Spineless family members - Page 3

Originally posted by: unicorn1

Priya mami is sooooo f*cking cringe 🤢

Mahendar ki secret spy hai kya ye aunty 😡

'Ab sab milke ache se shadi manayenge' my foot. I think she meant 'ab sab milke ache se shadi bigadenge' 😡

So now we have 4 ki team to create drama in wedding - Priya's mami + Mahendar + Neeraj + Shashi

Why I don't know this season cvs are torturing us with so many negative and irritating characters🤢. Being herself a woman this mami is stereotyping girls shame on her😡

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

my angry emoji shows how i feel about that pathetic disgusting excuse of a father, priya has😡🤬.......i so wish raam supports her in not calling him .........how vile he is? he just wants dem to be miserable........priya's mom needs to take a stand .......y should gals suffer coz of you couldnt throw him out of your lives.....he cant just barge in whenever he wants.........y the others gals are like their mom? and ye mami kahan se aa gai hai dimag kharab karne? are they sure akshya is her son?

i want raam's support coz no one is listening to priya.......warna priya herself is enough for putting him in his place.......

i feel priya's family is based on zindagi gulzaar hai story.......

I doubt how come a person like akshay has such a negative mom🤢. And it's high time meera and her daughters take a strong stand and kick this disgusting good for nothing man out of their lives🤬. I just hate this character😡

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Meera is too weak to do that... She'd rather beg that filthy man to attend priya's wedding for society's sake.😔

Exactly god knows why her character is been shown so much weak it should be a bit strong

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Why I don't know this season cvs are torturing us with so many negative and irritating characters🤢. Being herself a woman this mami is stereotyping girls shame on her😡

I don't mind so many villans .All I want is the cv's to not dumb down priya and make her doormat or be at receiving end for everything. I want the original badass gutsy priya to stand up for herself and take no nonsense from anyone. I don't want her to fall weak in front of anyone. I would definitely not want her father to do kanyadaan no matter what.🤢

Originally posted by: Yuvishka123

I don't mind so many villans .All I want is the cv's to not dumb down priya and make her doormat or be at receiving end for everything. I want the original badass gutsy priya to stand up for herself and take no nonsense from anyone. I don't want her to fall weak in front of anyone. I would definitely not want her father to do kanyadaan no matter what.🤢

Exactly I want her to remain the same rude priya. Even she ends up overreacting I am OK with that. Anyways I don't think they will make her a typical female lead because we already have a mahaan male lead😆. I just want everyone to kick that filthy man out of the house and if no one is doing then priya should only take the initiative😡. And if that mami comes to interfere priya should give her a befitting reply😡

thanks for sharing your story @funny_fubar. I think the problem is that the arranged marriage system is not really set up for being honest or forthright.

I had a friend at work who came from a complicated background. both of her parents had split and were with other people while she was raised by her grandparents. she once said -- how do you explain something like that on a online shaadi website profile? if she was honest from the beginning, either she got rejected outright or she ended up attracting losers who were interested in taking advantage of her situation. if she went through rishtas from relatives, they would consistently suggest people who were not per her requirements and they told her to not expect too much because of her background.

lest, we think that this happens only for girls, it also happens for boys. so a friend of a friend-- she was in love with this guy who had a complicated background (like the story of my other friend). while his father was at least married to his current partner, his mother had a shady reputation as she had gone through several partners and always on to the next guy. because he was brought up by his grandfather (father's side), the irony is that he was actually very conservative and old fashioned. because of his background, he got rejected by his girlfriend's family but he refused to hide who he was or run away with her. so they broke up. because this girl was refusing to forget this boy, her father started looking for rishtas for her younger sister. she was engaged but they found out this guy was openly living with someone (abroad). that really woke up the girl's parents to what a gem this boy was -- maybe his family situation was complicated but compared to the sister's fiancée (who came from a very good family with a solid reputation), he was honest and exactly who he said he was.

so the system and our people stigmatizes the family background. sometimes people are right in being wary of background because it can tell you a lot about the person and how they might act in future and if there will be problem from the in-laws. however, in other cases, it is unfair because it isn't necessarily a reflection on the person at all. the only way to distinguish between the two is if there are open forthright conversations where people share what led to the circumstances and what they are looking for.

while ram and priya are getting married for the family's sake, I find it strange that there has been no conversation about family background, history etc. so we have this random dramatic scenes which frankly feel out of place because both ram and priya are honest people. so why not chat?

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

This is actually way more common than you think. It has happened innumerable times in my family.

But to give you a more solid example, I was raised by a single mom with an absent father. My grandparents helped raising me and my Maama-Maami were pretty close growing up.

