For whose good???? Really????

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Everyone is going on about knowing what is best for Vishu but not a single person seems to be doing anything that is best for him. From his mother, his so called wife, brother, his Bhabhi and even his father, every single one of them has their own agenda ( hidden or otherwise) for sticking their noses in his business. Everyone claims to know what's best for him but none do.
First of all until it was convenient for her Shristi used Vishu and now when she doesn't need him any more and she is now capable of standing on her own two feet, she is discarding him like used tissue paper. She had no right to mess with his life by marrying him in the first place. It's not like she didn't know Vishu's mental status from the outset. Nothing has changed from the time she married him till now. People may argue that she was helpless at the time of the marriage because her father emotionally blackmailed her to save his honour. Well, helpless my foot!!!!! She is meant to be brainy and a lawyer couldn't she think of ways to stop herself being coerced into an unwanted marriage? She could have called the police and had her father arrested not only for trying to force her into the marriage but also for trying to commit suicide which from what I gather is a criminal offence. If she is such a stickler to the law why did she let her father get away with committing not one but two crimes ? By running away from her saas right now she has brought as much dishonour to her family as she would have by getting her dad arrested so that excuse of bringing shame to her family doesn't apply. Even if she didn't want to get him arrested she could have used his own tactics against him and strung up a rope too, used the threat of her own suicide against his. Even supposing she went through with the marriage she could have walked away from it right there and there, straight from the mandap to Poonam's house. There was no need to give Vishu false hope or the time to get emotionally attached to her. Now she is claiming she is sending divorce papers so she can hurt Vishu for his own good and she is hoping he will understand her reasoning. LMAO what brain cells is she using? Has she met Vishu? His IQ is what?... and she expects him to understand. Seriously???? When she left him in the first place she explained to him the reasons why face to face and he understood. What was wrong with the use of those tactics again? One other thing she left that house because her dignity had been insulted by Revati but this was always inevitable. Right from the outset Revati made no bones about the fact that she hated her and insulted her upon first meeting itself so she knew what Revati was like yet she was still willing to get married in that family. Whether married to Toerag or Vishu there is no doubt Revati would have cast as many aspersions on her character as she is now so why was she willing to accept marriage into that family then ? Wasn't her dignity important then too or was Toerag worth all the insults?

As to the yo yo Toerag, hard to understand a person who doesn't seem to understand anything himself but his sudden empathising of Shristi's reason for sending divorce papers seems to be because he feels there is a benefit for him in it too. I don't see how he intends to spend the rest of his life in the toxicity of his marriage to Ragini or how he expects Ragini to accept it for the rest of her life, so at some point he must be believing he will free himself of her and a single Shristi would be good for him too.

To be continued. This feels as long as a thesis. I was gonna write even more about the agendas of Ragini, Revati etc but right now time constraints forbid. When free I will come back and give some more of my thoughts.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Srishti used Vishu??

Can you please explain?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: altgr

Srishti used Vishu??

Can you please explain?

To save her supposed family honour she married him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know why Revati didn't send her to jail for breaking the law for marrying Vishu (lady missed out on a chance).

I don't even understand how she's sending a divorce notice when the marriage itself is illegal?

Also Srishti herself is another walking contradiction just to a lesser extent than TR
Edited by Ahlaam5 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Bea1

she had no other option. She had to marry him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

I don't know why Revati didn't send her to jail for breaking the law for marrying Vishu (lady missed out on a chance).

I don't even understand how she's sending a divorce notice when the marriage itself is illegal?

Also Srishti herself is another walking contradiction just to a lesser extent than TR


How could Revati do this. When Srishti brother went to Vishu's house, Dadi send Vishu with him. Revati didn't even tried to stop this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: altgr

@Bea1

she had no other option. She had to marry him.



She did have a choice...just the other choice was awful

She used Vishu to uphold her fathers reputation and stop him from committing suicide...Vishu never consented to this marriage (he's incapable of consenting medically and by law)

Whether she intended to use him or not, she has used him for her own gain.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: altgr


How could Revati do this. When Srishti brother went to Vishu's house, Dadi send Vishu with him. Revati didn't even tried to stop this.



Revati is Revati...she's low enough to lie about the circumstances but maybe she was scared of her family facing anymore shame and them turning on her and standing up for Srishti.

Because along with Srishti, everyone else involved would have been arrested including Dadi.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ahlaam5



She did have a choice...just the other choice was awful

She used Vishu to uphold her fathers reputation and stop him from committing suicide...Vishu never consented to this marriage (he's incapable of consenting medically and by law)

Whether she intended to use him or not, she has used him for her own gain.



Ok this way it can be said Srishti used Vishu (still sounding weird to me)

But who gave her this option of marrying Vishu? Her family and Vishu's family. If Srishti has used him then his own family has used him too.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@altgr

Thats the problem everyone from Srishti to his family to even Ragini use him as they will.

But that doesn't make 2 wrongs right...all of these people are in the wrong and very selfish.

The reason Ragini doesn't get criticism is because shs's the only one who has admitted to using him for her own gains. She's always open about her wrongdoing and so far hasnt justified it.

Whereas the supposed good people (TR and Srishti) never acknowledge their wrong doing.
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