Zimmedari - A shield or a fallback? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Seriously! I saw people bashing the makers for making Ani say the Z word again I was like.. humko maaf karo !

Yes their rishta is Anokha as bihari told Kaka that is what makes them special! ❤️ You are right. During and after the HM track Ani was so comfy calling Bon his patni and himself as her patibabu.. 😆 but as soon as he realized what the society will expect next he was like

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Kya gifs hai!! 🤣🤣 but so true! in today's episode also he was all okay till bon mentioned pati-patni ka rishta, and sunte hi bhag gaya!

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

My replies in Blue! 😳

Yeah even I did not like kaka that their vanvaas will start parivarik Jeevan and love will start even this bon will have romantic feelings , I want makers to show bon realises ani value and her love for ani should start after leap , right now bon needs to focus herself and the teenager aspect showing her self realisation , her support to ani ,her mood swings and her individuality because she is required to bring a change for that she needs to be a change , also I want her chulbuli pan to be intact , regarding her patni ka darja and all ,by end of this track I want her to realise herself that she loves ani in a platonic way cause romantic feelings for a kid is not right even though it is in that era , I want bon to choose and love ani for the gem he is not he is her husband ,also reacting knowing love bertween man and woman ,bon needs someone else in her life because ani can’t teach her and it would break stereotypes and also how ani supports her in this and then they realsie their feelings

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Yeah even I did not like kaka that their vanvaas will start parivarik Jeevan and love will start even this bon will have romantic feelings , I want makers to show bon realises ani value and her love for ani should start after leap , right now bon needs to focus herself and the teenager aspect showing her self realisation , her support to ani ,her mood swings and her individuality because she is required to bring a change for that she needs to be a change , also I want her chulbuli pan to be intact , regarding her patni ka darja and all ,by end of this track I want her to realise herself that she loves ani in a platonic way cause romantic feelings for a kid is not right even though it is in that era , I want bon to choose and love ani for the gem he is not he is her husband ,also reacting knowing love bertween man and woman ,bon needs someone else in her life because ani can’t teach her and it would break stereotypes and also how ani supports her in this and then they realsie their feelings

Thank you! While I didn't understand the bolded part, based on the promo Bon is going to have her first crush on Ani only. I just hope the makers show it as a crush and not as some sort of soulmate bond.

While the vanvas won't start their parvarik jeevan as kaka wants, their relationship will evolve. I personally think that they will realise that what they have is unique and that society's rules for relationship don't matter for them.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Thank you! While I didn't understand the bolded part, based on the promo Bon is going to have her first crush on Ani only. I just hope the makers show it as a crush and not as some sort of soulmate bond.

While the vanvas won't start their parvarik jeevan as kaka wants, their relationship will evolve. I personally think that they will realise that what they have is unique and that society's rules for relationship don't matter for them.

Yes bon herself realises all these riti are wrong ,as on growing up bon will feel disgusted with all this and angry on kaka for forcing such things upon her

bon will have crush on ani and I am exited to see it and value him more , the part I am saying that in order to understand love between man and woman ,bon would require someone else in her life to realise she loves ani not a wife and society expects her to be but because he is everything to her I. Later stage

Secondly I want bon to realise what unique bond she shares with ani is beautiful and cherish able in her life

Also I did not like how bon said now she has grown up she won’t do mischiefs I hope by end of this track her carefree nature is brought which is somewhere lost due to moelstation her didi whom she loved dearly betrayed her and her mom condition cause now she is starting to realsie gracity of situation

I want bon teen aspects like when we try to found out worth,we become moody , we start making our own decisions and mistakes ,I want makers to show that aspect also

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Yes bon herself realises all these riti are wrong ,as on growing up bon will feel disgusted with all this and angry on kaka for forcing such things upon her

bon will have crush on ani and I am exited to see it and value him more , the part I am saying that in order to understand love between man and woman ,bon would require someone else in her life to realise she loves ani not a wife and society expects her to be but because he is everything to her I. Later stage

Secondly I want bon to realise what unique bond she shares with ani is beautiful and cherish able in her life

Also I did not like how bon said now she has grown up she won’t do mischiefs I hope by end of this track her carefree nature is brought which is somewhere lost due to moelstation her didi whom she loved dearly betrayed her and her mom condition cause now she is starting to realsie gracity of situation

I want bon teen aspects like when we try to found out worth,we become moody , we start making our own decisions and mistakes ,I want makers to show that aspect also

Based on the promo as well the makers history, I think they will show teenage Bondita with full realism too. So having some other guy in her life means that she will choose Ani despite having options? Yes that too is important.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Based on the promo as well the makers history, I think they will show teenage Bondita with full realism too. So having some other guy in her life means that she will choose Ani despite having options? Yes that too is important.

