Rhimjim may not be fit for Thakkar tag

Rimjhim is I suspect about 22-24yrs old and she has been living all her life the way which has been showed today...no realization of age difference, no proper communication skills and respect for someone, a lavish lifestyle and less morals....

So if after 2 weeks JD shows this girl with a complete change...she respecting Baa, Leela and others and starts living a standard lifestyle as Thakkars are living and then everyone agrees with her and she marries Jigar tau Jigar then I will quit watching BBB....because I feel JD then would have lost all sense of reality...Based on my real experience of myself and others, the attitude cannot be changed in weeks rather it takes years and years of constant, conscious practice of self restraint and self control over actions, speech and life style.....If producers bring Rhimju into Thakkars then this is total fiction. This show is real portrayed with a fiction tag with it but it's not fiction and its only good if reality is maintained.

I also could not believe how Motabhai changed his mind so quickly...that was the biggest change I have ever seen in BBB. Motabhai being against Jigar tau Jigar marrying someone else and he leaving medicine...It seems like Motabhai has changed all of sudden in few episodes....If he can change this much then why can't he change and give respect Bapuji then?

Also Gatoo...he always dreamed of Rani Mukj but all of sudden apsara and now ordinary women? I know that is good and he's down to earth...but then he is now 28 and he has been thinking of Rani Mukj all his past say 15 years then how can he change all of sudden..?

I think Harshad has died long before....

One more thing...don't take me wrong..but I think Gudia's story will be a sad one....Perhaps her twins won't make it and pass away....and Gatoo bringing that basket will have someone's infant which Gudia will adopt as Baa has adopted Hemal....but this is a wild guess...

I think Meenakshi and Subodh have become a timepass characters with no story line and they appear like fairy and go away..

Next....Praveen bhai has lost his seriousness and good judgment.....

And the biggest culprit........Jigu....how mind washed can someone become....?

He was ready to give up his whole family for that Rhimju.....
He does not think its important to tell imp things to his family.....
How foolishly he takes Motabhai's promise for the sake fo Rhimju...
Rhimju smashes against Baa....he doesnt care and tells Motabhai to still accept Rhimju.....

I think I can carry on like this....but can anyone compromise this much for the sake of someone too foolish? Instead I was expecting Jigar to come forward and say to Rhimju...bus bahoot ho chuka..I am not interested in you...but instead that foolish was still begging for gfrind...shame..he doesn't deserve to be in Thakkar family..

Hmm..interesting how JD thought of putting such a shameful character in Thakkar family...a first of its kind...

One more note: What a big difference in one generation?

Generation 1:
Baa told Harshad to leave home..he left without questioning?

Generation 2:
Motabhai tells his foolish son to live according to Thakkar values...but the latter asks for complete freedom and leaves the house?

Where's Harshad and ..........Jigar
Shame!

You know, I agree with a lot of the things you mentioned. Most importantly that of Meenakshi. Her character is just plain getting irritating now. There is no limit to her stupidity. It used to be fun watching her do her antics, now it looks like she has become more stubborn over those damn stupid beliefs of hers. and Subodh, is pretty much a tag along.

Harsahd and Shilpa should have a much more powerful and important role. Shilpa definitely should. She seems to be the only sane one with the right thinking. But anyways..my most disappointment is with Motabhai. How did he convince himself so easily? That pretty much happened in one episode time line? Ridiculous! and I do not like the new leela bhabhi. Her face cringes more than her words. And its a lil distorted! Her words somehow dont give that effect that Lubhna would give. She had a sweetness to it. Coming to Birju..wht the hell is wrong with him?? This is no way of getting wht one wants. Not telling everythign about the family he wants to bring a bride from, rebelling agaisnt all to prove himself right..did he ever apologise to Motabhai for the way he behaved with him? I dont remember seeing...

This show has degraded to say the least...the characters need a revamp..in the right direction...

