Marriage is not all about love - priya

As we all know and watched how from bollywood to TV all they hype about love that love is all you need when it not only thing that makes a perfect relationship

For a perfect relationship special in a marriage you need respect each other, loyal to each other and most importantly honest with each other and proper communication between husband and wife also one of the important things that you can accept your partner flaws

I just love the way priya said that how love is not only thing you need it Ram respect priya and his honest with with her about that their are not marrying because he need yaa she need a life partner they are marrying because of their sister and bother

And think at this point Ram Priya don't just need love balki they really need a person that they can share their problems, worries and stand for each other in tough times.... All feel the gap of emotions that why Ram Priya imperfectly is perfect for each other ❤️

Its so realistic & natural & infact true too❤

In a relationship what is more important is respect honesty loyalty & communication👍🏼

Originally posted by: RAGHVIFAM

As we all know and watched how from bollywood to TV all they hype about love that love is all you need when it not only thing that makes a perfect relationship

For a perfect relationship special in a marriage you need respect each other, loyal to each other and most importantly honest with each other and proper communication between husband and wife also one of the important things that you can accept your partner flaws

I just love the way priya said that how love is not only thing you need it Ram respect priya and his honest with with her about that their are not marrying because he need yaa she need a life partner they are marrying because of their sister and bother

And think at this point Ram Priya don't just need love balki they really need a person that they can share their problems, worries and stand for each other in tough times.... All feel the gap of emotions that why Ram Priya imperfectly is perfect for each other ❤️

I bolded the starting sentence of the third graph -- the thing is when you talk to people in different age groups, they have different aspirations and needs from a relationship. a same person can put love as a huge motivating factor in their 20s/teenage years but in their 30s, can feel that respect is more important. the reverse can also happen. you hear of people who you think will never consider love all of a sudden talking about love when they are older. so sometimes life changes you or maybe you are just more honest with yourself.

that said, what one needs from a relationship can be very different from another. what do I mean by that? ask someone their favourite romantic move and they might name a move / drama that will make your eyes roll. even in a drama where there are multiple couples, there are often shipping wars that happen where one set of fans feel their couple is more 'romantic' than other. however people entirely miss the point they could learn there. often, the couples we find 'romantic' tells us something about ourselves and what we would like and need from a relationship. so some find witty banter couple romantic while another might find a quiet couple who hardly speak romantic. some find examples of trust and loyalty romantic while others might find spontaneity and laughter romantic. there is no actual standard measurement for romantic. it is basically all about the couple, the chemistry, the feelings of being on the same page.

then there is the question of what makes a marriage work. yes, you can love each other but have the relationship still fall apart. one needs to be able to communicate, have a common vision and be able to work with each other on a variety of different projects/areas. it sounds more like a work relationship but if you think about it, those skills also apply. now, you can still try your very best but it still won't work in some cases.

now, back to the story -- ram and priya are honest about their expectations from each other, are communicating what they are looking and having a shared vision that they are doing it for their family and are willing to work with each other. so they should be successful in their journey. ❤️

I back Priya on her views of marriage...

Love is a frugal because it solely depends on the person you are marrying for Love... If they are momentarily in love then what's the use...

Or if they dont respect you... They say that they love you but they don't believe you... or they don't give your individuality space then Love is of little consequence.

And what if there is no loyalty but only the claim?

Besides, Love blossoms where there is respect, consideration and loyalty, I have experienced it❤️

If all those things are there, what everyone calls as LOVE, won't be far away either. 😊

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I bolded the starting sentence of the third graph -- the thing is when you talk to people in different age groups, they have different aspirations and needs from a relationship. a same person can put love as a huge motivating factor in their 20s/teenage years but in their 30s, can feel that respect is more important. the reverse can also happen. you hear of people who you think will never consider love all of a sudden talking about love when they are older. so sometimes life changes you or maybe you are just more honest with yourself.

that said, what one needs from a relationship can be very different from another. what do I mean by that? ask someone their favourite romantic move and they might name a move / drama that will make your eyes roll. even in a drama where there are multiple couples, there are often shipping wars that happen where one set of fans feel their couple is more 'romantic' than other. however people entirely miss the point they could learn there. often, the couples we find 'romantic' tells us something about ourselves and what we would like and need from a relationship. so some find witty banter couple romantic while another might find a quiet couple who hardly speak romantic. some find examples of trust and loyalty romantic while others might find spontaneity and laughter romantic. there is no actual standard measurement for romantic. it is basically all about the couple, the chemistry, the feelings of being on the same page.

then there is the question of what makes a marriage work. yes, you can love each other but have the relationship still fall apart. one needs to be able to communicate, have a common vision and be able to work with each other on a variety of different projects/areas. it sounds more like a work relationship but if you think about it, those skills also apply. now, you can still try your very best but it still won't work in some cases.

now, back to the story -- ram and priya are honest about their expectations from each other, are communicating what they are looking and having a shared vision that they are doing it for their family and are willing to work with each other. so they should be successful in their journey. ❤️

