What does Barkha actually want?

This girl comes across as so entitled all the time. She has a beautiful home, a loving mother and family, her mother wants her to get properly educated and become independent. Having such a progressive mother is a blessing. Most girls would fight with family for letting them study but yahan ulti ganga beh rahi hai. She is only stuck at 10 rupees ke cheezon ke liye mann marna padta tha, mujhey ghar mein ghutan hoti hai and all Even that day when she came to know Manna stays with Nik, her only reaction was why her, and why not me?

Manna's reaction was so apt. She be like you have a wonderful mom who gives you her time and you should be grateful❤️ but no this girl is still stuck on money🤑🤪

Her ghutan dialogue just had me okay you might be annoyed at your mom sometimes but calling her love a suffocation is too much.

And aaj kya girgit ki tarah rang badla isne. I mean when she got irritated with her mom, she called Nik from abroad for her wedding, was so happy to have him around but as soon as she saw Manna is creating problems she is like Maa would have handled everything and dropped Nik like a hot potato😆 and is requesting him to go away matlab as long as he is beneficial to her she wants him around otherwise he should stay away

Though I am happy that she is reconsidering marriage. Thats the only sensible thing she has done till now. Kudos to Manna for putting some sense into her lil sister's head. She finally told her all that Nik or Pallavi must have told her. Even in the drunk state she behaved like a big sis and told her sister to think about her decision again, does she really want to get married or is just escaping?👏 I am really looking forward to Manna and her scenes with the other siblings. Though a bit bitter she has her heart in the right place❤️

Originally posted by: bhshre95

This girl comes across as so entitled all the time. She has a beautiful home, a loving mother and family, her mother wants her to get properly educated and become independent. Having such a progressive mother is a blessing. Most girls would fight with family for letting them study but yahan ulti ganga beh rahi hai. But this girl is only stuck at 10 rupees ke cheezon ke liye mann marna padta tha, mujhey ghar mein ghutan hoti hai and all Even that day when she came to know Manna stays with Nik, her only reaction was why her, and why not me?

Manna's reaction was so apt. She be like you have a wonderful mom who gives you her time and you should be grateful❤️ but no this girl is still stuck on money🤑🤪

Her ghutan dialogue just had me okay you might be annoyed at your mom sometimes but calling her love a suffocation is too much.

And aaj kya girgit ki tarah rang badla isne. I mean when she got irritated with her mom, she called Nik from abroad for her wedding, was so happy to have him around but as soon as she saw Manna is creating problems she is like Maa would have handled everything and dropped Nik like a hot potato😆 and is requesting him to go away matlab as long as he is beneficial to her she wants him around otherwise he should stay away

Though I am happy that she is reconsidering marriage. Thats the only sensible thing she has done till now. Kudos to Manna for putting some sense into her lil sister's head. She finally told her all that Nik or Pallavi must have told her. Even in the drunk state she behaved like a big sis and told her sister to think about her decision again, does she really want to get married or is just escaping?👏 I am really looking forward to Manna and her scenes with the other siblings. Though a bit bitter she has her heart in the right place❤️

Indeed it was the best...

I think Barkha is one confused person in the whole mess right now😆

I this best decision she has ever made too. I am glad Manna give her a good advise. Barkha is very selfish. She is not Nishi. I love Manna’s reaction when her parents were doing the puja. She is open heart. She told Badal don’t call me bro . She is definitely going to keep coming over. After all she found what is she wants with family and drama too 😆. I felt bad for Nikhil. He is getting blamed for everything. We know he will not leave.

Can’t wait for Harsh’s reaction when he meets his mom. I just hope he is not going to be shown in negative light. He needs to shows his bitterness to his parents. I wish it’s front of both his parents.

So all the siblings need to meet soon alone and chat with nok jhok.

I hope Gagan and Harsh are not shown as Aarav and Ranbir.

I dont know why people think that divorce based show should be 'nok jhok' wala romance and then unification...

But in in real it doesn't happen, and thats what it is being shown, the kids "iritating and revolting" behavior is not because its charachter, but it has been because of the pain and the suffering they got all the years...and the NikVi ladai is also just...because they have their own frustrations, misunderstanding ...usko bina hatyaye ishq kaise hoga...usko clear hone mein der lagega naa thora..

