"The Talk About Intimacy" A RudhiTa OS - Page 4

After a long time signed in forum and found this masterpiece 😊 Can we please get such decent and simple explanation of such things in the show please

This os of yours reminded me the good touch and bad touch in the show. I am really amazed and happy to read how beautifully, decently and simply you explained this sensitive topic with the pure emotions and pure feelings of Rudhita and a realistic view of their journey and you also described the impacts of early pregnancy and age gap between children shortly yet to the point.

Ofcourse it was the decent explanation of the topic with maali and mitti thing which I liked about this os but ofcourse it was one more beautiful description of their pure relation which I loved the most.

You're such an amazing writer Ayesha ❤️I would really love to have you as writer of the show, I wish makers to read your stories and offer you a job as BB writer 😆❤️

This was so beautiful❤️👏

Ayesha🤗

Damn!! This is amazing❤️

You penned it down so beautiful👍🏼

everything on point👏

Loved it👏

Originally posted by: nims23

Ayesha🤗

It’s a very very beautiful os dear

First of all kudos to you for choosing this subject to write a os!!!👍🏼 It’s not easy to write about this subject without making it look uncomfortable... you have done an awesome job dear👏👏

The choice of your words are very apt.. not a single word you have used which could make anyone uncomfortable to read!!

You always show a very practical ani in your stories.. and I like the way he always helps Bon to understand all the natural process of human bodies in a very simple and pure manner! It has to be like that only. Each kid at certain age needs to be introduced to this aspect of human life!! And I have no words how you have made ani to this job.. I never thought that a plant, seeds and a land can be an example of reproduction! Good job Ayesha..

You have included how curiosity of a young child of Bon’s age could face until they don’t get a proper answers to their questions.. and here ani has done that wonderfully ... all her innocent question and curiosities are satisfied in the end!
you know what? Here in the US, schools give you a choice if you want your 3rd grader to attend this reproduction process seminar!! I have seen so many parents don’t mind ..
so I would say it’s not about any era but it’s about an age when kids should get this knowledge and how !!

All in all just beautiful piece of work Ayesha🤗🤗

Nimaaaaa! 🤗 Thank you so much, my beautiful friend! You always motivate me so much and encourage me to write more and more. Thank you sooo much for your kind comments. 🤗

I am glad that you liked my choice of words... 😳 I was afraid that my vocab may make people uncomfortable here. I am glad that didn't happen.

Ani in my mind is always going to be the torch-bearer, the guiding light for Bondu. I am not saying that Bondu will need his guidance for a long time as she herself is really smart. But I think the dynamics of a husband and wife need that kind of reliance of a wife on her husband... In Ani's case, he is anyway a lot older than Bon, and he knows her inside out. His experience is more and his outlook is vaster. Even when Bondu becomes independent, I would still want her to have that kind of respect and reliance for maybe her emotional needs on her husband. 😳 It's just an orthodox and stereotypical way that I take this relationship between a husband and wife. You may not agree with me... 😳

Answering such questions and addressing these issues "in a proper way" is really important especially when the kids are growing and they get exposed to various topics like sex etc. If adults act weird regarding these issues, the kids will automatically believe that it is something taboo... or controversial. If the adults normalize these things and teach the kids the rights and the wrongs, the kids will automatically believe that these things are just normal parts of life and they will not put extra thoughts into such matters.

Thats what worked for me at least when I was growing up... 😆

Originally posted by: Anonymous2.0

Wow....just wow.

Absolutely speechless

Awww... thank you so much, buddy! 😳🤗

Originally posted by: itsRitzi

I never thought the analogy of planting can be used for reproduction so beautifully written... I wonder if ppl like ani do exist

Heyy Ritzi! 😃

I am glad that you liked my analogy and then find it weird. I was afraid that this topic may make people uncomfortable... 😳 But I believe that it is an extremely important topic that needs to be discussed and these 'healthy' discussions in decent limits have to be normalized so that our kids do not get the wrong idea about them. 😊

@ bold... 😆 I don't think so.... 😆 Ani is one of his kind. 😎

Originally posted by: Kiarakent97

This was a masterpiece girl. well written. It felt nice to see how gently Anirudh cleared her doubts regarding the matter and how much care he has for his little Bondita.Looking forward for more stories from you 😀

Heyyyy buddy! 🤗 Thanks a lot for your kind comment.

