From Oprah winfrey -- for gauri. - Page 3

Originally posted by: tinoo

Oprah winfrey had a series of Life classes recently -- where she devoted one show each to major life lessons she had learned over the course of her life and career.

One of the shows was devoted to the topic "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!"

and she said that she used to spend time angry when someone did something the 29th time, till her mentor Maya angelou said "why are you still angry the 29th time? they've already shown you who they are the first time itself"

And I think this applies to Gauri too. I mean, these sequences again and again are becoming irritating and boring.

Jagat lies, Gauri gets upset, cries and gets angry.

Jagat lies, Gauri gets upset, cries and gets angry

Jagat lies once again, Gauri gets upset, cries and get angry...

and the sequence is continuing till today -- even in the precap.

He promised her he has no more staying in touch with Jayetsar... but bam, the moment her back is turned ... calling bapusa again. Once again, gauri's face shown - upset, angry and tears.

Jagat has already shown you who he is Gauri -- in a variety of formats and situations.

He showed you who he was the first time you came to know that he is an already married man who has been lying to you for five years.

How long will this go on?

So either you accept that this is who he is - and make your peace with the fact that he will always be doing something or other behind your back...

or

decide that this is unacceptable to you, and move on while there is still time.

Dont waste our time with the same scenario of jagat lying, and you getting angry and upset again and again and again and again and again and again ... and yet again, yet again, yet again.

the lesson from Oprah Winfrey is indeed an eye opener for me,sooo really true. about A-J-G, jaisa cvs nachayenge, vaisa nachenge teeno, so don't care really.

Originally posted by: asru

@ Doyelpakhi

G accepted J - based on his love for her + her love for him.
A accepted J - Only based on her love on him. She never calculated how much J loved her.

So,
A would be able to love J, till she falls in love again(which seems highly impossible). Falling in love doesn't mean with another person only, it could even be with her career.
G would be able to love J, till she feels ,he too loves her.

G really needs to work on her relationship instead of screwing it even more!!

Gauri's jealousy or sadism cannot be justified because she put herself in this situation by marrying J. She married him for her own selfish reasons. And now when things are going her way she can't take it. So she is trying to solve her frustration by defaming Anandi.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Gauri's jealousy or sadism cannot be justified because she put herself in this situation by marrying J. She married him for her own selfish reasons. And now when things are going her way she can't take it. So she is trying to solve her frustration by defaming Anandi.

There are people like Gauri on this earth and there is no end to their jealousy. Its not about Anandi or J's care for A. It's G's own dissatisfaction and no one can help her until she takes it calmly and tries to move on. The only way for G to become mahaan is putting A down and since that's not happening she is getting restless, trying to find faults with everyone.

i agree!! in her subconscious mind G wants 2 b "mahan" like A so that every1 luvs & likes her & do jeehujuri of her!!but she knows that she can't b like A & can't've those gud virtues of a gud human being or rather a human being(bcoz if sum1 bcums true human being then theres no need of addn of gud word as being a human is itself a high virtue)!!and its her inferiority complex whichs cuming 2 the fore wenever she heard A's name or her praise!!

If Gauri had that much brains to realize this we wouldn't be watching the same stuff over and over!!