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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sareeta

Yeah I was about to say the same. I really appreciate you sharing your view and well it has also helped me realize how strong I am on my pov as well... but the dicussion was very interesting ! I enjoyed it! 😊 I guess... its our different perspective of things... right? 😊



Yeah just different prespective. For me gauri is an innocent idiot, Shiv is a prick, Ipshit a disgraceful lover. Wow I wish we could talk like this about Karan and Nandini on Kyunki section, you say anything about those guys you get eaten well by most anyways. 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: 3 angels



gauri is more courageous than the coward shiv kapoor...



bez, she doent see the whole picture. she only thinks about her relationship with Shiv., not Shiv's relation with Gauri

but anyway, i think the agreement on disagreement is made. and u guys had done a very good job of putting ur views very clearly👏

a very diff post kyaatee👏

amu~
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: maragathm



Yeah just different prespective. For me gauri is an innocent idiot, Shiv is a prick, Ipshit a disgraceful lover. Wow I wish we could talk like this about Karan and Nandini on Kyunki section, you say anything about those guys you get eaten well by most anyways. 😆



🤣 thts funny. i never posted anything. but i do sense it all the time😳

amu~
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree..........hes gonna realize how much that means........but i hope he doesnt look at gauri and the kids as an aadat but rather as people he truly loves........i want him to truly accept them dil se........and not becuase hes under the compulsion to..........hes gonna regret whatever he said.........naina
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: 3 angels

yeah if the scenario goes like most have predicted shiv sleeping with ippy and rejecting his cute bundles and wife for stooopid ipshy just wait and watch he will get bored soon...

If that happens, I will take a supari!... Uff!! If Gauri is at fault, then he is not clean either. I agree Gauri has perhaps not given him enough time, but then can that be attributed to his own handling of thier relationship. He claims to have let the past be passed, but then why is it that that picture still lies so safely in his closet still? Why does he feel the need to take it out when no one is looking and confide in it? "Waqt wahin hain" or whatever he said to Ippi's pic a few epi's back where the kids sleep in SG's room. Had he opened up and really accepted life and his own decision, this would not have occured. Again though, I have to admit my sweet Gauri should have still tried to give more time, but Shiv Kapoor... If you dare cross the boundaries set by the sacred bond of marriage... Uff!!

now its his hatred and anger for ipshy's fake distress on anupam not caring for her that he burst out his angeron gauri his loving wife and children whom he adores and now they are the mainproblem in his life..disgusting....well mr kapoor u are the biggest problem in their life....when you wanted nothing to happen toyour dear ipshy gauri was not a problem in your life then but you used her for your selfish cause and when you slept with her then she was not a problem...you were the one to stay with her in the end and started a new life and let the twins for you it was a mistake but how about little angel shanti if gauri was a problem how come you accepted to have another child...

Khayatee meri jaan, you make this so much easier for me as I have been a whirlwind of thoughts and confusions... But I'm with you on that. I was doubting Gauri due to some strong evidence and stuff and I still do not claim her to be clean of whatever that has happened, but what you say is so true as well. If Gauri is selfish when it comes to her family, than Shiv and Ippi's "love" has always been selfish. I've mentioned this in an earlier post regarding how I do not carry any sympathy for Ippi as she allowed another to step into Shiv's life in the first place. All knowing the consequences! Arghh... Sick woman. And if hers and Anu's relationship is strained, then perhaps she is at fault there too. I think Shiv's outburst was justified in the moment, however I didn't like how it boiled over after hearing about Ippi's relationship with her husband. All his insecurities as a man who loved and I don't even know if he does still or not, showed up there. And yeah, I wonder how Shanti came to be too eh? Didn't Guruji tell them that if Shiv consumates with his wife she'll be fine. Well knowing this, SI would have done so anyways, then why risk an innocent life? Is that "pyar"? Isn't love's second name supposed to be "sacrifice"? Apparently that is what Shiv did for Gauri, sacrifice his love for Ippi. Then why did her re-emergence in his life leave him so uptight again? Does he not have trust in himself?

shiv and ipshy will enjoy their new life partying and candlelight dinner and cosy moment..that will last how long esp shiv who has been in a marital life for 6 yrs and happy with kids and wife ...wat say wont he miss thatmischiefs and shor sharaba of his kids or that sweet smile and caring of gauri in his every life..gauri taking care of his small things like his tie and suit etc..

my pov he will start missing them once this junoon and lust for ipshy start to fade away and the reality will strike him.where his true happiness is that is his family "hum paanch"as gauri said...

As a father I think he will never be able to tolerate being away. Especially with Shanti. It seems they both (SG) see a reflection of themselves in her, she mirrors a depth... a love?😕 And yes, I've always thought that what Shiv experience for Ippi "lust".

i just hope it will not be too late for him .....

I hope so too. My one concern, if he ends up in the wrong place in his drunken state... ahem... the roof is gonna come tumbling down, as that would show his weakness. If he feels he has been wronged, then he should sit up and talk to his wife face-to-face and here what she has to say as well.

Good points girl, you're on a role... But I think Gauri has a certain role to play here. When she strikes back, hopefully she'll be in designer saries, with hair swaying in the wind... and the MD of some major company.

However, she is still to blame to an EXTENT. But I think if they sat and talked about this, a solution could have been reached. Only thing needed was the heart and will to speak by both parties.

