Yes bec of vanraj
usually kids follow whichever parent they are close to in life
vanraj hatd anupama simple dressing and her smell etc thought shes illeterate etc same toshu and pakhi also think
vanraj humilate anupama saying you are illiterate do not know anything do not know english etc same thing toshu and pakhi did
vanraj say do not come with me to any function outside you are not fit for my standards
same pakhi did did not take her to school
what your favourite parent does you learn from them actually
Like in india before 1980s kids were mostly close to fathers family, nowadays kids are close to mothers family
Because before 1980s the power econonmic or otherwise was with father so he ensure his kids love his parents his siblings bond with his neice nephews etc
But after 1990s many woman started working earning much more than slowly they ensured their kids get close to their parets and siblings not hubby siblings or parents so now kids are more close to mothers family
Also if your parent tells you hate my husband parents or his siblings stay awy from them kids will follow that only
Same way as vanraj said his kids to be away from anupama mom and brother
if your mom hates your dad does not give him proper respect and do not respect his family her in laws etc whichever kid is close to her will do same
if your dad hates your mom humiliates her and her family etc kid whose close to dad do same
Whoever is dominant in relationship kid will be close to her or his family
Same way aadhya/CA was close to anuj so shes close to adhik, malati devi, barkha, dimpy etc all who are from anuj family
Yes because shes small she liked vanraj and samar too from shahs but shes too small 7 years so soon hatred do not come. Also adhya is adopted kid they are greatful to parents so they will be loyal to both sides of family
If aadhya knows what vanraj did to malvika she will hate shahs much more
Usually parents are responsible to develop hatred in heart of kids against maternal or paternal family members
If mom is dominant at home in marriage and she hates hubby family than kids hate paternal family
If dad is dominant like vanraj than kids hate mom family maternal family or not close to them
It all depend on mom/dad
Adhya was always close to anuj than anupama after adoption. If CA had panic attack anuj ran from shah house back to kapadiyas, adhik and brakha consoled her etc so she grow close to anuj family.
Anupama never had time for her allowed her shahs to abuse that kid never took stand. While anuj and his relatives always loved CA and treated her with love like adhik, barkha, ankush, malati, dimpy etc so adhya is close to anuj and his family more than anupama and her shahs
Also kids like pakhi.toshu knew vanraj earns money anupama cannot fund them so they gravitated towards vanraj for monetary benefits and try to please him (most kids do that, if your father is billionaire and mom is middle class they will obivously try to please dad only. It also depends in marriage whose dominant partner)
Edited by myviewprem - 7 months ago
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