From Oprah winfrey -- for gauri.

Oprah winfrey had a series of Life classes recently -- where she devoted one show each to major life lessons she had learned over the course of her life and career.

tinoo: this time it wasn't about Jagat lying. This time it was about why didn't Anandi elope and if at all she was kidnapped, why did she return home safely!! This is the height of sadism, nothing else. She is such a violent hater of Anandi that she started crying after hearing the news of Anandi's return!! I mean, can you beat that?!!

Gauri dreams of being the haveli ka rani..but this jagya had to save anandi and take her back to haveli.ab woh kaise banegi haveli ki maalkin??She was so confident that anandi was at fault that she must have already hatched a plan in taking advantage of the situation by filing for a divorce, now all her plans are down the drain..naturally she is all upset.😉

haaa 🥺🤣🤣 what can she do
"dil ke tukdae hazar hue bikhar gaye idar udar " sarrey arman toot gaye anandi ghar aa gaye bv na ban paye BV gauri bas itna sa khwah hai main bhi balika vadhu kehlau par kambhakht anandi jaati hi nahin this women is jal kukdi always burning

Originally posted by: anshansh

haaa 🥺🤣🤣 what can she do
"dil ke tukdae hazar hue bikhar gaye idar udar " sarrey arman toot gaye anandi ghar aa gaye bv na ban paye BV gauri bas itna sa khwah hai main bhi balika vadhu kehlau par kambhakht anandi jaati hi nahin this women is jal kukdi always burning

@bold jalkukdi!!omg!!😆😆😆its 2 hilarious!!🤣🤣🤣but i wonder who wants 2 eat chicken of this "jalkukadi".there may b indigestion prob 2 that prsn!!🤣

Originally posted by: woman11

tinoo: this time it wasn't about Jagat lying. This time it was about why didn't Anandi elope and if at all she was kidnapped, why did she return home safely!! This is the height of sadism, nothing else. She is such a violent hater of Anandi that she started crying after hearing the news of Anandi's return!! I mean, can you beat that?!!

It's not about Anandi it's all about Jagat's care for A.


If they had got the news and if J would not have shown so much care for A and would have remained in Mumbai, then even if after learning the truth, G might not have reacted in that way.

But here G's problem is J is showing so much care and since J's prediction has come true, it means J will continue to have same concern, trust for A. G cannot see that J has still concern for A - so it's necessary for her that A's prestige gets down before J.

@ asru - I think you did not read the whole sentence ::) :)

I wrote - If they had got the news and if J would not have shown so much care for A and would have remained in Mumbai, then even if after learning the truth, G might not have reacted in that way.

By truth I meant the news of A's kidnapping. It would not have mattered to Gauri so much whether A eloped or got kidnapped. She would have been least bothered if J remained aloof too!

See, the problem with Gauri is that she feels she is not getting the love, affection, respect, what she deserves. It's not about the Singh family only; she knows very well how Jagya is still concerned for A and thinks highly of her.


Once, Singh family accepts her as beendni or even if they don't, if J remains aloof from A in a true sense, G would not have hated A like the way she does now. She would have been least bothered about A.

Yes, j's concern for A is a factor for g's irritations to wards A but definitely not a solo reason. She has the problem with A coz for anandi only she was rejected on child hood. more than concern it is that matter of rejection plus her own nature!

It was clearly visible just after when JG entered into haveli after marriage, j supported G completely, didn't utter a word in the support of A at all'.but after all these G's behavior towards A just after DS's heart attack was very harsh. When anandi was crying, she called her dramebaz and some more harsh lines too, which clearly show her not so good attitude towards Anandi. Even at that time jag was surprised too watching g's reactions.

And coming to anandi's kidnapping, if jag would not have gone to rescue anandi, I don't think there would have any major changes in g's reaction. She would have keep ranting..see I told u..mahaan anandi ran away now she is back coz she couldn't handle the situation, dramebaaz, and jagiya could not have defended anandi strongly coz of lacking of proof.

So no matter what j will support A or not..she will keep ranting..Anandi yeah anandi woh!😆

if i can use more ifs and buts then i think... if family and j will support gauri completely...even they will throw anandi away...after that also she will keep saying...i dont know how u ppl tolerated the dramebaaz for so long...doing injustice to me...this ..that...that..this... coz even sometimes j didnt mention anandi's name 1st, she came forward starts comparing herself with anandi...my study is imp,but not anandi's , she was ur wife, study was just an extra achievement for her...etc.. etc...jagiya was like

I disagree on the arguments for Gauri's defense for the following reasons:

1. Jagya did not know about Anandi's abduction. As soon as Gauri heard the news, she couldn't wait for him to come home. She had to brave her own pregnant state, take a taxi and go and inform the news as a spicy gossip. If Gauri had remained indifferent and totally unconcerned about Anandi, it would have still made sense. But celebrating and relishing somebody else's infamy , even of the person you hate, is sadism. Ironically, it's Gauri's allegations against Anandi that drove Jagya to the rescue mission.

2. Why did Gauri cry when she heard Anandi had not run away and Jagya saved her? The only possible interpretation is that she was hoping Anandi will be defamed in front of Jagya and the whole family. Again, I would say that it is possible for a person to feel dislike, anger, contempt for the person she hates. But to wish that something bad should actually happen to my enemy, and to get upset when it doesn't, is the height of sadism.

Gauri's hatred for Anandi might have a reason, but the magnitude of her hatred makes her inhuman. I don't think there are many of us who celebrate our enemy's misfortune and cry at their success, no matter how much we hate them!!

Originally posted by: asru

@ Doyelpakhi


G accepted J - based on his love for her + her love for him.
A accepted J - Only based on her love on him. She never calculated how much J loved her.

So,
A would be able to love J, till she falls in love again(which seems highly impossible). Falling in love doesn't mean with another person only, it could even be with her career.
G would be able to love J, till she feels ,he too loves her.

G really needs to work on her relationship instead of screwing it even more!!