BALH3 Episode Discussion Topic # 3 - Page 23

Originally posted by: Banyantree

I was gritting my teeth wanting to slap Ram throughout. He is so annoying with his rubbish when Priya clearly is pissed off and there to discuss something. Some crap he mumbles instead of just shutting up and listening to her. Also just coz his mom said a place near kapoor mansion is convenient distance wise doesn't mean he jumps to action without asking priya. Even if his mom had asked Priya and she agreed, it still was wrong to make any plans without discussing with priya. Theres NO exuse. Priya was so calm though in anger also. I wanted to slap the guy. Doesn't he know after 3months Priya will still work?! Why would she shut her place then and move to another location. And he had the audacity to repeat his stupid explanation and ask Priya to reconsider even after she very clearly said NO.

Man. I don't know if I should watch anymore.

Such a nuisance Ram is.

I just wanna enter the screen and shake sense into him.

And whats with this constant fat shaming he does?! Telling priya she looks too hari bhari, healthy etc etc.

Precap has Alekha also alleging that Ram has "changed". So she's also gonna blame Priya for Ram realizing Yuvraj is good for nothing. Just coz that guy cant do anything right and shes marrying him , now Ram has to go easy on his shoddiness. Wow.

Love your comment on the whole.🤣❤️👏

@bold: HAHAHAHAHA My feelings exactly! I just couldn't tolerate Ram today AT ALL. What happens after 3 months? Doesn't he realize that it is a contract marriage and this is an arrangement of sorts for 3 MONTHS only!?🤪

Originally posted by: Banyantree

I was gritting my teeth wanting to slap Ram throughout. He is so annoying with his rubbish when Priya clearly is pissed off and there to discuss something. Some crap he mumbles instead of just shutting up and listening to her. Also just coz his mom said a place near kapoor mansion is convenient distance wise doesn't mean he jumps to action without asking priya. Even if his mom had asked Priya and she agreed, it still was wrong to make any plans without discussing with priya. Thetes NO exuse. Priya was so calm though in anger also. I wanted to slap the guy. Doesn't he know after 3months Priya will still work?! Why would she shut her place then and move to another location. And he had the audacity to repeat his stupid explanation and ask Priya to reconsider even after she very clearly said NO.

Man. I don't know if I should watch anymore.

Such a nuisance Ram is.

I just wanna enter the screen and shake sense into him.

And whats with this constant fat shaming he does?! Telling priya she looks too hari bhari, healthy etc etc.

Precap has Alekha also alleging that Ram has "changed". So she's also gonna blame Priya for Ram realizing Yuvraj is good for nothing. Just coz that guy cant do anything right and shes marrying him , now Ram has to go easy on his shoddiness. Wow.

I made a mistake of watching today’s episode after hearing it was GF free. I agree Ram seems to follow anything and everything Jaan says blindly. Now I suspect this as a reason he breaks up with his GF… This guy seems to have no capability to think by himself… S3 is such a disappointment . If they have any viewers left, it’s only because of the leads. Alekha seems to have only one expression on her face for how much ever I’ve seen of her…. I really hope Priya stays put on her decision to not move her clinic….So far nothing makes sense….

Who the heck does Ram think he is to close down Priya's clinic without even talking to her? I don't care whether his Jaan asked him to or whether he thought Priya was aware. He had no right, not without talking to her. Personally, I'd have slapped his smug face. And please tell me how that could even work. Clinic keys? Lease?

So after a contract where they're not to interfere in each other's work or workspace, this mumma-loving moron thinks he's so virtuous and noble for looking for a place and neglecting his own work (which seems to consist solely of sampling food).

I have always tried to be reasonable about Ram and his actions and dialogues. However, this is next-level infuriating. Why the heck should Priya change her clinic because his mother wants it? (I'm sure Shalini would understand if Priya prefers to stay where she is.) Let Ram make changes in his own life if Shalini suggests it, not in Priya's. I don't think he was that keen to keep his Jaan's word "sar aankhon par" when she kept asking him to get married, not when it didn't suit him because his gf didn't want to. Disrespectful, arrogant, entitled behaviour.

Priya should not have let him go lightly because he said he was just trying to please his mum.

I'm so mad, I couldn't even continue watching. I'll go run through the rest and come back later.

Agree 100 %

Priya was SO mild with him even though he was outright disrespectful, entitled and arrogant.

I absolutely cant stand this season Ram at all.

She should have threatened that if he does any other BS, she'll sue him for breach of contract and end the farce wedding with no heed to his jaan whom he conveniently uses as a dangling carrot to get Priya emotional and illogical everytime he wants.

Originally posted by: Banyantree

Agree 100 %

Priya was SO mild with him even though he was outright disrespectful, entitled and arrogant.

I absolutely cant stand this season Ram at all.

She should have threatened that if he does any other BS, she'll sue him for breach of contract and end the farce wedding with no heed to his jaan whom he conveniently uses as a dangling carrot to get Priya emotional and illogical everytime he wants.

I wanted her to do a tit for tat and close down his office and buy him a place in Vashi--with his money.🤣

How short-sighted and egoistic of him to not even think that in 3 months this proposed shift would make commuting to work harder for her.

And this holding arms/hands, jo bhi, is getting on my nerves. It's so stupid, and insulting to viewers who aren't swooning at such useless nonsense.

Please, I'm praying for a serial where the ml is not a ma bhakt. (Not blaming Shalini, just this 'Anything maa/parent figure says/parents say deserves unthinking obedience' trope.) Also fls who don't go out of their way for in-laws and end up surrounded by them and insulted in the living room. I could probably go on and on, but this isn't worth it.

