Vibhor and Prabha: Mother's love or Possessiveness?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey everyone!

I was wondering how the forum members feel about Prabha's attitude towards Reeti and her (over)possessiveness over Vibhor.

In my opinion, I find it very immature of her to act like Reeti is trying to steal her son from her. 😕 I mean, you are his mother and she is his wife. How are the two comparable in any way? 😲

Prabha should understand that she has her own place in Vibhor's life and Reeti occupies a different place. How can a mother and a wife be in competition? Doesn't make sense at all. As a parent, she should actually try and make sure that ViTi's marriage is sailing smoothly. She should help Reeti adjust well into the Poddar House, but here this lady is busy taunting her.
She seems to be very insecure when it comes to Vibhor because of *cough* Manbhari's secret *cough* and wants him to be her little boy forever. She should understand that he has to grow up and live his own life.

The job of a parent is to give wings to their children so they can fly unfettered, not lock them in a golden cage where the parent can see them, but the child can't fly.

What do you guys think?

Do you think Prabha's behaviour is right or she should get over her insecurity?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity

Hey everyone!

I was wondering how the forum members feel about Prabha's attitude towards Reeti and her (over)possessiveness over Vibhor.

In my opinion, I find it very immature of her to act like Reeti is trying to steal her son from her. 😕 I mean, you are his mother and she is his wife. How are the two comparable in any way? 😲

Prabha should understand that she has her own place in Vibhor's life and Reeti occupies a different place. How can a mother and a wife be in competition? Doesn't make sense at all. As a parent, she should actually try and make sure that ViTi's marriage is sailing smoothly. She should help Reeti adjust well into the Poddar House, but here this lady is busy taunting her.
She seems to be very insecure when it comes to Vibhor because of *cough* Manbhari's secret *cough* and wants him to be her little boy forever. She should understand that he has to grow up and live his own life.

The job of a parent is to give wings to their children so they can fly unfettered, not lock them in a golden cage where the parent can see them, but the child can't fly.

What do you guys think?

Do you think Prabha's behaviour is right or she should get over her insecurity?

I didn't understand about Prabha till now . Prabha in a family where her mother - in - law handovered her 2 sons to her bahu's that is Vibhor's dadiji . Dadiji never letted herself to overcome on bahu's for their sons . next comes kausalya who also handed over her 2 son's to her bahu's . we can see clearly how nikunj is puppet for his wife . aise family mein how can Prabha behave totally opposite . one - way she had own ideas and she is going with them not following her saas baatein where Dadiji clearly explained to Prabha before marriage magar Prabha is stubborn do's what she likes . I feel she is less matured then Vibhor . Prabha reats to allnegative people like bilasi and kajal , not interested in positive peoples thoughts like Dadaji , Dadiji , Kausalya , Ghan Shyam . when Reetti got hurt because of bike everyone reacted kausalya , manisha and even ghan shyam got worried but not prabha . how could one be soo mean . it surprised .even in chula rasam , she didn't agree whole heartedly , she said hmm as if someone compelled . i'm not liking prabha . she is not calling Reeti with her name , she is telling yeh ladki . when muh dikhayi waqt manbhari told to Dadiji apki shaghun ki uptan laga kar kajal aur manisha maa bane the soon Reeti bhi maa banna chahiye then she went away . what prabha wants I didn't understand . pota , poti Reeti se nahi toh kisse chahiye . I didn't understand is this Prabha's mother's love or possessiveness or insecurity .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree with u

prabha's behaviour is weird but i can relate it with real life as i have seen it our society

but i think cvs r making it too much now

her behaviour is maybe the result of that manbhari and prabha secret also

just waiting 4 her track to unfold
Edited by buzzy.reenaholi - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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nice post apu , me 2 didn't like prabha's behavior 4 reeti . something she s hiding from family . did u noticed every time manbhari try 2 save reeti from bilassi & others . vibhor nature s very close 2 his maasi , childish , un mature 😆 funny but not greedy . y prabha s not liking reeti just boz her age , not at all. something really big & serious . again bilasi'll target 2 reeti 4all that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sree.gattu