Exactly.!....and yes I guess you typed Birju instead of Jigar

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

You know, I agree with a lot of the things you mentioned. Most importantly that of Meenakshi. Her character is just plain getting irritating now. There is no limit to her stupidity. It used to be fun watching her do her antics, now it looks like she has become more stubborn over those damn stupid beliefs of hers. and Subodh, is pretty much a tag along.

Harsahd and Shilpa should have a much more powerful and important role. Shilpa definitely should. She seems to be the only sane one with the right thinking. But anyways..my most disappointment is with Motabhai. How did he convince himself so easily? That pretty much happened in one episode time line? Ridiculous! and I do not like the new leela bhabhi. Her face cringes more than her words. And its a lil distorted! Her words somehow dont give that effect that Lubhna would give. She had a sweetness to it. Coming to Birju..wht the hell is wrong with him?? This is no way of getting wht one wants. Not telling everythign about the family he wants to bring a bride from, rebelling agaisnt all to prove himself right..did he ever apologise to Motabhai for the way he behaved with him? I dont remember seeing...

This show has degraded to say the least...the characters need a revamp..in the right direction...

I'll come back to state my views later ji. I do agree with you guys, though. So, is there anyway of contacting JD or the Hats Off Productions to let them know we are not happy with this ji?

oh my god, i just replied to the other posts with similar views, i gues i shud copy & paste it here:

yeah agree with u. i disliked her since her first scene. they don't need another pagal character. meenaxi was there from the beginning so she's ok. just for the sake of comedy they shouldn't add characters like these. i hated her when she ran upto jigar & started doing that Jigu thingy on his chest. that was soo stupid. she studied med with jigar? do'nt want doctors like these. leela & praveena were proof that characters can be normal & be funny, we don't need moronic characters like rhimjhim, i really don't like her.

and jigar is wrong too. what they showed with motabhai story was wrong too. he blackmailed them in a way. he cudn't get what he wants, so he runs off, come on he's 26 & doesn't understand that his parents will be worried? i am younger and i still do, i would never do such thing to my parents, for a career or for anyone else. and is he blind that rhimjhim refused to come with him? that was test of her loyalty. and so he decided to run away from home & everyone forgives him? that's no solution, they did that with hemal too. i didn't like it one bit, the writers are not thinking too much about this. next day everything is ok between jigar & everyone else & then they're getting him set up with rimjhim. what nonsense. jigar is too selfish. his whole family is constantly being insulted by that 'jigar tou jigar' guy & he still trying to make sure that nothing bad happens. baa was right to leave from there. this is wrong, i do'nt think many ppl would get their family insulted & humiliated for this. i surely wouldnt. just leave her, she's worth more to him than his family. i really didn't see what was soo gud about her. i think shes really boring, & will bring nothing gud to the show. anyway, too long again. but just my views, looks like everyone is tired of rhimjhim.


agree with you on the harshad thing, his character is dead, fully dead, he's not seen in the family anymore. same ppl shown again & again. jigar is not a good character, really hate him. i agree with u on the motabhai thing too, that was too unrealistic. what will stop the kids in the futture to get their wishes fulfilled by running away from home? this is wrong message. he shud have been punished for running away. they have no more stories left anymore. bbb has been shot long ago, just dying slowly & painfully, day by day loosing more blood.

See Huys I disagree with all of you...

I would not comment because:

I respect yourself....and
It's just a serial...

JayVed

Originally posted by: birju4baby

See Huys I disagree with all of you...

first of all I disgree with you on Mota Bhai ... Motabhai is a sensitive man and he agreed with Jigar because he cares for him.. because deep down it is Jigar's happiness that matters to him and that is why he supported Jigar ... because Parents are like that ... any parent will tell you that they can never stay angry with their SOn

Equating Harshad with Jigar is totall;y wrong .. Baa asked Harshad out becuase it affected the whole family .. whatever Jigar did affected noone but him and Motabhai could see Jigar's hapiness is in following his dream.. and ther reason he cant maaf his father .. is that his father is still the same and wounds guven by him are way deeper