Originally posted by: minakrish

Okay, I actually didn't like anyone other than Priya in today's episode.😳 But yes, there was sufficient progress so, it was a decent episode. Also, no Kriti.. so that's a plus!😆

Ram - I don't know if it is Nakuul's dialogue delivery or the writing, he was really irritating me with the way he was speaking and eating half his words and blabbering and mumbling constantly.🤔

Shreya & her mom - Plotting geniuses. Trying to give Shalini some kinda stuff that will never let her recover from her heart condition. Ye kaise family members hain? Aise family members ko to ghar se badakhal kar dena chahiye. Absolute nonsense.🤬

I loved the fact the Priya genuinely cares for Shalini and Ram is appreciative of that.❤️

^ This is me everytime I see Ram eating or talking about food.🤣

Precap: Finally Alekha is clearing the air and trying to figure out a way to bring peace in the work atmosphere. This girl is intelligent but she has fallen in love with the wrong man.😒

I was so annoyed that I didn't really want to watch, so usual skip-skip, hop, quick look, skip. Got annoyed at Priya too, because being nice and taking on Shalini's diet planning is just going to land her in trouble. I dread, absolutely DREAD, those living room attacks we're all so familiar with.

Yaar, @bold, mereko yeh kuchh clearing the air nahi laga. I feel Yuvraj has chavi maroed, convinced Alekha that Priya's influencing Ram, and it will play out so Priya has no opportunity to defend herself or, worse, will take the high road for the moronic reason that fls must be regularly blamed/insulted/misunderstood.

Ram seems like someone with hyperactivity disorder. He's constantly eating, talking too fast, jumping to conclusions. Leaves one feeling jagged after watching him for 5 mins.

Originally posted by: NityaAhuja15

Ohk, so watched today's episode...it was good👍🏼.

Since we had nm dp for a good time together, there scenes were definitely fab!😳

Relatives and all were as usual bs!

Ram is falling for priya with each passing day, and it's visible, the onky problem is that technically he shouldn't coz kriti is there, but otherwise the falling in love is there!😳

Priya is so sweet, caring and nice, and she smelt something bad in the soup...I hope she gets to know what it is, and gives shalini a healthy and good diet so that nothing happens to her👍🏼.

Shalini has gone somewhere...no idea!!!

And these relatives are so bad I just can't! Leave it...🤬

Basically, Ram is bearable with Priya, bas.

Right now he's 'in like' with her, I feel. More than enough after 2 days. I wish they'd cut out the synthetic holds. It just doesn't look organic.

So sick of evil relatives, man! Manifesting for a gunman to hold KM hostage and kill them all.

I'm torn between wanting to dump this show and tolerating it in bits because it's unlikely we'll see DP back for a while, or NM and DP together again ever.

Originally posted by: minakrish

Okay, I actually didn't like anyone other than Priya in today's episode.😳 But yes, there was sufficient progress so, it was a decent episode. Also, no Kriti.. so that's a plus!😆

Ram - I don't know if it is Nakuul's dialogue delivery or the writing, he was really irritating me with the way he was speaking and eating half his words and blabbering and mumbling constantly.🤔

Shreya & her mom - Plotting geniuses. Trying to give Shalini some kinda stuff that will never let her recover from her heart condition. Ye kaise family members hain? Aise family members ko to ghar se badakhal kar dena chahiye. Absolute nonsense.🤬

I loved the fact the Priya genuinely cares for Shalini and Ram is appreciative of that.❤️

^ This is me everytime I see Ram eating or talking about food.🤣

Precap: Finally Alekha is clearing the air and trying to figure out a way to bring peace in the work atmosphere. This girl is intelligent but she has fallen in love with the wrong man.😒

I didn’t think Alekha was trying to clear any air. It looked more like she was mildly threatening Ram to make peace with Yuvi since she is marrying him and Ram may have to face Yuvi as a potential partner after that. Ram with what we have seen of him might call truce with Yuvi and probably become his best buddy. Only Priya and her family are outsiders for him….

Originally posted by: Mangs1303

Basically, Ram is bearable with Priya, bas.

Right now he's 'in like' with her, I feel. More than enough after 2 days. I wish they'd cut out the synthetic holds. It just doesn't look organic.

So sick of evil relatives, man! Manifesting for a gunman to hold KM hostage and kill them all.

I'm torn between wanting to dump this show and tolerating it in bits because it's unlikely we'll see DP back for a while, or NM and DP together again ever.

@bold: THIS! EXACTLY THIS!!! So far whatever the show has been serving, I have been watching it, only because of these two people who I refuse to let go of, coz I know I'll miss them badly when the show goes off air😭 Somedays itna mushkil hota hai to bear it for 20 mins, but then I still do for this very reason.

I don't think we get to see nm dp together again for many months, if not years ( I won't say never, warna main ro dungi 😭😭😭 ) and dp will anyways take a pregnancy break and nm will go on a vacay break...so just coz of these reasons, I try to cherish and enjoy the show, however and whatever nonsense it is! ❤

P.S. I do really hope and pray that nm dp come together again, maybe in a few 1 or 2 years, and with something so good and substantial, which is worth their talent and efforts. Coz they are actually sooo soooo damn good and bloody brilliant on screen together, otherwise all of us won't be here watching and discussing this bs show, and still reaching edt no. 3 !

Just an observation...I think sideys, this season are the major reason for disconnect. Except Sood family peeps and Jaan .. IMO , none have the screen presence, and sadly , those who can act are not getting enough screen space.

I have seen Shreya's father in many of those old shows , but poor guy is hardly getting any dialogue. I think , even the guy playing Shardul can act too.

About the story..IMO , most of the ITV stories are meh..so, will not go to that part.