Babloo is more matured and has a lot of experience than Pintu.Babloo knows his father inside and out. TTS doesn't show his real self when Pintu is around so Pintu thinks his father is a good man. But I think Pintu here is already past his teens so he should have known what TTS is really like except if he stayed away from his family during his growing up years. I'm at a loss why Pintu adores his father so much that he is willing to sacrifice his future for him. These are just my opinion /comments about the episode.
Originally posted by: Prishna_DBPS
When krishna was sacrificing her dream and marrying a boy of not of her choice did anyone asked her why she adores her mother so much and sacrificing her dreams so why this question when pintu is doing this for his father why this question.
To me it is like this Blame and Responsibility are two sides of the same coin. Why should we become a martyr for other people it is our choices that makes us do it? Rather why don't we take responsibility for our actions and why do we let others control our lives even though it is our fathers.
The first traps of blaming others are when we try to put the other person to blame we switch over to blaming ourselves and we'll have encouragement of this for example, "See! You admit it! It isn't all my fault, is it? So it must be your entire fault - go on, go on, admit it!"
Responsibility is something we have to take for ourselves it cannot be dumped on others. It s a dance of our own choices and our own 'mis-takes' . Perspective plays an important part to tip the balance to recognize that responsibility is our responses and no one else's. If I take offence to what you said it's my response to the comments made not something you've done to me. Therefore I should understand that "response-abilty" to act on that response lies with me, not you. Anything else is blame.
And every human being does this dangerous dance of Blame and Responsibility.
After all every human has been given free will and it is no one's right to take that away from any human being.
Therefore responsibility lies on Pinto's shoulder to come out of this situation rather than blaming his father for what he has done to him.
Originally posted by: AngelDark
To me it is like this Blame and Responsibility are two sides of the same coin. Why should we become a martyr for other people it is our choices that makes us do it? Rather why don't we take responsibility for our actions and why do we let others control our lives even though it is our fathers.
The first traps of blaming others are when we try to put the other person to blame we switch over to blaming ourselves and we'll have encouragement of this for example, "See! You admit it! It isn't all my fault, is it? So it must be your entire fault - go on, go on, admit it!"
Responsibility is something we have to take for ourselves it cannot be dumped on others. It s a dance of our own choices and our own 'mis-takes' . Perspective plays an important part to tip the balance to recognize that responsibility is our responses and no one else's. If I take offence to what you said it's my response to the comments made not something you've done to me. Therefore I should understand that "response-abilty" to act on that response lies with me, not you. Anything else is blame.
And every human being does this dangerous dance of Blame and Responsibility.
After all every human has been given free will and it is no one's right to take that away from any human being.
Therefore responsibility lies on Pinto's shoulder to come out of this situation rather than blaming his father for what he has done to him.
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