Ani is always the 'voice of sanity' in my one-shots... 😆 (much unlike how he is being portrayed these days in the current track! 😛😆)

I shall write more... 👍🏼 If you have not checked my previous one-shots, let me know. I will give you the links for them too. 😳

Originally posted by: Ka_ta

Ayesha,Once again you've done a fantastic and commendable job❤️👏

You keep complex things simple ,and that's one of the prime reasons why I love reading your OS's.

Looking forward to some more creative writing 🤗

Aww yar... you are soo sweet. ❤️🤗 Thank you so much for liking my writing and taking out time to comment and share your views with me. 😳 It truly means a lot! 🤗

Nima has given me an idea. I am thinking to write about that now. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Viswasruti

The much-needed sex education doesn't need to be a single tell-all discussion, it will be like this too... in a story form...you made it clear!

Through your Ani's clearcut lessons, our Bondita learned it in a systematic way, that is really heartwarming dear.

Aniruddh followed certain decency while explaining it to his wife, he has taken every care about what she needs to know — and when! Sex education often begins as a simple anatomy lesson during the teenage years, either from the mother or from the elder sister. Here you have taken that role as our doctor , well done Ayesha. 🤗You've covered almost all aspect in this regard.

Madhuriiii! 🤗 Its such an amazing feeling to see your comment here... Thank you soo much. 🤗

I am glad that you liked my work and didn't find it cringy or OTT. I was afraid to use bolder words that may have made people uncomfortable. 😊 But I am happy that it went well and you all have showered so much love and praise for it. ❤️

I believe Aniruddh will always be like that. Practical, straight-forward, no shilly-shallying about anything, and no beating about the bush. If Aniruddh had been a real guy, and if Bondu had asked him such things, I believe he would have been very direct and decent with her.

When I was young and I found out about menstruation or sex, my elder sister helped me understand these things in a very normal and matter-of-fact way. I believe that helped me growing up pretty normal about these things too and while my friends would start hyperventilating on seeing the word 'sex' or 'menses,' I would remain absolutely calm and unaffected. 😆 Because for me, it was all a part of natural physiology that, I believed would come to me when the time would be right. I think in today's world, we really need to normalize these discussions in a healthy and decent way too so that our kids do not over-fantasize such things.

🤗 Thank you for your comment once again dear.

Originally posted by: WarriorB

First off kudos to your bravery!! 👏

😆😆 Thank you! I swear I was soo afraid.. 😳

This must have been tough to write!

Actually writing it was not difficult as it is a very basic topic. To keep it decent and nothing OTT was a little difficult though. Especially here, because there is a kid in the cast and this forum is pretty disciplined because of that too... 😊

Second, like all your other stories, the back and forth rapport between the two of them is great! You have no idea how much I enjoyed the Bon jealous one!!

Yeaaaa! This back and forth easy communication between Ani and Bon is what I expect from them in the show also. Abhi bhi, and later too. Also, I am really happy that you liked Bon's jealousy wala OS too... 😳🤗

I laughed like crazies on reading about the sex ed you must have given to your sister... 😆 I was given one by my elder sister too. And honestly, I salute her for doing a wonderful job. She explained everything in a very calm and decent manner, and not once did she make me feel if she was uncomfortable talking about it or not. For me, that was an amazing experience because it left such a positive impact on me. Aise hi kerna chahiye elders ko. 👍🏼

While they will never show this on the show, it really is needed!! I was horrified when they showed Bon being married off n sent to her sasural with what is a stranger and his family. When the good touch, bad touch episode I felt overjoyed that Ani is doing it himself But the irony made me a bit weepy that nobody else thought of that. Like her Ma sent her with lessons on being a good wife But not this. And yes, I know this is a moot point considering the era it is set in but even today informed choice seems to be the missing word!

You are absolutely right! I felt really bad for Bondu too. Bechari ko sasural mien kaise rehna hai sab sikha dia, but such basic and extremely important things her mom missed out in hopes that her pati would explain to her when the right time comes. Now, Bondu was lucky that Ani was a good husband. How many husbands do we think in those olden days were there to wait for their wives to grow up and do the deed? Almost zero, I believe. Even in today's modern era, husbands consider it as their basic right and do not even bother much about things like 'marital rape.' Tou abhi raise hota hai aurton ke sath, uss zamanay mien tou kia kia hota hoga...

Apologies for the rant but anyways, you are awesome for broaching this!! 🤗

I loved talking to you... Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me. 🤗❤️

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