Yess it would face repurcussions from society like a girl and boy can’t be friends but it will break stereotypes and ani will support bon but same time juggling with his feelings

AGREE WITH EACH AND EVERY WORDS OF YOURS 👏

Instagram is filled with fans who are angry with Anirudh for calling Bondita as his Zimmedari & also because why he doesn't love her romantically! I really fail to understand how can people want Anirudh to do the things which other men in that era used to do? What will be the difference between Ani & those people then?

Another thing I fail to understand is why people think Zimmedari is a wrong word? There's nothing wrong with it. Even our parents call us their responsibilities, no matter how old we get! And here Bondita is a child who truly dependent on Ani.

I tried to make some people understand through comments but ofcourse got bashed

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

We, as a fandom, are quick to bash Ani whenever he breathes the word zimmedari when referring to Bon. But if we look closely, there is a pattern. Ani uses zimmedari as a shield or armour.

And to be fair, initially, that was all that Bondita was for him. Up until the HM track, Ani was genuinely torn. Bon was just a girl who he married because there was no other way to save her. And he did offer to take her responsibility without marrying her. And the bedwetting track was when he truly accepted it. Up until HM, their relationship was still new, and Ani had a load of emotional baggage, to begin with. As a result, Mini and Binoy found it very easy to use this zimmedari against him.

However, after their return from HM and Mini's exposure, their relationship grew by leaps and bounds, especially through the education and dhongi ma tracks. And Ani never called her a zimmedari again until the SR track.

Zimmedari 2.0, as it is called, received even more bashing. But cut the poor boy some slack, it is evident that Bon is much more than a zimmedari for him, but she is not his wife entirely either. Because in the 1920s, sex and children were an essential part of marriage, this cannot be ignored. Ani ignored it till Bon got her periods, but then it became impossible to ignore; society's vultures had started circulating.

The one thing we all know is that Ani has absolutely no romantic attraction towards Bon. And where I am concerned, as long as Bon is a child, showing any attraction on Ani's part will simply reduce the respect we all have for him. However, Ani currently has no words to describe their relationship. Emotionally, it is way past zimmedari, way past marriage, way past love as well. But physically, there is nothing. And socially, it makes this relationship an anomaly. And when this strikes Ani, he starts hiding behind the word zimmedari.

This new track will signal an evolution in their relationship. It won't make the world accept Rudhi's relationship, but it will make Rudhi, especially Ani, realize that it doesn't matter. What matters is that Rudhi know what relationship they share, accept it, revel in it, and grow in it.

I am sorry if I ramble, but I would love to know your views.

This is exactly how I feel..you worded it just right ❤️

Originally posted by: Nupur_5

AGREE WITH EACH AND EVERY WORDS OF YOURS 👏

Instagram is filled with fans who are angry with Anirudh for calling Bondita as his Zimmedari & also because why he doesn't love her romantically! I really fail to understand how can people want Anirudh to do the things which other men in that era used to do? What will be the difference between Ani & those people then?

Another thing I fail to understand is why people think Zimmedari is a wrong word? There's nothing wrong with it. Even our parents call us their responsibilities, no matter how old we get! And here Bondita is a child who truly dependent on Ani.

I tried to make some people understand through comments but ofcourse got bashed

I agree Nupur. When Ani says zimmedari, Ani is willing to do what it takes, to be what she needs at anytime. This is the purest form of love. Romance aaega jab aaega, sab shows me aata hai. Kuch anokha enjoy karo tab tak.

Originally posted by: Ms.akabane

This is exactly how I feel..you worded it just right ❤️

Thank you so much! ❤️