Anurag is so creep - Page 3

Originally posted by: Abisoye

Wow you are right everyone has their own point of view and I cannot change yours but when I saw you statement where you wrote that a divorcee girl is not considered a good omen it made me really sad. The main reason why I really like this show is because the woman speak up they refuse to be treated like slaves and they refuse to take physical or emotional pain from anyone which is very rare in Hindi series like Santoshi ma, waaris and many others where the women take all sorts of abuse and they don't leave just because they are scared that if they divorce their husbands people will consider them a bad omen to the society.So many women have died in the real world due to such believes or statements because they keep quite and take all the abuse in silence in other to avoid being a bad omen for the society. Ragini also divorced her husband she just did not send papers to him and she walked around with pride and was not a bad omen to the society. It really makes me sad to read such statements.

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

@kisst: i'm genuinely shocked, hurt and saddened with your divorcee women comment.

If you, a woman can say such degrading thing about another woman then there's no hope.

You think a woman should put up with abuse, that too for a man who does not understand marriage and neither is able to fulfill his duties as a husband, and if she doesn't put up with it then you label her an 'ill omen'.

I don't understand why such regressive thinking exists in some parts of india (and other countries too) but there's nothing truthful about calling a woman something like that.

Also this statement is an attack on real people, not just a character that you dislike.

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

What marriage????
The law does not recognise the marriage...so what marriage?

Condition for a Hindu Marriage.- A marriage may be solemnized between any
two Hindus, if the following conditions are fulfilled, namely:
(i) neither party has a spouse living at the time of the marriage;
(ii) at the time of the marriage, neither party,-
(a) is incapable of giving a valid consent of it in consequence of unsoundness of mind; or
(b) though capable of giving a valid consent has been suffering from mental disorder of such a kind or to such an extent as to be unfit for marriage and the procreation of children; or
(iii) the bridegroom has completed the age of twenty one years and the bride the age of eighteen years at the time of the marriage;

Irregardless of this, if Srishti doesn't want to stay married then it's her choice ...she can file for divorce and shouldn't be shamed for it.

I never said Vishu abused her, Revati and Dulari did and Dulari even tried to kill her so why should she stay in that disgusting household in marriage she is unhappy with?

Originally posted by: Abisoye

Kiss you are really funny are you sure you even understand my text at all I specifically said not in the case of shristi but in the real world trust me I understand marriage alot more than you can ever know I am a mother of 3 boys and I have been beaten so don't ever say I don't understand marriage I specifically said in the real world people should not say divorcees are bad omen because it makes women in the real women like me who have being beaten to believe that it is okay to stay is an abusive marriage. There is really no point trying to explain all you care about is Ragini being right and others being wrong now I am not talking about the series but in real life please don't ever say a divorced woman is a bad omen to the society. You really don't know how it works in other people marriage so it is easier said than done.