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Originally posted by: redapple1
Kools, I beg to differ what you wrote :). That is fun part of being in a forum to discuss. I hold Anandi, Jagya, Shiv, Shekars, Singh's all responsible for this mess. Only Mannu, Nandu and Bhairavi are innocent little babies/kids. Rest all are hypocrites.
Originally posted by: Sheetsden
Where did her righteousness go when she pleaded shiv to marry her. He said its not good to marry this way but she was hell bent on fulfilling her mother's wish. Shiv blind in love or call confidence that she will love him later married her. They both love each other now. Only good advice to anandi is keep away from saanchi and Ira. Just be happy with shiv and do her NGO work. Don't try to become great bahu and solver of all family matters. Ansh were never peaceful in jeytsar or udaipur. Jeytsar DS would bother her married life and here saanchi Ira. Both should be stern to family members to not drag them or they should go to a different city.
Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Yeah she is responsible . Actually for the whole mess .
What she needs to learn1] How to use cell phone2] How to have marital relations with husband3] How to be responsible to families .Cell phone is NOT an ornament . It is not to be used for love talks and random chit chat with maika only . It is with u all the time and it is very much supposed to be used in emergencies .She should have used the cell to intimate Dadisa quietly that the Shekhars were coming to her doorstep with a rishta , that her nanand was thoroughly unsuitable for them and that her position was very delicate so it would be best if the refusal came from THEM .She should have used the cell to tell Dadisa that the muhuraths were fixed . By the girl THEY had selected as the BEST for their son . Dadisa had asked her this on the cell , a return call was a MUST .She should have used the cell immediately after her talk with the pundit and told Shiv about it all and asked him what to do further . By putting onus on him as it was HIS family . Shiv never ignores her calls or her talks however busy he is .Marital relations with husbands r not just romance galore . Bedroom is a sanctum for married couples to share and bond much more beyond romance and sex . Couples relax there , swap day to day happenings , talk . Little unimportant details r exchanged , important details r thrashed out . Anandi never used this space for these things . She could have told Shiv so many things . About her fears about the rishta . About Saanchi's behaviour at her maika . About her knowledge of something brewing between Jagya Ganga . About Saanchi's view of moulding the man according to her tastes but acting as if she was moulding herself for him . About the pundit bribery . About the first overheard conversation . About the latest phone call with Jagya that discosed that he was in Mangalore and a rape attempt was made on Ganga and that he had gone there to help her and was bringing her home .Anandi does not know the first thing of SHARING with a husband , of TALKING with a husband .She also does not know responsible family loyalty . The loyalty that she defines is lop sided and sitting on dirty secrets and protecting a family member . No . One has to know how to firmly manage BOTH the families . The Singhs brought her up , spent for her and her marraige and re settled her . Went against own blood for her . They deserve to know if the girl is unsuitable as THEIR life is on the line . The Sasural SHOULD know if their girl is doing dirty deeds .She also does not know PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY ... a value very individual but a must in character building . Jagya stood in the marraige market for her sake . Due to HER advice . It was mandatory she had a private talk with him about her fears that the rishta going his way was unsuitable . Again , she did not use the cell to apprise him of this fact . Jagya too does not ignore her talks .This whole mess ...created by one thing leading to another snowballed into what it became eventually bcoz of her famous silences .She will pay for her inept handling of the situation and protecting a snake . I don't feel sorry for her coz she looked out for her happiness via her sasural's happiness and was ok with the fact that the Singhs may suffer badly for life if this experiment went wrong . She was ok if Jagya suffered a third time ...he had trusted her blindly in this matter . All that mattered to her was keeping nanand and saas happy so she could be happy in her marital life . So she gave saas the right answers always ...the answers that put her in a happy mood . I will groom your daughter . Your daughter has really changed for the better .When in reality she had observed a lot .She should have stayed away from it all the moment the rishta was taken without including her in the discussion . Getting this involved in it after such an insult was devaluing herself .She devalued Shiv too when Sanchi decared it was ok if he was not in the engagement and she took no offence as an elder bhabhi but smiled .She does not know how marital life is conducted ...there r many aspects to it . Loyalty to ur first family , surviving in ur sasural , protecting husband's honor , showing your own indivduality not by feminist tantrums but quiet dignity .I don't feel sorry for her as she invited it all ...i lost sympathy for her the night she fired Jagya and later on trod on eggshells around Saanchi but as a woman my blood will boil at her domestic abuse at her new sasural with saas and nanand flogging her and husband looking mutely on .
Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Yeah she is responsible . Actually for the whole mess .
What she needs to learn1] How to use cell phone2] How to have marital relations with husband3] How to be responsible to families .Cell phone is NOT an ornament . It is not to be used for love talks and random chit chat with maika only . It is with u all the time and it is very much supposed to be used in emergencies .She should have used the cell to intimate Dadisa quietly that the Shekhars were coming to her doorstep with a rishta , that her nanand was thoroughly unsuitable for them and that her position was very delicate so it would be best if the refusal came from THEM .She should have used the cell to tell Dadisa that the muhuraths were fixed . By the girl THEY had selected as the BEST for their son . Dadisa had asked her this on the cell , a return call was a MUST .She should have used the cell immediately after her talk with the pundit and told Shiv about it all and asked him what to do further . By putting onus on him as it was HIS family . Shiv never ignores her calls or her talks however busy he is .Marital relations with husbands r not just romance galore . Bedroom is a sanctum for married couples to share and bond much more beyond romance and sex . Couples relax there , swap day to day happenings , talk . Little unimportant details r exchanged , important details r thrashed out . Anandi never used this space for these things . She could have told Shiv so many things . About her fears about the rishta . About Saanchi's behaviour at her maika . About her knowledge of something brewing between Jagya Ganga . About Saanchi's view of moulding the man according to her tastes but acting as if she was moulding herself for him . About the pundit bribery . About the first overheard conversation . About the latest phone call with Jagya that discosed that he was in Mangalore and a rape attempt was made on Ganga and that he had gone there to help her and was bringing her home .Anandi does not know the first thing of SHARING with a husband , of TALKING with a husband .She also does not know responsible family loyalty . The loyalty that she defines is lop sided and sitting on dirty secrets and protecting a family member . No . One has to know how to firmly manage BOTH the families . The Singhs brought her up , spent for her and her marraige and re settled her . Went against own blood for her . They deserve to know if the girl is unsuitable as THEIR life is on the line . The Sasural SHOULD know if their girl is doing dirty deeds .She also does not know PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY ... a value very individual but a must in character building . Jagya stood in the marraige market for her sake . Due to HER advice . It was mandatory she had a private talk with him about her fears that the rishta going his way was unsuitable . Again , she did not use the cell to apprise him of this fact . Jagya too does not ignore her talks .This whole mess ...created by one thing leading to another snowballed into what it became eventually bcoz of her famous silences .She will pay for her inept handling of the situation and protecting a snake . I don't feel sorry for her coz she looked out for her happiness via her sasural's happiness and was ok with the fact that the Singhs may suffer badly for life if this experiment went wrong . She was ok if Jagya suffered a third time ...he had trusted her blindly in this matter . All that mattered to her was keeping nanand and saas happy so she could be happy in her marital life . So she gave saas the right answers always ...the answers that put her in a happy mood . I will groom your daughter . Your daughter has really changed for the better .When in reality she had observed a lot .She should have stayed away from it all the moment the rishta was taken without including her in the discussion . Getting this involved in it after such an insult was devaluing herself .She devalued Shiv too when Sanchi decared it was ok if he was not in the engagement and she took no offence as an elder bhabhi but smiled .She does not know how marital life is conducted ...there r many aspects to it . Loyalty to ur first family , surviving in ur sasural , protecting husband's honor , showing your own indivduality not by feminist tantrums but quiet dignity .I don't feel sorry for her as she invited it all ...i lost sympathy for her the night she fired Jagya and later on trod on eggshells around Saanchi but as a woman my blood will boil at her domestic abuse at her new sasural with saas and nanand flogging her and husband looking mutely on .
Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
in fact i feel even sumitra is a better wife to bhairon than anandi to shiv. we have seen over the years how sumitra and bhairon share things with each other in their room n take each others advice. but anandi always fails to tell shiv important thngs.very well said
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