Abhi toh bohot kuch baaki hai...log bas baccho ko blame kar raha hai SM comments pe(not you all, you are sensible way)...so what they expect

Ek tha raja, Ek Thi Rani ...rona dhona hua , shaadi hua and khatam hui kahani...🙄🙄

Barkha is annoying. And now when she knows she is Nick J's daughter, she is feeling all the more "deprived". The worst is apart from Badal, the remaining 4 kids seem to have more anger towards Pallavi. And it appears Pallavi was more adamant on getting divorced.

Why can't itv show co-parenting and amicable splits even if separation reasons are bitter? When a relationship fails both are responsible and kids shouldn't be punished for their parents' mistakes. And dividing siblings is heartless!

Originally posted by: Arch_3186

Barkha is annoying. And now when she knows she is Nick J's daughter, she is feeling all the more "deprived". The worst is apart from Badal, the remaining 4 kids seem to have more anger towards Pallavi. And it appears Pallavi was more adamant on getting divorced.

Why can't itv show co-parenting and amicable splits even if separation reasons are bitter? When a relationship fails both are responsible and kids shouldn't be punished for their parents' mistakes. And dividing siblings is heartless!

Woh bhi hoga ...step wise hoga...and this bitterness is all because of the pain , suffering, deprivation caused due to separation.... And once separation issues are resolved they may opt to live together once again or do co parenting amicably...

But in such complicated cases, every thing is needed to resolve step wise...

And now I hope barkha resumes her marriage for while...

Originally posted by: Arch_3186

Barkha is annoying. And now when she knows she is Nick J's daughter, she is feeling all the more "deprived". The worst is apart from Badal, the remaining 4 kids seem to have more anger towards Pallavi. And it appears Pallavi was more adamant on getting divorced.

Why can't itv show co-parenting and amicable splits even if separation reasons are bitter? When a relationship fails both are responsible and kids shouldn't be punished for their parents' mistakes. And dividing siblings is heartless!

I think even Gagan somewhere isn't as bitter as Barkha. Barkha is Seriously such a brat

Khud toh she doesn't want to do any hardwork, lives on her mom's money and has the audacity to tell usko ghutan hoti hai

I think Barkha, Gagan and Badal aren't as angry or bitter towards Nik because for them they were only deprived of luxuries. They didn't have any emotional deprivation. Whatever they say about their mom, she was always there for them, they were always well cared for, so apart from not living a rich life like their siblings they pretty much had everything.

But for Harsh and Manna its different. They have a huge emotional void in them due to their father's neglect. They never really had anyone to care for them. For them its like their mom chose the other kids and left them with a father who doesn't even have the time to look at them. For a child, emotional well being is more important than money. Barkha's kids always had it but Harsh and Manna didn't. One can see Manna is in so much pain. And now that she has seen her mom alive and taking care of other kids she is more bitter because of what could have been had she been with her mom.

@bold- because drama chahiye co parenting dikha denge toh drama kaise hoga I just feel bad for the kids in the mess 😭

For so many years, Barkha, Gagan, & Badal were told Dad isn't alive. As a kid of a widowed hardworking mother, Barkha should be like I am a topper, I will work harder, become successful, and support my mom.

But no, bekar ka drama dikhana hai! So, madam will get married at 19 to run away from harsh realities and hard work! And what if Nick wasn't rich? He was also middle-class, then Barkha would have discarded him too!

Anyways, she was ungrateful to Nick as well! Asked him to go bcos "tamasha" happened on her engagement day! Very badly written character!

Manna is more realistic! I was very happy when Manna rightly called Barkha an escapist.

Same doubt...I was thinking the same unlike Manna who is hurt because she didn't get the love from her mother and here Barkha expressing her pain regarding money I was wondering what if instead of Nikhil Pallavi has a big bank balance then she would not have any problem with her mother or what if she is living with her middle-class father tabhi kiya complain karti jo Pallavi se ki samajh nahin aaraha wha really Nikhil se door hone ke chalte hurt hain ya paiso ke chalte...

And kaunsa bewakoof insaan career ko choose nahin karega and 19 year main i just hope marriage bale part ko kuch saal ke liye postponed karde it's giving a wrong message to society aishe blackmail karo padhai likhai chod do shaadi karlo

Even i have mentioned the same how Manna is treating her like lil sis(even in toxic state)😍😍 now she is in my fav list...