Anurag is so creep - Page 2

The only thing I agree with is the title.

Regarding the divorce issue, I have been asking for it since Srishti left.

I'm absolutely happy that this is Srishti's own decision and not Shekhars manipulations.

They both deserve better than this, Srishti does not need to and should not 'adapt' to him.

In real life, people who have this kind of mental disorder do not get 'better', they do not 'heal'. This is how their life will be till their except in very rare occassions. Ofcourse this is a show so a miracle will occur to heal him at some point.

Look at how much more violent and possessive and scarily angry he's gotten since Srishti came into his life. This idea of wife has had negative effects on him.

Also Srishti has no future in this marriage to a man who doesn't even understand what a marriage is let alone fulfil it.

Had he had a medical disorder like depression, anxiety or multiple personality disorder then they would have had a chance at this marriage.

Whatever medntal disorder Vishu has, it has regressed him to the state of a 10yr old.

Would you marry off your 10yr old sister or brother? Would you ask a 20 whatever year old life partner to adapt to the 10yr old?

Regarding TR, he is a confused and contradicting man.

Yesterday (in the episode it's only been hours) ...he was like if Srishti comes back to this house, the matter can be settled.

Today he is singing another tune.

For once I wish he would say one thing and stick to it...day by day actually its hour by hour now, he changes colours like a chameleon.

Poor Anurag. He is not allowed to even trying to balance out options. 🤪Come on friends the guy could be swinging from one option to another to as he might think both are correct in their own perspective. Then after weighing it he does think that it is best if Vishti part ways. Then there is his missusji who keeps on playing havoc with his balancing scales. Maybe he is a libran.

Originally posted by: Sulo1002

Poor Anurag. He is not allowed to even trying to balance out options. 🤪Come on friends the guy could be swinging from one option to another to as he might think both are correct in their own perspective. Then after weighing it he does think that it is best if Vishti part ways. Then there is his missusji who keeps on playing havoc with his balancing scales. Maybe he is a libran.

Originally posted by: Abisoye

Hi Kisst i dont knows if we are watching the same series but I remember shristi trying to make him better she even bought books to encourage him but if I remember clearly his mother was against it and she ended up insulting shristi. Am really sorry to say but as far as I am concerned his mother does not want him to get better and I really believe that this divorce even though it will not happen will help him alot everybody pampers him because they believe that love is the cure but it has not been working so maybe seeing that he is about to loose his wife will help him. I totally support her decision.

Hi kisst i still don't agree with you why do you think she cannot find a better guy than vishu she will definitely find alot of guys who are alot better than him just because now we see him getting angry and throwing tantrums like a child does not make him a perfect husband for her. Shristi does not want shekar either to her he is nothing but a friend it's not her fault that he is a psycho and the decision to divorce vishu was hers not shekar's if you noticed he himself was shocked. I know in Hindi series they to pretend that intimacy does not matter because almost all the series I watch their marriage has not been consumated but you and I know that intimacy matters a lot so please tell me how is she supposed to explain that to Vishnu who does not even understand what marriage or divorce means. Shristi has been treated like the enemy since the beginning of the show and that annoys me and now she is being asked to stay with a guy who is basically a child. Why should she always make others happy if she decides that she wants him back then fine but for now I support her decision 100%. Rangini also has an angeda the truth is behind all her anger she still loves mister ji so shristi being single does not pay her am not saying she does not like Vishnu but here is my question can Ragini herself marry Vishnu or will her father ever allow a boy like Vishnu to be his son-in-law I guess not so I really think everybody should let shristi decide for herself.

Originally posted by: Sulo1002

Poor Anurag. He is not allowed to even trying to balance out options.🤪Come on friends the guy could be swinging from one option to another to as he might think both are correct in their own perspective. Then after weighing it he does think that it is best if Vishti part ways. Then there is his missusji who keeps on playing havoc with his balancing scales. Maybe he is a libran.

It's not that he's not allowed options

It's just the execution of his character and the writing for his character is a mess

The explanation for the change of his opinion is just ??? ...he was willing to drag (not literally) Srishti into the house she left for her dignity and safety a few hours ago. Two hours later he's like I know Srishti, she's done this for Vishu's and for his wellness.

If he knows Srishti, then why did he tell Revati they should ask her to come back to their abusive house..

If he knows Srishti, then why did he not say this was done in the best interest of Vishu instead of saying Srishti should come back

And when did he suddenly start saying the complete opposite...

This character has been written like a pendulum that swings from one opposite side to another w/o ever passing the middle.

As a character if he makes no sense (and he hasnt since last monday) then people cant sympathise with him even when he's right.

Originally posted by: Abisoye

Hi kisst i still don't agree with you why do you think she cannot find a better guy than vishu she will definitely find alot of guys who are alot better than him just because now we see him getting angry and throwing tantrums like a child does not make him a perfect husband for her. Shristi does not want shekar either to her he is nothing but a friend it's not her fault that he is a psycho and the decision to divorce vishu was hers not shekar's if you noticed he himself was shocked. I know in Hindi series they to pretend that intimacy does not matter because almost all the series I watch their marriage has not been consumated but you and I know that intimacy matters a lot so please tell me how is she supposed to explain that to Vishnu who does not even understand what marriage or divorce means. Shristi has been treated like the enemy since the beginning of the show and that annoys me and now she is being asked to stay with a guy who is basically a child. Why should she always make others happy if she decides that she wants him back then fine but for now I support her decision 100%. Rangini also has an angeda the truth is behind all her anger she still loves mister ji so shristi being single does not pay her am not saying she does not like Vishnu but here is my question can Ragini herself marry Vishnu or will her father ever allow a boy like Vishnu to be his son-in-law I guess not so I really think everybody should let shristi decide for herself.

Wow you are right everyone has their own point of view and I cannot change yours but when I saw you statement where you wrote that a divorcee girl is not considered a good omen it made me really sad. The main reason why I really like this show is because the woman speak up they refuse to be treated like slaves and they refuse to take physical or emotional pain from anyone which is very rare in Hindi series like Santoshi ma, waaris and many others where the women take all sorts of abuse and they don't leave just because they are scared that if they divorce their husbands people will consider them a bad omen to the society.So many women have died in the real world due to such believes or statements because they keep quite and take all the abuse in silence in other to avoid being a bad omen for the society. Ragini also divorced her husband she just did not send papers to him and she walked around with pride and was not a bad omen to the society. It really makes me sad to read such statements.

Originally posted by: Ahlaam5

Regarding TR, he is a confused and contradicting man.

Yesterday (in the episode it's only been hours) ...he was like if Srishti comes back to this house, the matter can be settled.

Today he is singing another tune.

For once I wish he would say one thing and stick to it...day by day actually its hour by hour now, he changes colours like a chameleon.

Yes Anuraag is a contradictory man but in these particular scenes I didn't find him contradictory. What I could understand is - When he said if Srishti comes in the house everything can be settled, I think he was not saying about Srishti to come there forever but it was like if she comes here and talks to Vishu, she can make him understand.