Toshu is real panauti in Anupama's life

I still do not understand what did Kinjal see in Toshu to fall in love with him and get married to him. He idolizes his dad Vannu who had supported Toshu always in his evil ways. There were many instances when that snake (Toshu) had spewed poison on Anupama. Some of them are as follows.

01. Anupama Joshi and Anuj Kapadia get stuck in rain 1 fine night and there is no shelter available for both Anupama and Anuj where they can rest. Luckily they find a group of boys and girls enjoying a party. Those guys refuse to give shelter to them as Anupama and Anuj are complete strangers to them. And when they search for Anuj Kapadia in internet, they are not able to believe that indeed it was Anuj Kapadia standing in front of them. They give shelter to them. Anuj catches fever thanks to him getting drenched in rain and Anupama takes good care of Anuj leading to the snakes (Baa, Vannu, Toshu and Kavya) spewing poison on Anupama. Snake (Toshu) spews poison on Anupama and Anuj's frienship.

Anupama and Anuj getting drenched in rain and snake (Toshu) spewing poison on Anupama and Anuj's frienship :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqC3ygH9Hrs&t=219s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUYRITvlV2M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNmIFBtMJoE

02. Anuj invites Anupama and her family for Ganesh Chaturthi celebrations. Only Toshu and Vannu do not go. Kinjal, Samar and others have a great time in Anuj's home. Toshu comes and creates ruckus at Anuj's home and the snake (Toshu) spews poison on Anupama and Anuj's friendship again. This time Anupama slaps Toshu.

Snake (Toshu) spewing poison on Anupama and Anuj's frienship :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urf2Shnvzpc

03. Anupama herself feeds milk to that poisonous snake (Toshu). This time the snake will not only bite Anupama but her colleagues too resulting in S & C getting shut down.

It is Anupama's mistake in inviting that snake (Toshu) to bite her and her colleagues in S & C.

toshu nahin anupama khud apne liye aur sab ke liye around her is panauti because log apne pair pe khulhadi maarte hain ye khulhadi ko dhoond dhoondke khulhadi pe jaake apne pair rakhti hai, she wants abusive vanraj and taunting mentally abusive baa and manipulative dukhmukh, kinjal and kameena toshu, aadmi jab ek baar dhoka khata hai uski galti hai lekin baar baar wohi dohraaye toh galti dhoka dene wali ki nahin khanewale ki hoti hai, anupama ko abusive relationshp mein rahna hi pasand hai, use achhe relationshp raas nahin aate, lekin is chakkra mein apne saath achhe logon ka bhi band bajati hai use koi farak nahin padta chahe yashdeep ya anuj ya chhoti ya beeji barbaad ho jaaye uske saath par shah house abaad rahna chahiye uske liye poori duniya ko barbaad karegi apne saath ye anupama, sab se badi chudail yehi hai