I went through the arranged marriage process(Inkid you not, I was Priya lite. At one point, my mom requested me to look out and find someone I liked. I told her I'll buy a condo and adopt andog instead 😆). There is a helluva lot of stigma involved with a fatherless daughter. The politer ones would decline nicely. The rude alliances would sometimes immediately put down the phone, or worse say mean things to my mom/grandparents.

My relatives, just like Priya's maami, kept pressurizing to bring my dad back for the period of the marriage. They convinced everyone in my family, including my mom, that I would never get married without my father present. My mom was willing to go as far as writing off a property to him so that he would show up for the stipulated period.

It took a few years- but finally when one of the alliances worked out- my inlaws were initially hellbent on trying to mediate between my mom and dad. But my mom and maama explained the entire situation to them.

Eventually it came down to me- I vehemently refused to be given away by my absentee father. I essentially told everyone, including my in laws, that they could bring my father in- but I would not show up. And this involved me facing a lot of pressure, scolding, lamenting from my relatives. Finally, they all agreed and I was married away rather peacefully.

The only sad part is my mom couldn't do my kanyadaan- that was the only part I could not convince everyone. My grandparents did my kanyadaan. But on somedays my mom really feels for it- she fought against the world, and brought me up, educated me, even sent me abroad for further studies- all without any monetary help from anyone(including her brother), but she did not have the right to give me away 😐

Sorry if it is TMI. But I just wanted to point out- this happens a lot. Most families and girls actually cave in and get their father during the wedding phase. I know a couple of families like that. It took out a lot of energy from me just to keep my father out.

More power to you and your mom ❤️

I have seen this happen with some known people too and its so heartbreaking for the bride. What's supposed to be her happiest day turns foul because of these bu*lsh*t beliefs of society

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

thanks for sharing your story @funny_fubar. I think the problem is that the arranged marriage system is not really set up for being honest or forthright.

I had a friend at work who came from a complicated background. both of her parents had split and were with other people while she was raised by her grandparents. she once said -- how do you explain something like that on a online shaadi website profile? if she was honest from the beginning, either she got rejected outright or she ended up attracting losers who were interested in taking advantage of her situation. if she went through rishtas from relatives, they would consistently suggest people who were not per her requirements and they told her to not expect too much because of her background.

lest, we think that this happens only for girls, it also happens for boys. so a friend of a friend-- she was in love with this guy who had a complicated background (like the story of my other friend). while his father was at least married to his current partner, his mother had a shady reputation as she had gone through several partners and always on to the next guy. because he was brought up by his grandfather (father's side), the irony is that he was actually very conservative and old fashioned. because of his background, he got rejected by his girlfriend's family but he refused to hide who he was or run away with her. so they broke up. because this girl was refusing to forget this boy, her father started looking for rishtas for her younger sister. she was engaged but they found out this guy was openly living with someone (abroad). that really woke up the girl's parents to what a gem this boy was -- maybe his family situation was complicated but compared to the sister's fiancée (who came from a very good family with a solid reputation), he was honest and exactly who he said he was.

so the system and our people stigmatizes the family background. sometimes people are right in being wary of background because it can tell you a lot about the person and how they might act in future and if there will be problem from the in-laws. however, in other cases, it is unfair because it isn't necessarily a reflection on the person at all. the only way to distinguish between the two is if there are open forthright conversations where people share what led to the circumstances and what they are looking for.

while ram and priya are getting married for the family's sake, I find it strange that there has been no conversation about family background, history etc. so we have this random dramatic scenes which frankly feel out of place because both ram and priya are honest people. so why not chat?

Actually people think that marriage is the only solution of your problems and for that they can go to any extent. But I am happy that finally your friend settled in her life👍🏼❤️

About this serial creatives are rushing like hell without even developing a scene properly

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Actually people think that marriage is the only solution of your problems and for that they can go to any extent. But I am happy that finally your friend settled in her life👍🏼❤️

About this serial creatives are rushing like hell without even developing a scene properly

very true; people think marriage is the only solution but for some, it is actually the start to their problems instead.

yea I really don't understand why they are running like a shatabdi express. is this supposed to be a short series? I don't get it at all. normally ekta kapoor serials, one conversation will take place over multiple episodes with camera freeze shots on every person. hahahah.. one day wedding will be covered for 15+ episodes or something like that 🤣...

Why is priya's mom so regressive and she will make a fool of herself and her children thats all she does. I mean she is fine with priya's sister marrying her ex . She tolerates whatever nonsense her horrible husband speaks. I mean even if one day priya's father comes back and says I want to be with u . She will accept him and take him back. I feel priya's mother is much more horrible and worse than mahendra sood and neeraj😡