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Posted: 7 years ago
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I can't stop laughing this theory is funny how did she use Vishnu. If anybody was used then both shristi and Vishnu were used by their parents shristi parents gave her 2 options watch your father kill himself or marry Vishnu and save our honour and then Vishnu father gladly brought his second son without being forced and knowing his condition, just to keep the promise he had made and save his dignity. She really did not have any choice at that time she had to do 1 or the other marry Vishnu or let her father kill himself. The main reason for all this is his greedy mother she knew her husband had already promised their son to stristi yet she ahead and took gifts from Ragini family and promised them marriage. In my point of view shristi is neither the enemy nor Vishnu they were both put in a difficult situation and now 1 person is trying to rectify the situation. His mother is the witch who does not mind her son being the way he is along as she has money to spend or please tell me what kind of a mother is already trying to get her son married again knowing fully well that he needs help. I think so far only Ragini's mum and Vishnu's father understand that shristi is not the enemy here remember even Ragini's mum apologised to shristi after she met Vishnu. I really believe that this divorce will help him alot because the idea of loosing his wife might help I don't know how yet but I have a feeling.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Is Srishti mentally disabled like Vishu that she can't make a choice?

We hold TR, Ragini, Ragini's family, Revati, Dulari to their wrongdoing.

Why cant we hold Srishti to her own decisions or illegal behaviour?

Doesn't matter the circumstances, she knowingly married Vishu, a man who according to Hindu Marriage Act can't give valid consent, to save her own father and family.

Just because on one hand she saved her father (and then still walked out of this marriage putting her back at square one and making the majboori she married him for invalid, why is her father not doing his suicide nautanki? is he not feeling 'shamed' now) and on the other hand, has nearly ruined Vishu in the process.

Look at how dangerous and violent and dependent he's become since she came into his life (also helped by Ragini and TR).

Srishti's own actions are her own, just because the other choice was awful doesn't excuse her from it.

The only innocent is Vishu. Everyone else is far from innocent in this, some very far like Revati and Srishtis father.

So are you saying we should all give in to suicidal demands like this? Why if tomorrow S. father tries to commit suicide if Srishti refuses to hurt someone physically...should she give in too?

She has verbally and emotionally hurt Vishu in this whole marriage thing...she used to treat him nasty in the beginning of the marriage until he did things that benefitted her like making an invertor or bringing her exam ID.

All three leads are grey characters with negative shades.
Edited by Ahlaam5 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abisoye

I can't stop laughing this theory is funny how did she use Vishnu. If anybody was used then both shristi and Vishnu were used by their parents shristi parents gave her 2 options watch your father kill himself or marry Vishnu and save our honour and then Vishnu father gladly brought his second son without being forced and knowing his condition, just to keep the promise he had made and save his dignity. She really did not have any choice at that time she had to do 1 or the other marry Vishnu or let her father kill himself. The main reason for all this is his greedy mother she knew her husband had already promised their son to stristi yet she ahead and took gifts from Ragini family and promised them marriage. In my point of view shristi is neither the enemy nor Vishnu they were both put in a difficult situation and now 1 person is trying to rectify the situation. His mother is the witch who does not mind her son being the way he is along as she has money to spend or please tell me what kind of a mother is already trying to get her son married again knowing fully well that he needs help. I think so far only Ragini's mum and Vishnu's father understand that shristi is not the enemy here remember even Ragini's mum apologised to shristi after she met Vishnu. I really believe that this divorce will help him alot because the idea of loosing his wife might help I don't know how yet but I have a feeling.



I agree with you. I don't see Srishti used Vishu.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ok I'm back.
I have read the posts above and here are some counterpoints. For those who say Shristi did not have a choice I myself gave 3 alternative choices in my original post that she could have made and I myself do not have the mental acumen nor the lawyerly reasoning that Shristi is supposed to have.
Someone says Vishu was not forced into this marriage and he went into it willingly. That is wrong. Sumer (Shristi's brother), along with his gun toting cronies went to Vidhvaan Singh's house after they learnt of Toeragini's mariage threatening and seeking some kind of redress ( at gun point) in a manner exactly the same as that done by Vikral Singh when forcing Toerag to marry Ragini. You can actually say both the progeny of Vidhvaan Singh got coerced into married at gun point. The only difference was that though the initial part was by gun what happened after was more civilised than Vikral Singh's way.
I don't deny Revati is a moneygrubbing nasty piece of @#$$ but as Toerag's co parent she too had a right to accept or decline marriage proposals. In that capacity she accepted Vikral Singh's proposal while simultaneously Vidhvaan Singh proposed for Shristi's hand. The lack of communication between husband and wife resulted in a right royal mess. With these two choices available to him Toerag opted for Shristi but him and his parents did not at any point communicate to Ragini or Vikral Singh that they had refused Ragini's alliance and had gone elsewhere. In fact whilst waiting on an assignation with Shristi Toerag had an ample opportunity to disabuse Ragini of the impression that she and him were getting married but he stood mute and left her still believing they were hitched. To Vikral Singh his daughter's alliance had been fixed and a dowry had even been dispensed. He wasn't to know of the domestic complexities in the Vidhvaan Singh household. He must have therefore thought he was being cheated and dishonoured when he heard of Shristi and Toerag's impending nuptials. That's why he took the steps he did. Would it have been any less of a dishonour for Vikral Singh if his daughter's supposed betrothed had gotten married to someone else?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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definitely Vishu was forced into the marriage but it was his family only who forced him. Yes Sumer went there, but did he went there to bring Vishu? No, I think he didn't even know about him. But it was Vishu's family who has given him this option. And Sumer being totally mindless accepted this. He didn't think about his sister for once, only thing he was worried about was his family's respect. How disgusting.Except Vishu everyone should be blamed for this marriage. But imo after Vishu, Srishti was the least guilty.
Edited by altgr - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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For me, even Vishnu's family is in the wrong. Why did they allow the marriage? Everyone knows about Vishu's disability, then, why get his married. That too to a lawyer's daughter and now the mother is looking for another bride.
Sort you side of the issues 1st.

Shristi...I wish she had just left after the marriage. I hate it that she has made Vishnu dependent on her and now, she is breaking his heart. Mentally she is wounding him more. A normal person can't take such a bewafa, how can a childlike person do it...

However, this is Desi films, everything is possible.

Anurag - can we dump him in the nearest river. I can't even speak about him...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know why people are getting so defensive? Most of us are not hating her or saying she's the worst.. TR and his mum and her 2 cronies exist for that and Vikral etc!

I'm just holding her accountable to some of her decisions that has led to this violent and negative effect on Vishu and the fact that she is sometimes a poorly written character hence the contradictionary things she done.

Whether you like it or not, Vishu was healthier and better off without her in his life?

She had the choice to say NO instead of giving in to suicidal demands.

She said YES after some blackmail and then did Vishu nasty like this. She treated him nasty acting as if he was the one who forced her into this when he's just a child and unaware of the complexities of an adult or teen world.
Edited by Ahlaam5 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I cannot get this point that why shristi has not left Vishu immedietly after marriage.Why she created any kind of love feeling in Vishu?Vishu has a child mind thats why he gets effected very fast.Now he thinks that Shristi is his wife and his responsibility.She should stop behaving mahan kind.I really donot like woman who shows that they are mahan but inside they have some plans.
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