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Posted: 8 years ago
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Do you girls know that there is an official villain in this story and its not Aman rather its our DADI (oops, sorry she's Abhi's). She talks big about principles and cooperation between family members. All the members of Pant family look onto her for her recognition of them. I din't like her right from the start when she rejected a proposal for Abhi for the reason that they want Abhi for themselves when she isn't much different.

Abhi worships her like a goddess and starts his day with her blessings which is completely right on his part but does she actually deserve this respect. She brings out complexes in her children, din't punish the elder son for being irresponsible for the last ten years and instead wants her grandkids to cuddle with him despite them facing all the hardships till today... I thought may be she's somewhere still a grandmom when she outright rejected yog and chachi for Radhika on realising that its Abhi's impulsiveness that he accepted but then again BOOM!!! a greater downfall, she seems to recognise that Abhi is inclined to Meera and now confirms his rishta with Radhika...

This is heights of selfishness... she must be able to let go of her child for his happiness if there isn't any better option. Animals are much better than humans in this aspect as an individual fends for itself till the day it dies not depending on its offsprings. She being completely aware of Abhi's feelings and still not giving him the space he needs to atleast recuperate from them is just inhuman. What is he!! a machine to work without even considering his own emotions for his whole damn life...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I do not like the character and she represents what is wrong with a lot of people who support the joint family concept at the cost of a person who ends up paying the price to keep it all together.

The problem is none of them wants a partner for Abhi who will love or cherish him or make him smile. Maybe, his mother does. For rest of them, they want a person who fulfils their agenda.

They need a person to shoulder the responsibility which he is handling alone. They want another work horse who will care for a lot of good for nothings in the house.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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She appears to be the most sane person in the house but has been hasty and a tad prejudiced.
She was hasty when she suspected Meera without reason and asked her to leave and now again in solemnizing the alliance for Abhishek..



Huge disappointment she was...but to be honest the father was a bigger disappointment since he is back for what seems a selfish reason..

In all in all Abhishek barely has a true well-wisher other than the mom and the autistic bro ...and thing is they both are handicapped in one way or the other and cannot be of much help!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: slumberqueen

She appears to be the most sane person in the house but has been hasty and a tad prejudiced.

She was hasty when she suspected Meera without reason and asked her to leave and now again in solemnizing the alliance for Abhishek..



Huge disappointment she was...but to be honest the father was a bigger disappointment since he is back for what seems a selfish reason..

In all in all Abhishek barely has a true well-wisher other than the mom and the autistic bro ...and thing is they both are handicapped in one way or the other and cannot be of much help!


No, actually all the younger ones are Abhi's well-wishers as you can see that no one was happy yesterday as Abhi wasn't happy but they really have no say in issues of house. It seems that Dadi's words are final, even babli has no say
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All the elders of the show are a huge disappointment. Whether it be Babli, Dadi, Rhea or chachu and chachis .. they are selfish, stuck in their own fears and complexities .. and making thier children and younger ones pay for it. They all are too afraid of the change .. while the only sufferers are Abhi and meera.

ALthough Abhi is deliberately sacrificing but the day Meera realises that she is being forced into something .. that girl is gonna repel and everyone is gonna watch!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know why but in Thurs epi i felt that Dadi was thinking about getting abhi-meera married...i know its stupid but i felt
She said that she wont let history to repeat itself and then she was dead against Radhika girl
She was praying to God to show her right way n help in taking decision
May be Dadi thought, if she herself will take initiative then Abhi will not run away
Then in yeaterday's epi wen she over heard Raizadas convo then she took firm decision otherwise she was reluctant
I am assuming she guaged Meera in that convo n is sure she too hv feelings for Abhi
"mai jo dekh rahi hoon wo koi nhi dekh raha hai"
Her sudden acceptance of Radhika has left me confused
Is it her ploy to guage Abhi-Meera or is she trying to keep Abhi away from Raizadas cos their convo hinted how they think of him and Riya ne toh bola meera toh kisi rah chalte ko bhi dost banale or she is genuinely scared k Abhi will run away

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: peeyara

I don't know why but in Thurs epi i felt that Dadi was thinking about getting abhi-meera married...i know its stupid but i felt
She said that she wont let history to repeat itself and then she was dead against Radhika girl
She was praying to God to show her right way n help in taking decision
May be Dadi thought, if she herself will take initiative then Abhi will not run away
Then in yeaterday's epi wen she over heard Raizadas convo then she took firm decision otherwise she was reluctant
I am assuming she guaged Meera in that convo n is sure she too hv feelings for Abhi
"mai jo dekh rahi hoon wo koi nhi dekh raha hai"
Her sudden acceptance of Radhika has left me confused
Is it her ploy to guage Abhi-Meera or is she trying to keep Abhi away from Raizadas cos their convo hinted how they think of him and Riya ne toh bola meera toh kisi rah chalte ko bhi dost banale or she is genuinely scared k Abhi will run away


Hey I don't know why you're confused but she's scared that Abhi will move away with Meera if they're to be in a relationship... her not letting history repeat dialogue is not letting Abhi be similar to her youngest son. She observed that Meera too has some special hing for Abhi which Meera herself doesn't have any idea about but dadi could look through because of her experience in life... then she immediately fixed Abhi's alliance with Radhika without delaying further
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeh daadi kaunsa stupid logic laga rahi hain 😡 Radhika hi aakhri ladki bachi hai kya abhi ke liye 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

Yeh daadi kaunsa stupid logic laga rahi hain😡Radhika hi aakhri ladki bachi hai kya abhi ke liye😡



Exactly! Even if she is worried that Meera will take him away, why Radhika?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Amulya--



Hey I don't know why you're confused but she's scared that Abhi will move away with Meera if they're to be in a relationship... her not letting history repeat dialogue is not letting Abhi be similar to her youngest son. She observed that Meera too has some special hing for Abhi which Meera herself doesn't have any idea about but dadi could look through because of her experience in life... then she immediately fixed Abhi's alliance with Radhika without delaying further


Ahaan it make sense
Pehle Dadi was not sure if Meera too hv feelings shayad isiliye she was ok but wen she gotta know k Meera too harbour same feelings she decided to get Abhi married
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