I didn't understand about Prabha till now . Prabha in a family where her mother - in - law handovered her 2 sons to her bahu's that is Vibhor's dadiji . Dadiji never letted herself to overcome on bahu's for their sons . next comes kausalya who also handed over her 2 son's to her bahu's . we can see clearly how nikunj is puppet for his wife . aise family mein how can Prabha behave totally opposite . one - way she had own ideas and she is going with them not following her saas baatein where Dadiji clearly explained to Prabha before marriage magar Prabha is stubborn do's what she likes . I feel she is less matured then Vibhor . Prabha reats to allnegative people like bilasi and kajal , not interested in positive peoples thoughts like Dadaji , Dadiji , Kausalya , Ghan Shyam . when Reetti got hurt because of bike everyone reacted kausalya , manisha and even ghan shyam got worried but not prabha . how could one be soo mean . it surprised .even in chula rasam , she didn't agree whole heartedly , she said hmm as if someone compelled . i'm not liking prabha . she is not calling Reeti with her name , she is telling yeh ladki . when muh dikhayi waqt manbhari told to Dadiji apki shaghun ki uptan laga kar kajal aur manisha maa bane the soon Reeti bhi maa banna chahiye then she went away . what prabha wants I didn't understand . pota , poti Reeti se nahi toh kisse chahiye . I didn't understand is this Prabha's mother's love or possessiveness or insecurity .



Yeah, you are right. Prabha has very good precedents to follow- in the form of Dadi and Kaushalya, but I wonder which tangent she is on. Pata nahi kisse follow kar rahi hai?

As you said, Prabha doesn't seem to be very mature. At least Vibhor and her have something in common, hehe. 😛

@black- Bang on!

@black 2- 🤣🤣. Pata nahi pota/poti Reeti se nahi chahiye toh kahan se chahiye. Kya bataun, yaar!

Love your comment.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: buzzy.reenaholi

i agree with u


prabha's behaviour is weird but i can relate it with real life as i have seen it our society

but i think cvs r making it too much now

her behaviour is maybe the result of that manbhari and prabha secret also

just waiting 4 her track to unfold



Yes, it is definitely prevalent in real life and I hope that the CVs address it properly. 😊

I think there should be a subplot where we see the reason behind Prabha's attitude and her softening up to Reeti.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shree_007

nice post apu , me 2 didn't like prabha's behavior 4 reeti . something she s hiding from family . did u noticed every time manbhari try 2 save reeti from bilassi & others . vibhor nature s very close 2 his maasi , childish , un mature 😆 funny but not greedy . y prabha s not liking reeti just boz her age , not at all. something really big & serious . again bilasi'll target 2 reeti 4all that.



Yeah, bilkul. Vibhor is like his maasi, 'cause she is his maa, hehe. 😉

@bold- Prabha ko koi batao ki 21st century aa gayi hai. Unke bete ko kisi ne khaayi mein nahi dakhela. I think she should listen to Dadi's pravachan.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't understand!! What is Manbhari's secret? Is Vibor not Prabha & Ghansham's son??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post Apu.
To some extent I can understand Prabha's attitude towards Reeti...but that doesn't justify her actions either. She dislikes Reeti as she thinks Reeti and her father forced themselves on her sweet, innocent young son who still in her eyes is a kiddo and too young to marry. To top it all...the circumstances under which the marriage happened...i.e. she feels her son sacrificed his whole life for someone who is older than him and deserved much better, and also she feels that Reeti and family with their money power had her son under their control and got what they wanted...feels her son got a bad deal and cheated. She feels their situation and helplessness was exploited by Reeti. And Reeti and Poddar family have a bitter past...in her mind that misconception still exists to forgive and accept Reeti.

What I dislike about Prabha even though I understand her POV was, she saw how obliging Reeti was to her all her demands and orders...yet she fails to give Reeti a chance to prove herself as a good wife or DIL...also she believes others easily without giving it a second thought. Her possessiveness over Vibhor has increased since marriage. Her insecurity seems foolish...as she has seen how her MIL treated them all and how strict the family rules and tradition are. Hope Prabha changes her attitude gradually and stands supportive of Reeti soon.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with all posts and day Prabha aded one more -
Vibhor to chota hai .. Tum to Bari ho - so now she wants her age to come to defend her son also

She is so confused ..

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