Kitni deep baatein ki hain aapne.. dil Khush kar ditta..❤🧡💛💚💙💜

Originally posted by: life_is_fun

If all those things are there, what everyone calls as LOVE, won't be far away either. 😊

definitely and i think these all think when meets together in a relationship that when it becomes love 😳

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I bolded the starting sentence of the third graph -- the thing is when you talk to people in different age groups, they have different aspirations and needs from a relationship. a same person can put love as a huge motivating factor in their 20s/teenage years but in their 30s, can feel that respect is more important. the reverse can also happen. you hear of people who you think will never consider love all of a sudden talking about love when they are older. so sometimes life changes you or maybe you are just more honest with yourself.

that said, what one needs from a relationship can be very different from another. what do I mean by that? ask someone their favourite romantic move and they might name a move / drama that will make your eyes roll. even in a drama where there are multiple couples, there are often shipping wars that happen where one set of fans feel their couple is more 'romantic' than other. however people entirely miss the point they could learn there. often, the couples we find 'romantic' tells us something about ourselves and what we would like and need from a relationship. so some find witty banter couple romantic while another might find a quiet couple who hardly speak romantic. some find examples of trust and loyalty romantic while others might find spontaneity and laughter romantic. there is no actual standard measurement for romantic. it is basically all about the couple, the chemistry, the feelings of being on the same page.

then there is the question of what makes a marriage work. yes, you can love each other but have the relationship still fall apart. one needs to be able to communicate, have a common vision and be able to work with each other on a variety of different projects/areas. it sounds more like a work relationship but if you think about it, those skills also apply. now, you can still try your very best but it still won't work in some cases.

now, back to the story -- ram and priya are honest about their expectations from each other, are communicating what they are looking and having a shared vision that they are doing it for their family and are willing to work with each other. so they should be successful in their journey. ❤️

wow you explained it so well about it 👏❤️

Originally posted by: life_is_fun

Kitni deep baatein ki hain aapne.. dil Khush kar ditta..❤🧡💛💚💙💜

awww, thank you. ❤️

honestly, when I was growing up, my friends would always laugh that I am anti-romantic. like Priya, I was told that I was being negative when I would bring up facts. however, over the years I learned that I am romantic and my style of romance is just not typical chocolates and staring freeze contests in dramas (which just have me in laughs and feeling sorry for the actors to hold those poses for some 3 odd minutes. 🤣) it sounds funny to say this but a lot of my post reflects what I learned from conversations about different kdramas on one forum. I learned through various people's reactions as well as their reaction to my posts. I was so surprised to hear the word 'romantic' and 'poetic' tagged to my posts. but yea, basically I don't fangirl to every couple or drama but there are some I do. why about them and not others? it tells you a lot about yourself and what you like and you need.

so for example, in this drama -- ram asks priya if she likes to cook and she gets annoyed and then he explains that he likes food. now, I have seen this in other dramas where people get offended about this idea of cooking and being old fashioned blah blah blah. however, for those who love food, someone cooking you a meal is a sign of love. as a foodie and a family of foodies, I really relate to that. we are not really verbally expressive but we will pull out a feast for our loved ones. the table is absolutely full when our loved ones gather. we remember what each other likes and we try to include that. for some, it is very difficult to understand that kind of expressing love because to them, food is just something you put in your body. they don't have that kind of emotional reaction to a loved one ordering you the food you enjoy.

so when priya says marriage is not all about love -- the question that comes is what kind of 'love' are we talking about? are we talking about passing chits full of cute notes like in school? are we talking about staring at each other endlessly and then blushing like teenagers? are we talking about chatting endlessly about all sorts of nothings? then there is the love of easy companionship, of laughter, of security etc etc etc. there are different kinds of love with different kinds of flavours but it is also about what one expects and needs. does it mean that one type of love is more romantic than another? no, it is about what you want and need right? some people love big gestures and "I love you" while others don't need that. they just want you to take them for a drive when they need fresh air or make you soup when you get sick. the boring gestures can make some hearts beat so loud. so all depends on the person.

this drama is being rushed too fast like a rajdhani/shatabdi express. I wish they would slow down and build up the characters sketches and motivations more. it would make the drama more meaningful as well as entertaining.

Originally posted by: RAGHVIFAM

As we all know and watched how from bollywood to TV all they hype about love that love is all you need when it not only thing that makes a perfect relationship

For a perfect relationship special in a marriage you need respect each other, loyal to each other and most importantly honest with each other and proper communication between husband and wife also one of the important things that you can accept your partner flaws

I just love the way priya said that how love is not only thing you need it Ram respect priya and his honest with with her about that their are not marrying because he need yaa she need a life partner they are marrying because of their sister and bother

And think at this point Ram Priya don't just need love balki they really need a person that they can share their problems, worries and stand for each other in tough times.... All feel the gap of emotions that why Ram Priya imperfectly is perfect for each other ❤️

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