Arshi: Making Khushi Mine II ~ (THREAD 14)

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Posted: 12 years ago

#901

Originally posted by: shruti46

rehne do phir toh.its way too ;long,,,u guys continue..

ok chaal iska answer de...

what had Karan seen in Arnav to so willingly give Khushi's hand in Arnav...no doubt mostly because that she can permanently stay in RM with his buaji and bade papa...but what had he seen in Arnav?? ...

if it would have been Karan to choose for Khushi than what do you think,whom he would have choosen...Rishabh or Arnav???

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sphobic

ok! di agreed with you...
my point her is that why arnav does everything can be justified and we cant even take a mere desperate for an answer rishabh...
he has a horrible past agreed but rishabh has nothing to do with that...
i may agree that here rishabh's need for khushi is not like arnav ...arnav needs her like a sustenance...

And if rishabh had said the samething about making khushi his ...that he will do whatever it takes to get khushi than u would have justified it? ...

Arnav cant do anything and get away due to his past...now can he???

whn did i judge rishabh fr his desperation???? i just said he is nt as mature as arnav.. which is a fact... owing to the age difference n to the experience in life ...

n whn did i say tht arnav is rt... i always hv maintained tht he is wrong... bt he wil atleast hv a reason to give...reasons on which he had no control... while rishabh wud hv jsut 1 thg... he was desperate...

n i hv also always said.. tht him being desperate is sthg very understandable... we wud all hv been same... just tht we wud all hv dealt with our desperation in our own ways...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#903

Originally posted by: sphobic

favor??
i m really confused how he is doing a favor by using ace card and making her say yes...

I meant in his twisted mind he is doing to her what he thinks she did to him. She worked hard to make him her friend, to be with him. Now he is working towards keeping her with him, forever. She was the one that went after someone like him when no one else bothered to.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: tanu3579

25-30 yrs worth of being cheated... mks sure 11 months dont count... no matter tht person is khushi or anyone else.

plus khushi herself / rather due to rishabh's insistence to b her spokesman, lost the very first chance she had to really prove her trustworthyness to arnav.

it was hte very first time a situation had come, she had to prove the worth of her word... she did give her commitement to arnav, tht rishabh was just a frnd, tht she is willing to marry...
n she cudnt live upto it... i m nt saying.. SHE DIDNT... i m saying SHE CUDNT... it was beyond her control at tht pt... well to some extent...

whn i first read tht she said she needs time... my first thot was... she is considering rishabh's proposal !!, whn i knw tht the story is all abt arnav n khushi being together...
so y shud arnav nt hv thot tht way...

than i think , di that they cant live a happily married life because no matter what happens...a mere misunderstanding and he will start mistrusting khushi even after 4-5 years of their marriage owing to his 25-30 years of being cheated..

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sphobic

than i think , di that they cant live a happily married life because no matter what happens...a mere misunderstanding and he will start mistrusting khushi even after 4-5 years of their marriage owing to his 25-30 years of being cheated..

Maybe that is why he needs an experience like last night to cement his trust in Khushi. Right now he doesn't trust her, but when he sees that there was no reason to do so in the first place, he will realise Khushi didn't betray him. Khushi has taken the first step to clear his doubts by expediting the wedding. She is serious about her commitment.

For Arnav, for words to be enough, he needs the experience to go with it. He needs a good experience to forget the bad.

He was abandoned in his past. To get over it, he needs to see someone stand by him when needed.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sphobic

than i think , di that they cant live a happily married life because no matter what happens...a mere misunderstanding and he will start mistrusting khushi even after 4-5 years of their marriage owing to his 25-30 years of being cheated..

anony already clarified tht... whn she said tht he wud hv his lows... n eventually win over his past fears...

n yes u r rt.. we r all expecting tht... n we r also all expecting khushi to work her way thru his mistrust eventually, so tht he can start trusting her... accepting htt she is nt like everyone else who left him...

i think u or shru... one of u listed the thgs tht needed to b done by arnav n khushi... wasnt this one of those thgs... she has to work hard.. real hard to win his trust... even without this whole rishabh interruption... she wud hv had to do tht..

n i must also say... tht had khushi assured him, with nt asking fr time... she wud hv gained quite a big part of his trust.. rt then n there... i think atleast.. i might b wrong..

bt nw.. she might hv to do a little more than one assurance to mk sure he trusts her completely...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#907

Originally posted by: clover

I meant in his twisted mind he is doing to her what he thinks she did to him. She worked hard to make him her friend, to be with him. Now he is working towards keeping her with him, forever. She was the one that went after someone like him when no one else bothered to.

i dont think so , dear...i cant agree with you on the favor thing...sorry

here in this update i can only make out that he is ready to do anything ,not even thinking about Khushi...

can u give me a line from this update were he is thinking of khushi's benefit...

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sphobic

i dont think so , dear...i cant agree with you on the favor thing...sorry
here in this update i can only make out that he is ready to do anything ,not even thinking about Khushi...
can u give me a line from this update were he is thinking of khushi's benefit...

Right now he isn't thinking about Khushi's benefit. Right now, he is thinking about his own.

He was thinking about Khushi's benefit before he decided on "making Khushi his". Before that he was ready to move away. Then he was content on living in the same house. But once Sumer threatened his life his talks of marriage he went ahead with his own plans.

And also I didn't mean a favor literally as in doing something for her good. Arnav's take on life is that everybody has their own selfish reasons for doing something. That everybody wants to gain something. He has never experienced unconditional love. He doesn't know it nor does he understand it. He too is being selfish. He has his reasons. And they may not be right. But in his opinion he doing doing nothing wrong.

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sphobic

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: clover

Maybe that is why he needs an experience like last night to cement his trust in Khushi. Right now he doesn't trust her, but when he sees that there was no reason to do so in the first place, he will realise Khushi didn't betray him. Khushi has taken the first step to clear his doubts by expediting the wedding. She is serious about her commitment.

For Arnav, for words to be enough, he needs the experience to go with it. He needs a good experience to forget the bad.

He was abandoned in his past. To get over it, he needs to see someone stand by him when needed.

i agree, dear...but Arnav also needs to do something from his side...i cant really digest the fact that its only khushi making him understand everything...because no one has that much patience, and that also when the the other person is ready to misunderstand her at every given opportunity..

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tanu3579

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sphobic

i agree, dear...but Arnav also needs to do something from his side...i cant really digest the fact that its only khushi making him understand everything...because no one has that much patience, and that also when the the other person is ready to misunderstand her at every given opportunity..

this being a public forum spo... all i wud say here is... arnav kind of ppl exist... n khushi kinds too...

i wil also agree to wht u r saying... tht is hw most ppl r... bt its nt tht khushi / arnav kind of ppl dont exist...

in small measures we all hv khushi n arnav in us... i wud explain more in pvt...