the wonderful character that he/she is portraying on screen and not by interfering in their personal lives.
Friendship , love or any relationship are to be decided by the individual himself. Neither me nor u can take this decision for them as it is their personal life. Do you people out there tend to listen to someone else on who you should make friends with or who you should fall in love with? I am sure it is and absolute "NO". All these relationships are developed through the bottom of ones heart and no one can be forced to enter into those relationship unwillingly. When this theory applies to all of us, then why people tend to take it into a wrong perspective when it comes to an actor/actress as they are also an ordinary people like us. Who are we to decide or force them on who they should make friends with or who they should fall in love with?? We are just their loyal fans who should be appreciating them for their roles and acting skills depicted in the show and as well to respect them for who they are in their real lives.
Why blame the actor/actress for being rude and sarcastic.. In your opinion, will anyone simply be rude or sarcastic for no reason.. As to me, I would not term this as "rudeness" or "sarcasm" as it is related to "Provocation". People simply tend to bash an actor/actress repetitively with issues that are not connected to the role they played on screen but instead they tend to take up their personal matters by putting ones privacy at stake. Just put yourselves in their shoes and think in their point of view, how uncomfortable would you feel when someone hurts your feelings or how irritating and frustrated would you feel when someone simply throw harsh words on you continuously.. Anyone in that state of being provoked or continuously hurt by someone will definitely tend to express out their feelings. When things goes over the boundaries, as a human being, wouldn't you react to all these?? Do you all tend to forget that all actors and actress are also human being like us, who also has feelings and emotions. They to have have their own families, relatives and friends who will also have to go through the similar comfortless and heart wrenching situation along with the actors / actress.
Look at this, the chaos created would not only affect the reputation of the individual actors/actress but also almost the entire group that are related to them. Let it be those who are tied to them through blood relations or otherwise, some of these people may be understanding where you will be able to explain to them on what is going on but what about those who belongs to the groups who are still immature in understanding things especially those of the younger generation who are still unable to differentiate things that are good and bad. How are they going to explain those situation to them and how are they going to face them in their lives.
Can you see, this kind of situations are not only gone through by you or me but it will also be faced by the actor/actress who are also ordinary people. The difference is that, when we go through such chaos, it will not be publicized, but when it comes to a celebrity, almost the entire world where they are well known/recognized will know about it .. This is how rumors and gossips comes into the picture where you can see the actors/actress will be flooded with all kind of false news around them. This will tarnish the actors/actresses reputation and image in the eyes of the world.. At the same this would affect their family members as well. How will they feel and how will they face the people outside??
The social network is a medium where we would be able to interact with our favorite actors/actress and others as well. But, some fans take this as an advantage to bash the actor/actress who they dislike or who they are forced to dislike just because their favorite actors/actresses are close with someone who are against their expectations.. This shows the high level of immaturity that are stocked in their mind.
Furthermore, it is their personal opinion/view on choosing to praise the performance of their co-actors. I don't see anything wrong in it. If all of you think that all actors/actress should be praised equally, then what is the point of having award functions where the best performers are the only one to be awarded instead they should be having an award function to award all actors/actresses which is really impossible and of course it does not make sense as well. This is because in every performance there will definitely be one outstanding performer who will definitely be appreciated for his/her acting skills. In today's scene, one of the actor/actresses may have dominated the show with his/her performance while in another scenes there may be other actor/actresses who would also be praised for his/her performance. Once again, it really depends on every individual on who they want to praise as all of us have different point of view / opinions.
To add on, it is not wrong for an actor/actress to post their comments or appreciation for their co-actors/actress as how we do to others on the social network as they also have the rights to do so. Some people feels that those appreciations could be conveyed directly to the particular actor/actress on the sets, but at the same time, in today's modern world most of us prefer to praise / appreciate / comment on each others' work and etc through the social network where everyone of us are free to do so. This will also boost the level of confidence of the person to improve themselves to continuously give their best performance in the future. To stress this once again,it really depends on the individual on who they choose to appreciate / comment / praise. Neither you nor i can influence each others decision in doing so. As the saying goes, One man's meat is another man's poison.
It is really very sad and depressing to see some fans who think that they have the power in controlling their actors/actresses in their REAL LIFE which one should not do and not even think of doing so as they are also one of us off screen. It is not right to threaten and actors/actresses with statements like "they will lose all their fans & the TRPs will fall & show will go off air" just because they don't fulfill your expectations in their REAL LIFE.. Try to put yourself in the same scenario, for surely none of us would want to be forced in doing something unwillingly by another person. One should also bear in mind that none of us would want others to force us in making decision that involves our personal lives which includes decision in friendship, love and marriage. All of us should learn to respect them as a real person as how we do to our family members and friends.
A real loyal fan will never take things for granted whereas they will always tend to stay united in bringing the show to the limelight.
LOVE the actors/actresses for their characters and roles played in the SHOW &
RESPECT the actors/actresses for who they are in their REAL LIFE..
It is really disappointing to see most of the Beintehaa fans are behaving in such a manner which I don't really see such chaos taking place in other shows. This would be an advantage to the media to spread unwanted gossip and rumors about the cast. Would all of you want this to happen to your favorite actors/actress?? Please think wisely before implementing your thoughts.
Although we are a minority fan base in Malaysia, my Gang and I who are real Beintehaa lovers have not encounter such chaos within us. We do argue, comment, appreciate and criticize ONLY by referring to the characters depicted by the actors/actresses in the show and not for what they are in their real life. As we respect and care for them as an ORDINARY PERSON as how we respect and care for each other in our REAL LIFE..
No matter what, we will always and continuously love
the chemistry of Zain and Aaliya wonderfully portrayed by Harshad Arora and Preetika Rao,
Usman Abdullah (Naved Aslam) the person who defined the meaning of love & marriage to Zain and Aaliya,
fun filling and entertaining arguments among Fahad and his 2 wives Nafeesa and Shazia fantastically portrayed by Vivek Madaan, Gunjan Vijaya & Namratha Pathak
as well as not forgetting the other supporting characters and backbones of the shows
Suraiya Abdullah
Ghulam Haider & Shabana Haider,
Rizwan, Aayat, and Gauhar...
This post is not intend to hurt anyone but it merely acts as a message that I feel to convey to
all Beintehaa fans. My sincere apologies if any of my words has hurt anyone of you as well as I
would like to apologize also for any mistakes in my language or grammar..
Regards,
Zaya Lovers
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