I do agree Rimjhim is not right for Thakkar Family .. and Baa made that clear ... but it would be very interesting to see how they take Jigar-RImjhim story from here ... You guys must be thinking what did Jigar see in Rimjhim ... but there are times when people are foolish in love ... it happens to evryone ... maybe Rimjhim is like that because of his father.. we are after all how our parents raise us ... howver they treat this will be a very interesting story ... Also people can change in life ...maybe when Rimjhim sees howmuch love of a family can makeu happy she cna change .. that might not be an overnight change .. but it is possible.. if they can change BabaBhai they can definitely change RImjhim ... also I like the girl who plays RImjhim ... for someone her age she acts very well ..

Now new Leela Bhabhi ... I like her ...as Jayved said she bought a new dimension to the character ... Lubna Slaim bought lubna into leela and Anjli bought her into Leela's character... I loved her with Mota Bhai in the scene where Mota Bhai tells her that he was afraid that he would so much fall in live with her that he will forget his responsibilities ...

Now Gattu Bhai -Gudiya - Hemal ... I think Gudia will give birth to twins and the baby in the basket ... Gattu will adopt it and that way Gattu would be a father before Hemal .. mark my words ... He use to dream about Rani but his family has reasoned with him so that he will be less hurt ...

I do agree that they dont show much of Subodh ... That is something I am not happy with and willing to write about it to producers .. Subodh has a screen presence ... But Subodh never really had a storyline he was always around but nver really had something revolving around...

ComeOn Guys for a show which has been around for 4 years .. BBB on most part has remained closer to its spirit ...

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i kinda get how motabhai forgave jigar so easily..

I liked one thing about rimjhim......
She watches cartoons!
Yes...I agree that her behaviour was bad..but was baby's behaviour after marriage was also not good...so that doesn't meant that baby was not fit for birju..
She is not born with that bad behaviour... nor she has any fault..fault lies in her parvarish...

New Leela is nice...In fact unlike old Leela, she wears sindoor..Old Leela was rather playing a role of a sindhi bahoo! (Only sindhi married women don't wear sindoor).
But.. I don't feel new jigar fits in jigar's character completely...

For low ratings, I will blame---
1) Timings: Fri-Sun 9:30pm timing was the best.
The current timings are such that a viewer looses the link...what was the ending...was it interesting or not etc is almost diminished
2) Renovation: Renovated KV lacks that authentic Gujarati touch..

Your views might be right, but I don't have time to analyze and think to that extent these days...😆Its just a show...watch it and shut down the stupid box! Whatever happens..let it happen! What is the use of sending e-mails or getting worried thinking "Rimjhim thakkar khandaan ki bahoo nahi bannani chahiye....!"

I think this is a problem of thakkar family and let them deal with it....we are no one to interfare in their family matters!😆
And with JD starting 'unusual things' in his shows, I will say that Hats off lost its standard that very day when it started "shree". It is no more the production house which created wonderful shows like khichdi, jjjkjf, epu and rc. My views have drastically changed now.

And I think JayVed was asking whether "Yeh rishta kya kehlata hai"and "Bidaai" are good or not... I recommend you to not watch them...They are even worse than ekta's shows! If given a choice to watch them or stand at a "koode - daan " (garbage ka adda😆)...I will prefer smelling garbage then watching them!

I know this is a very ridiculous sort of example, but believe me..no other example can describe these two soaps! Only BBB is best show on TV.

Infact when BBB#1 ended, soaps like them changed my attitude towards TV actually changed...

I switched over to cartoons, and felt relaxed.
When I was in 4th standard, i developed interest in cartoons, and left watching them when I was in 8th....now after so many years, when I watch them, I feel that my childhood is back! I get that nice feeling---recollect old memories...but still, I am not mad for them! they are fultoo time-pass and give lot of relaxation.

I am not opposed to anyone..Just presenting an unordered bunch of views.🤢