Cheers,

dc

wat say guys?.....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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neetu good point of views.. 😊

yeah i agree with you if shiv ends up in the wrong place in his drunken state then that will show his weakness...

thats y i blame shiv not gauri coz i think for once he must have a face to face discussion with his wife and tell the truth and see how gauri reacts..remember gauri is always on the side of truth and that will hurt her if she knows about shiv/ipshy but also she is not a weak character butshe will analyse the matter seriously and take the necessary steps..for me personally i would like gauri to stay put and protect her babiesfrom these two evils and send ipshy back home along with nikhila..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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👏 neetu ,kayatee,saru ,amu ,maragatham i like the thaughts and views .......... 👏 gauri cant be blammed we have to balme shiv ,ippi and nikki also ...............
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Amazing pov's everyone! I must applaud the lone stranger sareeta (dammit :P) here for holding her fort down but I do not concur with your opinion, Missy. I'd love to input my pov here for sticking with Gauri but all the points have already been brought about by khayteee, Neetu, and maragatham! But I definitely respect the difference of opinion we will have on this issue, sareeta and I do respect the fact that you're courageous enough to be on the other end of the issue this time, despite being alone! Now I do realize that many others may share the same opinion as sareeta does, blaming Gauri for being a leech and what not. But at the end of the day, I think otherwise. It is good to see that despite the fact that we all disagree with each other, we have the level of respect and maturity amongst us to not make the discussion a boxing ring. Nobody threw punches around in cheap attempts, rather agreed to disagree on the matter! So my applause to everyone who participated, shared their awesome thoughts here and stayed civil about it! 👏 👏 👏

I personally think that Gauri will be shocked (only natural) to find out about Shiv. Like sareeta pointed, I expect Gauri to "not stand in the way of Shiv and his first love" and walk out of there! Now if she doesn't walk out, then it could be because of her children but since this is a Balaji productions, I do expect her to be shown as being weak and worn down in that instant! I also think that Gauri's portrayal should have been a little bit stronger in her post-pregnancy years! I blame the writers to script her character as a wife having no time for her husband after having 3 kids. However, why can't Shiv simply make time for her then? If he understands that the kid are what's keeping Gauri away from him, then why doesnt he surprise her by taking her away for a romantic night out and away from the shor sharaba of the parties? Have a little one-on-one time? He's a powerful man with tonz of wealth, this shouldn't be a problem for him!!

Another thing that I must mention here is the fact that love takes various forms over time. Where it starts off as an obsession and as a thing that u can't live without, it later on subsides into companionship and friendship as time progresses. This is what happened in Shiv & Gauri's relationship as well. I have observed this and even celebrities like SRK say this.. All the married people here can probably give their input here (ahem.. Di, Iffat, RD..)but after the first few years of marriage, the honeymoon period gets over! U still love the person but life takes over. Now that's not an excuse if u've had kids or have been busy with work to not have time for your spouse! But last time I checked, "Taali aik haath se nahi bajti".. Yes, Gauri is to be blamed for solely devoting herself to the kids but Shiv is no angel here! Instead of showing his wife as a prized possession of his (Re: Shiv wanting to take Gauri to parties and show her off as the "most beautiful wife" and stuff), he could've definitely arranged time out to be with her away from everyone! But reality is that after marriage, the love you share with your spouse for the first few years transcends into other forms as time progresses. True, the "butterflies in your stomach" everytime he looks at you or everytime you kiss when you were just starting out may not be the same anymore, or may be gone, but the LOVE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE if you truly cherish the person.

I think with age and time, love matures and becomes more elegant as well. The same has happened with Gauri and Shiv. With kids being around, Gauri can't go on the rooftops and express her love for Shiv now! She's very particular in what needs to be said and shown in front of the kids as kids these days pick up things fast. So in order to savor their innocence, she's merely being a mature and responsible mother in front of them. Remember, Gauri lost her own mother and she wants to spend each and every moment with her kids because psychologically, she does not want them to endure the absence of a mother in their lives . Can you blame her for doing that? I can't!

I believe love needs no protection. This is what Gauri probably indulges upon as well. Being oblivious to how Shiv left his first love to be with her, she's of the notion that her love for Shiv is evident in the form of their children. She's acting as a typical housewife there. She doesn't feel the urge to work harder on taking time out for Shiv because she firmly believes that her love does not need to protect itself from the world around her as it is true and firm in its place. But she's wrong there and I admit that too! However, if she's wrong here, Shiv should give her a dose of reality and tell her that he feels not so close with her anymore because of this. I bet anything that had she known about Shiv's obsession for Ipshita, she would be acting otherwise. But she's oblivious to all this and believes that Shiv's first love was a figmnet of his imagination and doesn't exist in reality.. But that's a far fetched cry as his obsession still lurks around the Kapoor house despite being married herself.. *sighs*

Anyhow, to sum it up, both parties are at fault but I blame Shiv more here, and that's just the way it is..


Sorry about the post being long 😳 ~

Cheers,
Sana~
Edited by smartc - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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sana fantastic point of views... 👏 👏 👏

ok gauri is at fault not that much but i blame shiv completely..

gauri did say it loud and clear how much she loves shiv but shiv is still keeping this secret of his in the cupboard and talk to her on every occasion..stupid guy talk to your wife instead to a portrait and tell her the truth..

so sana shiv is to be blame coz gauri is unaware of shiv's past who is ipshita and as you said for gauri his "first love was a figmnet of his imagination and doesn't exist in reality"...

shiv is definitely the culprit here ..

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Posted: 19 years ago
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You know what really strikes me mad is that Ipppy and Shiv are the only ones who keep blabbering "Our spouses don't have time for each other, so they are making our relationships weaker", really I wonder how much do they each have on their hands to be thinking about it all the time, when both Anu and Gauri are trying to do their jobs almost perfectly.
If Shiv thought {before the leap} that Ippy was a Goddess, then how come she can leave her paralysed husband in the state he is and jump continents to try and rekindle her relationship with her ex-b/f, what does Shiv have to say about that 😡 doesn't it tell him how self-centered woman she has been her whole life, always thinking about herself and not once care about others?????

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