Originally posted by: nims23
So what really happened today? Did he go back to using a word zimmedari for Bon??
I am not surprised actually .. I saw it coming when he didn’t use word “patni” when he was talking to koeli.. they already gave us a hint then! And yes I agree with you minnu, he doesn’t see her as his patni as per society’s norms, the way society take the literal meaning of patni! For society pati patni means a man and a woman start their relationship as a husband and wife inspite of any age. So of course even if ani consider Bon as his patni means at this point, he thinks her as his partner, companion and the one who is going to support him in his krantikari work! So if to save himself and Bon from this social norm of behaving like a pati patni, he had to use a word zimmedari again, I don’t mind .. I would say he did the right thing. He knows in his heart what Bon is for him and what’s her place in his life is much more than a zimmedari.. what else can we expect from a man who is filling up all type of roles in his kids wife’s life, say it as her father, guardian, mother, friend, supporter, her rakshak and what not! So in my opinion, at this point, when Bon is still a kid, it doesn’t matter if he uses a word patni for her or not !
P.S. I haven’t watched the episode yet, this is my opinion based on some comments I read here!
I agree for ani bon is his partner , he has never seen a girl like her and he has this pure bond of adoration with her ,same goes for bon she said today ani is her protector , her angel they take care of each other , protect each other , are with each other so bon perceives him as her sole mentor ,guardian and ani knows by giving bon a good life he is actually fulfilling his mission , not just this ani is grateful to have bon as light and happiness in his life , in spweation track he realised he is incomplete without her and he has no problem in accepting her as his wife but society is considering bon as a toy who has no consent in these delicate and important matters without knowing what is love how can she be forced in all this ?? I want ani to ask kaka bon needs to know the feeling of love to accept someone like this
Also he is very kuch emotionally attached with bon and it is his monologue that he is just considering this physical aspect of relationship as from his heart and emotionally he has accepted bon , he is afraid to hurt the delicate bon and what if she questions him in future as why her life was played with ?? As bon being a fierce woman in future is definitely gonna question kaka as why he did not consider her choices and her state ??
Ani said it is her raw age which needs to handled with caution
In order to embrace feeling of acceptance and intimacy bon needs another male guy in her life in future who falls for her and makes her realise that ani is the one she loves cause it is gonna be difficult for her to love ani that is why sharing room, patni ka darja all aspects are shown right now and it will not make bon grow with expectations from ani and ani can’t explain her the relationship bon needs to explore by herself
I want bon to accept love for ani because she loves him not because she is expected to love her husband therefore bringing a love interest for bon is also gonna break this stereotype and show another aspect of child marriage but our anidita bond remains intact
And ani expressions and kaka hilarious expressions will be amazing
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